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I Would Never Intentionally Hurt Someone

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    It's A Selfish Act

    I hate it when people hurt others for their own pleasure. It is selfish, and if you never considered the feelings of another person while you do it...then you are, as a matter of fact, extremely selfish. Life is about looking at the world in another person's perspective. To be...
    iEatFood iEatFood 13-15 Oct 7, 2013

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    Can't Do It

    I have been hurt growing up by numerous people and some might say I have every reason to go back to them. I could never do that, though, because I am better than they are/were (those who took advantage of me). I know fights are inevitable with family, relationships, or whatever...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Apr 3, 2012

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    I Have Hurt Someone

    I can have all the reasons why I did what I did and throw in a few "but this and but that".  The responsible person would be accountable for their actions.  Even if the action was done in good cause.  It's just not OK to hurt someone.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 7, 2008

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    I Did Though

    i did though and i wish i hadnt but wishes dont always come true and i you cant change the past. i hope though that the person i hurt knows im very sorry.
    trinity2071 trinity2071 18-21, F Jan 15, 2012

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    Unintentional hurt can be life shattering.

    She was my best friend... I loved her. She always had a smile and a warm hug ready every time we saw each other. She loved me.... Her past was haunted... Abuse I did not know of. I could hold back no more and told her I loved her.. I wished I could be with her forever...
    popuptarget popuptarget 46-50, M Feb 21

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    Never Really Understood.

    Why are some people so cruel on purpose? I don't care what you've been through it doesn't give you the right to hurt someone. I hate people who judge you right off the bat. Everyone has their own battles to fight what gives a particular person the right to put them down. I have...
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2012

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    Never

     I have been hurt enough in my life to know what that feels like. Even if I had not been, I can not fathom the idea of being cruel to another human being for any good reason.  
    SteelCityGirl74 SteelCityGirl74 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 17, 2008

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    Who would clam otherwise?

    Really who is the person out there that say's I really need to hurt this person. Maybe they need to get some help.
    fireyes fireyes 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    Not Me

    I want to be happy and smiling. I would never intetionally hate hurt someone just to give myself the satisfaction of being happy. . . smiling in behalf of others evils.
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    Regardless I Blame Myself

    I don like hurting people but I guess most people don't too.. be it unintentionally or intentionally, I don't like it. If I happen to unintentionally hurt anyone I would blame myself. Even if it is clearly not my fault. But I just feel if someone get hurt here and I play a part...
    LuCiFeRz LuCiFeRz 18-21, F Oct 28, 2013

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    I Truly Don't Want To Hurt You...

    ..in that moment when I realized that I was going to hurt you... ....I wished I'd had a rewind button... ... I wished we could've traveled back in time... ...to another place, before I had that kind of power.
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley 26-30, F Jul 2, 2012

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    I Would Never Intentionally Hurt Someone

    the tittle says  it all I would neverf intentionally hurt someone.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Jan 24, 2012

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    To A Fault, I Think Of How The Other Person Might Feel, Before I Consider My Own Feelings ...

    therefore, I believe I'm incapable of consciously inflicting pain or harm on another human being. All of my life, I was told to "stop and put yourself in ___'s place. Would you want to think, feel, believe those thoughts?". This way of considering my words, rehearsing what I...
    angelwings626 angelwings626 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2010

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    How Could Anyone Do This?

    I've had my feelings hurt and not just my feelings, so why anyone would ever THINK to do this is really odd to me... I know I have hurt someone's feelings by accident and I punished myself and prayed to God to forgive me for even doing it by accident.... Here is that one story...
    stigmafree stigmafree 31-35 1 Response Jan 19, 2011

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    I Just Couldnt!!

    well,as the old saying goes, "i couldnt hurt a fly", and thats so true, i would never do anything to hurt anyone!! well, not intentionally anyway!!
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 4 Responses Feb 8, 2012

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    I Just Could'nt Hurt You !

