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I Would Never Intentionally Hurt Someone

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    You don't get to choose

    if you get hurt in this world, but you do have a say in who hurts you.
    CriminalMinds14 CriminalMinds14 18-21, F Jun 16, 2014

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    stanmagicman2 stanmagicman2 13-15, M Dec 8, 2014

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    Never With Intention...

    I have hurt a lot of people... Unintentionally but I did.. I know I am human, so I make a lot of mistakes. But I tend to be a bit harsh to myself. I feel blame deeply. People do not notice that... When I realize I have hurt someone I have not a problem to apologize... But sadly...
    TheemopandaX TheemopandaX 18-21, F Sep 1, 2013

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    But it seems all I do is just that.

    ..hurt people..I mean why else would everyone just abruptly leave me all alone.
    MysticIllusions MysticIllusions 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    I am a nice person. I'm not saying

    that I will never hurt someone, but I can promise it will never be intentional. I try to be honest, and if I open up and let you into my life, I care deeply. I would NEVER intentionally hurt someone. EVER!
    scorpio1106 scorpio1106 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 9, 2014

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    So It Hurts When Someone Thinks That I Did!

    The Title says it all for me - I try so so so hard not to hurt people intentionally, so it truly hurts my feelings when someone accuses me of that.  I don't even like it when I hurt someone unintentionally. I am a people-pleaser - I am not sure I would wish that...
    DorothyofOz DorothyofOz 41-45, F 5 Responses May 12, 2009

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    Unintentional hurt can be life shattering.

    She was my best friend... I loved her. She always had a smile and a warm hug ready every time we saw each other. She loved me.... Her past was haunted... Abuse I did not know of. I could hold back no more and told her I loved her.. I wished I could be with her forever...
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer 46-50, M Feb 21, 2014

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    So Karma Bites Me?

    I've been hurt a lot. Due to my goodness towards them. But why would I hurt someone? Karma always get them back... and it could come in any way shape or form. That's not something I'd wanna live with wondering each day. Besides... just be good to ppl and if they hurt you, screw...
    khushali11 khushali11 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    I have hurt people. I know that.

    I know that my actions in the past have caused others pain. I know that my actions in the future will cause pain. The fact is that no one can ever know who will be harmed by even the most seemingly helpful action. By helping one we may harm another without ever even being aware...
    FriendlyBryan FriendlyBryan 41-45, M Feb 4, 2014

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    I would never hurt someone intentionally.

    It's mean and unwise. I've been a victim of such sorts & I'm not angry with myself as much as I am feeling pity for that person. He'll be a lonely mf'r for a long time
    IntomeYousee IntomeYousee 36-40, F Jul 1, 2014

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    candycc12 candycc12 26-30, F Dec 8, 2014

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    I can hurt people. I could probably destroy

    them fairly easily with anything I say but what's the point in it. it just causes more of a headache later on. even if people are terrible to me I don't hurt them because I know I could do worse to them if I really wanted to. why do people feel the need to cause more...
    pikapup17 pikapup17 18-21 Dec 8, 2014

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    Said I never meant to hurt you,

    and never to scare you Said I only wanted to love you and please you Said I only wanted your visions to come true Said don't be afraid and run from me now Said we're in too deep and leaves without a trace and never looks back....
    LosNLove LosNLove 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 3, 2014

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    Even Though I Have Been Damaged By Others.

    I love and support completely. If I have to tell someoe bad news, I always say sorry. To inflict Pain of any kind (that is non-consensual) is not why I am here on this Good green Earth. I would rather hurt myself, then hurt another.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 2 Responses May 11, 2008

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    I Really Don'T Mean To

    yeah i have a big mouth alright, sometimes i hurt people even though i never mean to, but people who don't know me would think I'm a jerk, and people who do know me won't understand, I hate the fact that somebody isn't on good terms with me even if they were total strangers. all...
    Solitaire91 Solitaire91 22-25, M May 4, 2013

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    I Just Could'nt Hurt You !

    I will admit to saying something hurtfull to my spouse in the heat of the moment...this was normally in reply to something he had said to me. But he always knew how to hurt me....that was until i stopped caring and loving him. His tongue was vicious...vile...and upsetting,he...
    feetdreams feetdreams 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 14, 2011

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    It's Not a Part of Who I Am............

    I have hurt people, but it's always without cruelty or forethought. I don't sit around planning how to cause as much pain as possible in as few words as possible. That's not the way I'm made. I have lashed out when provoked, hurt, or for a friend. That is all. If I hurt a friend...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 13, 2009

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    Normally

    When someone inflicts pain upon me on purpose I find it a little easier to cut them back. Of course, later I feel horrible about it. Even when I cause pain on accident it makes me feel like total crap. I just can't bring myself to cause pain to another intentionally.
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40, T Oct 6, 2013

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    Not Me

    I want to be happy and smiling. I would never intetionally hate hurt someone just to give myself the satisfaction of being happy. . . smiling in behalf of others evils.
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    I never meant to hurt him.

