I Would Never Intentionally Hurt Someone

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    I Have Hurt Someone

    I can have all the reasons why I did what I did and throw in a few "but this and but that".  The responsible person would be accountable for their actions.  Even if the action was done in good cause.  It's just not OK to hurt someone.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Nov 7, 2008

    I need a man who would love

    and accept me for who I am, someone who will text to check on me and always longing to spend his life making each other happy.
    faithfultobeloved faithfultobeloved
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 25, 2015

    No because everyone has feelings

    and I know how it feels for them to be broken.it's not the best feeling
    cieloissky cieloissky
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 17
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    4 Responses Mar 9

    Because of what I do (my job)

    but unfortunately also with age..., I'm becoming a cranky and bossy kind of person - which I hate. It's strange though, because usually I'm patient and tolerant with people. I respect all people that surround me in my life and people that I've never seen before all the same and...
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    1 Response Apr 30, 2014

    I do not understand people

    who get a kick out of hurting someone. It holds no charms for me.
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    3 Responses Jan 31

    And if I somehow manage to hurt you,

    please tell me what I did. However, please don't mess with me. I have Asperger's, and I will not know the difference between a joke, and a real situation in which I hurt someone.
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999
    16-17, M
    Nov 13, 2015

    But if you hurt my loved ones I will make an

    exception then you're f$&@ed lol.
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    1 Response Nov 20, 2015

    Last night I was soo drunk

    and I've proposed my friend and she accepts my proposal although I don't love her at all. Just now I've told her that I was drunk last night and I don't love you at all. Please don't take my words seriously I was unconscious that time. And now she is crying like hell :( just...
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    4 Responses Dec 10, 2015

    Sometimes I say mean things

    when I'm mad but I don't mean to hurt people. I wouldn't want to physically hurt someone or something. We are all gods creation and he wants us to respect one another and not harm each other
    GeorgiaAlicee GeorgiaAlicee
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 26, 2014

    It's never my intention to hurt someone.

    If i've ever done so I'm typically unaware, but once it's been brought to my attention I own up to it. Just proves that I am only human I make mistakes. Every move that I make I try to think it out fully so no one does get hurt, but it never ends well. Despite popular belief I'm...
    PoisonousWolf PoisonousWolf
    22-25, F
    Mar 16

    I deeply regret actions

    and words that have hurt relationships I came to enjoy and rely on the companionship of. The amount patience and support bestowed, reflected in a mirror, I did not deserve. With deep humility I admit I have made mistakes I am not proud of. My heart is heavy and my mind is...
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    1 Response Jul 28, 2015

    You don't get to choose

    if you get hurt in this world, but you do have a say in who hurts you.
    CriminalMinds14 CriminalMinds14
    18-21, F
    Jun 16, 2014

    Never With Intention...

    I have hurt a lot of people... Unintentionally but I did.. I know I am human, so I make a lot of mistakes. But I tend to be a bit harsh to myself. I feel blame deeply. People do not notice that... When I realize I have hurt someone I have not a problem to apologize... But sadly...
    TheemopandaX TheemopandaX
    18-21, F
    Sep 1, 2013
    purplel37 purplel37
    51-55, F
    Aug 30, 2015

    My mother in law raped my brother in law

    when he was little! He was a mess on drugs and alcohol and finally committed suicide. I believe my husband was molested or raped too but has pushed the memories down! My brother in law told his father, and sister but they did not tell the mother until I confronted them after his...
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    2 Responses Feb 21

    Dear, Breaking WInd Golden's Goose.

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    flipperpatch flipperpatch
    36-40, F
    Mar 16

    But I did. And I hurt the person

    who means more to me than anything in the world. I'm not going to get into details but I did something vey selfish and insensitive. No excuses. I f**ked up. The last thing I want is this woman to be hurt by anybody let alone the man she loves. I hope she can forgive me.
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    3 Responses Dec 9, 2015

    So when a friend mad at me wants me to sulk,

    I refused & worked instead.. She ran. Then she moves & I go to a community event instead of being suicidal. She won't even meet me at church so I am meeting a friend at Fazzoli's. I would have not had she been willing to be with me, & work it out. But, she chose that.
    poiemajeremiah poiemajeremiah
    36-40, M
    Aug 15, 2015

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    julieccaa11 julieccaa11
    26-30, F
    Dec 10, 2015

    but it never makes the hurt any different in

    fact i found people will trust you less than people who hurt others on intentionally because they have control of it..
    statically statically
    26-30, M
    Mar 5

    I am not a person who enjoys

    or looks for someone to hurt. I have been hurt enough as a child. So I would go out of my way to help and prevent someone from being hurt.
    Gambler715 Gambler715
    51-55, M
    Dec 11, 2015

    I am a nice person. I'm not saying

    that I will never hurt someone, but I can promise it will never be intentional. I try to be honest, and if I open up and let you into my life, I care deeply. I would NEVER intentionally hurt someone. EVER!
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Jan 9, 2014

    Even Though I Have Been Damaged By Others.