    I will admit to saying something hurtfull to my spouse in the heat of the moment...this was normally in reply to something he had said to me. But he always knew how to hurt me....that was until i stopped caring and loving him. His tongue was vicious...vile...and upsetting,he...
    feetdreams feetdreams 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 14, 2011

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    So It Hurts When Someone Thinks That I Did!

    The Title says it all for me - I try so so so hard not to hurt people intentionally, so it truly hurts my feelings when someone accuses me of that.  I don't even like it when I hurt someone unintentionally. I am a people-pleaser - I am not sure I would wish that...
    DorothyofOz DorothyofOz 41-45, F 5 Responses May 12, 2009

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    NO, I would never intentionally hurt someone.

    .. Unless they were asking for it :/ Brain : Boooo, you suck! Me: -.- ... Hey Brain what did you end up doing with Hector's body ;) Brain: What ARE you thinking PERV :{o Me: Me, nothing ~_~' Brain: Good let's keep it that way punk :{| Me: I got THINK a little ~_~ Brain: Do you...
    SquirrellyGal2493 SquirrellyGal2493 18-21 Jan 2

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    It Is Difficult

    Many times I find that the words I use or the position I take hurt someones feelings.   My intentions are good and I even mean to be supportive, but for reasons I have difficulty in understanding, it gets back to me that I hurt someones feelings. When that happens I get...
    francis28340 francis28340 61-65, M 2 Responses Jul 16, 2008

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    Unless I Got Hurt First By The Person

    I respect everyone has their own way to live their live, but they do certain things to get in my way. I will not tolerate it.
    MissisNobody MissisNobody 18-21, F Dec 25, 2011

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    I have hurt people. I know that.

    I know that my actions in the past have caused others pain. I know that my actions in the future will cause pain. The fact is that no one can ever know who will be harmed by even the most seemingly helpful action. By helping one we may harm another without ever even being aware...
    FriendlyBryan FriendlyBryan 41-45, M Feb 4

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    So Karma Bites Me?

    I've been hurt a lot. Due to my goodness towards them. But why would I hurt someone? Karma always get them back... and it could come in any way shape or form. That's not something I'd wanna live with wondering each day. Besides... just be good to ppl and if they hurt you, screw...
    khushali11 khushali11 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    I Really Don'T Mean To

    yeah i have a big mouth alright, sometimes i hurt people even though i never mean to, but people who don't know me would think I'm a jerk, and people who do know me won't understand, I hate the fact that somebody isn't on good terms with me even if they were total strangers. all...
    LoneDovahKiin LoneDovahKiin 22-25, M May 4, 2013

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    Can't Stand It!!!

    I can't stand hurting people unless they deserve it and even then I usually don't feel real good about it. If I hurt someone emotionally - even by accident, I want to hurt myself physically to atone. I realize it sounds like a blessing but it can be a curse just as well...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 18, 2009

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    I never meant to hurt him.

    I couldent do a long distance relationship and I needed a break from him anyway, he was coming on wayy too strong. I hurt him so badly and I hate myself for it
    jselena jselena 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Sometimes I say mean things

    when I'm mad but I don't mean to hurt people. I wouldn't want to physically hurt someone or something. We are all gods creation and he wants us to respect one another and not harm each other
    GeorgiaAlicee GeorgiaAlicee 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Because of what I do (my job)

    but unfortunately also with age..., I'm becoming a cranky and bossy kind of person - which I hate. It's strange though, because usually I'm patient and tolerant with people. I respect all people that surround me in my life and people that I've never seen before all the same and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 30

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    It's Not a Part of Who I Am............

    I have hurt people, but it's always without cruelty or forethought. I don't sit around planning how to cause as much pain as possible in as few words as possible. That's not the way I'm made. I have lashed out when provoked, hurt, or for a friend. That is all. If I hurt a friend...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 13, 2009

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    What Would Be The Point?

    It doesn't give me a thrill.  Heck I don't even like to hurt people that hurt me.  
    EyzofBlue EyzofBlue 36-40, F Jan 24, 2012

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    Even Though I Have Been Damaged By Others.