    I couldent do a long distance relationship and I needed a break from him anyway, he was coming on wayy too strong. I hurt him so badly and I hate myself for it
    jselena jselena 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 7, 2014

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    Regardless I Blame Myself

    I don like hurting people but I guess most people don't too.. be it unintentionally or intentionally, I don't like it. If I happen to unintentionally hurt anyone I would blame myself. Even if it is clearly not my fault. But I just feel if someone get hurt here and I play a part...
    LuCiFeRz LuCiFeRz 18-21, F Oct 28, 2013

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    candycc12 candycc12 26-30, F Dec 8, 2014

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    Yet I get hurt by people Some men here don't

    know how to behave with women.It is our mistake that we trust such people.One of my friends here is deeply hurt and crying her heart out.I am much too strong for that but recently I have been hurt badly too.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2014

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    I could never ever intentionally hurt someone

    unless they were to do something that hurt me or the person I love. But besides that if I hurt you it wasn't on purpose. Sometimes I just don't think before I talk :)
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Dec 7, 2014

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    I hate hurting people on accident

    so I can't see my self hurting someone for fun.
    Deuz Deuz 18-21, M Dec 8, 2014

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    But unintentional hurt seems inevitable

    when dealing with human beings. It especially hard to face when you hurt someone you love and never get to apologize.
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 29, 2014

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    I Have Hurt Someone

    I can have all the reasons why I did what I did and throw in a few "but this and but that".  The responsible person would be accountable for their actions.  Even if the action was done in good cause.  It's just not OK to hurt someone.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 7, 2008

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    Oh well I would never do it.

    But not everyone is like me.I have been blocked twice by people for no apparent reason.People in my circle know I hardly fight with anyone here.This is life.
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F Aug 26, 2014

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    Even when I hurt someone unintentionally,

    I have trouble forgiving myself and living with what I did. Life is all about making mistakes - and that means hurting people is inevitable. But my over active imagination tortures me every time.
    PopcornForDinner PopcornForDinner 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 31, 2014

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    Because of what I do (my job)

    but unfortunately also with age..., I'm becoming a cranky and bossy kind of person - which I hate. It's strange though, because usually I'm patient and tolerant with people. I respect all people that surround me in my life and people that I've never seen before all the same and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 30, 2014

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    Never ever would I intentionally hurt someone.

    Even if I don't like them, I wouldn't hurt them.
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    Happy ?

    I love making people smile. It makes me happy ! (I catch these words on a friend header...sorry dear...)..LOlz
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 19, 2012

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    Abusive People.

    **** them all.                  
    southernbelle864 southernbelle864 18-21, F Feb 5, 2012

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    Sometimes I say mean things

    when I'm mad but I don't mean to hurt people. I wouldn't want to physically hurt someone or something. We are all gods creation and he wants us to respect one another and not harm each other
    GeorgiaAlicee GeorgiaAlicee 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26, 2014

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    NO, I would never intentionally hurt someone.

    .. Unless they were asking for it :/ Brain : Boooo, you suck! Me: -.- ... Hey Brain what did you end up doing with Hector's body ;) Brain: What ARE you thinking PERV :{o Me: Me, nothing ~_~' Brain: Good let's keep it that way punk :{| Me: I got THINK a little ~_~ Brain: Do you...
    SquirrellyGal2493 SquirrellyGal2493 18-21 Jan 2, 2014

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    My love is 23 years older

    than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't quite ready to explore my spirituality. At the beggining of the year we got back into contact and basically fell in love over...
    candycc12 candycc12 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    It Is Difficult

    Many times I find that the words I use or the position I take hurt someones feelings.   My intentions are good and I even mean to be supportive, but for reasons I have difficulty in understanding, it gets back to me that I hurt someones feelings. When that happens I get...
    francis28340 francis28340 61-65, M 2 Responses Jul 16, 2008

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    I'm Sorry If I Ever Do

    I know I've been writing a lot of controversial stories lately.  I was extremely angry when I wrote one of them.  And sometimes it may seem that I'm judging or trying to hurt people.  I just want to say I'm not...I'm only trying to help.  I'm a very moral...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 34 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    Not My Character..

    ..nor my style..I get no pleasure in other's misery...mystifies me when some do... guess that is the only way they can fulfill their need for superiority..
    txwoman2 txwoman2 36-40, F Feb 13, 2010

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    There is no need for anybody to worry about

    this. My conscience would not let me do anything that would hurt somebody.
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 11, 2014

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    Grandmother

    Typically, when one thinks of a grandmother, their thoughts are of a doting, loving, caring woman.  A  woman who likes children, and loves her grandchildren to pieces. That was not my grandmother.Trips to visit my grandmother were wrought with anxiety.  "Don't eat that in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 10, 2011

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    God is of love and I choose to follow in his

    footsteps. Hurting people that I love or people in General is never in my attentions.
    kissssmykiki kissssmykiki 22-25, F Jul 29, 2014

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    It's A Selfish Act

    I hate it when people hurt others for their own pleasure. It is selfish, and if you never considered the feelings of another person while you do it...then you are, as a matter of fact, extremely selfish. Life is about looking at the world in another person's perspective. To be...
    iEatFood iEatFood 13-15 Oct 7, 2013

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