    I love and support completely. If I have to tell someoe bad news, I always say sorry. To inflict Pain of any kind (that is non-consensual) is not why I am here on this Good green Earth. I would rather hurt myself, then hurt another.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 11, 2008

    Yep, but sometimes unknowingly my words

    or actions may hurt my people. I can't change the past, sad moments because of me, but I definitely say sorry and promise to try not to hurt
    bak4u bak4u
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 11

    I am just not that type of man,

    it is not in my character.
    1niceguy4u 1niceguy4u
    51-55, M
    Sep 30, 2015

    But it amazes me how others are

    so thoughtless and give little regard to the way they come across to me. I've helped and listened to friends (past and present) and to be honest, l am ⚇ at their present attitudes. I am who l am, like it or lump it. You don't want to be my friend, so be it, I'll survive...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Nov 23, 2015

    But unintentional hurt seems inevitable

    when dealing with human beings. It especially hard to face when you hurt someone you love and never get to apologize.
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jul 29, 2014

    My main personal motto is"treat others the way

    would like to be treated" and this has worked,if I am abt to do something wrong to someone I stop and ask myself, "wat if someone did that to me?"
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    1 Response Mar 16

    I have hurt people. I know that.

    I know that my actions in the past have caused others pain. I know that my actions in the future will cause pain. The fact is that no one can ever know who will be harmed by even the most seemingly helpful action. By helping one we may harm another without ever even being aware...
    FriendlyBryan FriendlyBryan
    46-50, M
    Feb 4, 2014
    Bakary1000 Bakary1000
    18-21, M
    Mar 29

    No. Each hurt takes the shine out of our

    spirits. Brings them down to a low that may be tough to come out of. Why do that to someone? Why take the shine out of them?
    lifealwayschanges lifealwayschanges
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jun 25, 2015

    I could never ever intentionally hurt someone

    unless they were to do something that hurt me or the person I love. But besides that if I hurt you it wasn't on purpose. Sometimes I just don't think before I talk :)
    Raptax231 Raptax231
    22-25, M
    Dec 7, 2014

    Why would YOU then !!

    !! Guess you were avenging others , someone, something or i am stupid i would tread towards you just to annihilate my existence and yet ... I am not dead yet ... A living corpse that had to raise young ones, a dead person bringin up new lives .... With a dead heart dead soul and...
    anasteel2 anasteel2
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 22

    but.... so more and more,

    I'm fearing this just is no longer true for me. I was a really awful person who hurt a lot of people and came too close to murdering my dad but my then friend, now husband stopped me. I was 18 then. at 22 I changed. like a total 180. I never hurt anyone and would have hurt...
    erayn erayn
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 17

    I would never say something hurtful to someone,

    but don't get me wrong.. If someone has some mean **** to say about me, best believe I'm going to have something not so very nice to say right back to them. Don't come at me with bullshit if you can't handle the backlash!
    breannzy breannzy
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 16, 2015

    I try my best to understand

    why others do. I for one could never.
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    2 Responses Mar 9

    I hurt someone recently.

    it wasn't on purpose. I just wasn't ready to love someone. I did tell them from the beginning. the problem for me is that this person claimed they had loved me quite early on and I felt under pressure to give them a chance. and speed my my heart to feel the same. massive massive...
    justlilyg justlilyg
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 2

    Never ever would I intentionally hurt someone.

    Even if I don't like them, I wouldn't hurt them.
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 8, 2014

    I Just Could'nt Hurt You !

    I will admit to saying something hurtfull to my spouse in the heat of the moment...this was normally in reply to something he had said to me. But he always knew how to hurt me....that was until i stopped caring and loving him. His tongue was vicious...vile...and upsetting,he...
    feetdreams feetdreams
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Dec 14, 2011


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    5 Responses Nov 10, 2011

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    46-50, F
    Sep 22, 2015

    Except for her... The next time I see her I'm

    gonna practice my 1 2 on her face
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    1 Response Aug 22, 2015

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