    I love and support completely. If I have to tell someoe bad news, I always say sorry. To inflict Pain of any kind (that is non-consensual) is not why I am here on this Good green Earth. I would rather hurt myself, then hurt another.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 2 Responses May 11, 2008

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    I would never hurt someone intentionally.

    It's mean and unwise. I've been a victim of such sorts & I'm not angry with myself as much as I am feeling pity for that person. He'll be a lonely mf'r for a long time
    IntomeYousee IntomeYousee 36-40, F Jul 1

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    Grandmother

    Typically, when one thinks of a grandmother, their thoughts are of a doting, loving, caring woman.  A  woman who likes children, and loves her grandchildren to pieces. That was not my grandmother.Trips to visit my grandmother were wrought with anxiety.  "Don't eat that in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 10, 2011

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    NEVER Intentionally

    I hate to be hurt intentionally but sometimes it happens and though that person may not may not even care and that's what hurts the most so in return I would never hurt someone intentionally of course there were times when I wasn't honest or trustworthy or talked before I thought...
    sleepingangel sleepingangel 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 30, 2009

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    Never With Intention...

    I have hurt a lot of people... Unintentionally but I did.. I know I am human, so I make a lot of mistakes. But I tend to be a bit harsh to myself. I feel blame deeply. People do not notice that... When I realize I have hurt someone I have not a problem to apologize... But sadly...
    TheemopandaX TheemopandaX 18-21, F Sep 1, 2013

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    I Can't...

    I would NEVER ever Ever Interntionally hurt someone. Its not me. I don't understand why some people THRIVE on hurting people. I have seen it done, some people feel so bad about themselves, that they just have to hurt others. Its so ****** up, and so messed up. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 14, 2010

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    Happy ?

    I love making people smile. It makes me happy ! (I catch these words on a friend header...sorry dear...)..LOlz
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 19, 2012

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    Not My Character..

    ..nor my style..I get no pleasure in other's misery...mystifies me when some do... guess that is the only way they can fulfill their need for superiority..
    txwoman2 txwoman2 36-40, F Feb 13, 2010

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    You don't get to choose

    if you get hurt in this world, but you do have a say in who hurts you.
    CriminalMinds14 CriminalMinds14 18-21, F Jun 16

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    Never Intentionally

    I can't say that I will never hurt you, never say something that may wound you, upset you, or affect you negatively - I am human, I have emotions, I have my own issues and insecurities, I have a temper and I am fallible, but this promise i make to you - i will Never, Ever...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    Not On Purpose!

    I never would hurt anyone on purpose but I think I already have on here. My sense of humor is my enemy. What I write jokingly I think has been taken seriously AND what I have written seriously has been taken jokingly. I ran across this site by complete accident but I love it...
    Cntryloner Cntryloner 51-55, F 4 Responses Mar 9, 2009

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    Abusive People.

    **** them all.                  
    southernbelle864 southernbelle864 18-21, F Feb 5, 2012

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    Normally

    When someone inflicts pain upon me on purpose I find it a little easier to cut them back. Of course, later I feel horrible about it. Even when I cause pain on accident it makes me feel like total crap. I just can't bring myself to cause pain to another intentionally.
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 Oct 6, 2013

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    I am a nice person. I'm not saying

    that I will never hurt someone, but I can promise it will never be intentional. I try to be honest, and if I open up and let you into my life, I care deeply. I would NEVER intentionally hurt someone. EVER!
    smhinterrupted smhinterrupted 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 9

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    I'm Sorry If I Ever Do

    I know I've been writing a lot of controversial stories lately.  I was extremely angry when I wrote one of them.  And sometimes it may seem that I'm judging or trying to hurt people.  I just want to say I'm not...I'm only trying to help.  I'm a very moral...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 34 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    I hurt an amazing woman. I wish she would forgive me.I realized too late that she meant the world to me. I would do anything to have her back in my life.
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