I Would Never Tell You I Loved You If I Didn't Mean It

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    Dear Shammu , 6 months back ,

    I had no idea who you were and one day you just walked into my life , I didn't think I'd ever fall for you and I did , i fell hopelessly in love with you and now you're gone .. I miss your calls , I miss your texts , I miss you waking me up everyday , I miss talking to you for...
    rifki rifki
    18-21, M
    Mar 10, 2015

    I really don't see how people could just say

    that and not mean it just don't say something you don't mean it's not that hard
    mia16 mia16
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 13, 2015

    Big Mistake

    Lesson learned. I told my first boyfriend I loved him when I didn't- it was over 10 years ago but I remember it so clearly. We were on the phone. I was in the big open kosher kitchen of my parents' house. The messy phone desk with bills and papers...
    Fallflower Fallflower
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Dec 22, 2008

    Me tooooo!!♡♡!!!!

    !!!!!!!!i wish i had someone like louis
    gaziraisa gaziraisa
    13-15, F
    Oct 5, 2015

    I think that the words I love you are spacial

    and I don't play around and say them to just anybody. I say them to people I care about and that are EXTREMELY special to me.
    BeautifulDayDream BeautifulDayDream
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2014

    Did You Remember....

    If in this lifetime, I wont get to have you, I'll make sure that when I meet you in my next life I wont have to think twice on saying that "I waited a lifetime to say I love you..." If You Love Me Like You Told Me Please Be Careful With My Heart. You Can Take It Just Don't...
    LadyGeorgiaBulldog LadyGeorgiaBulldog
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Nov 5, 2011

    Knock knock! Who’s there?

    Olive. Olive who? Olive you!
    jml2000 jml2000
    61-65, M
    1 Response Jun 4, 2014

    ..partly because of a certain experience.

    Had something on with a friend and he'd tell me he loved me, but although I really liked him at that time, I never said it back cos I wasn't sure. Well a while later he told me he felt like something didn't feel right and it'd better if we remained as good friends, so there! I...
    thequietexplosion thequietexplosion
    18-21, F
    Feb 23, 2015

    I can't lie about this one

    though in the distant past I have lied to myself when I didn't know what real love was! Now ironically I struggle to say it to someone I do genuinely love, this is my long standing fear of being vulnerable...which is necessary for true love
    iCloudsInMyCoffee iCloudsInMyCoffee
    46-50, M
    Dec 8, 2013

    The only people who tell me they love me

    and mean it are my parents, no one else.
    Mindofanintrovert Mindofanintrovert
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 25, 2014

    I hurt you I'm sorry I made mistake I will pay

    for it I love you, I can't forgive my self I almost picked up that razor and tried, but I couldn't and i never can I promise I wouldn't do it again, I love you, im crying because I feel like **** for hurting you
    iamalonewolf iamalonewolf
    16-17, M
    1 Response May 5, 2015

    If I Say It, I Mean It

    I say 'I love you' to the people in my life that mean the most to me. Of course, at the top of my list are my hubby, his kids, and my family. I rarely say good bye to any of these people without telling them that I love them. At the same time, I have some very close friends that...
    MsMarci MsMarci
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jul 4, 2012

    It is definitely not something I throw around

    lightly. If I say it then I definitely mean it.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jan 27, 2015

    Love

    It's not a word to be taken lightly using it when u don't mean it is cruel it hurts the people u said it to when u didn't mean it I use it when I talk to my friends if I had a loved one I'd say it to him (if I truly loved him)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 21, 2013

    The title explains it all,

    and it is so true i dont see why people have to fake so much about love.It is three words which will turn anybody on I LOVE YOU they should be used in a right way and not a form of critisisum.
    dareingggirl dareingggirl
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 27, 2014

    I truly wouldn't. Why would someone lie about

    loving someone? You don't play with someone's feelings like that. If I tell you that I love you, I really do love you. Whether you're one of my friends, my family, or a boyfriend. If I love you, then I love you. :)
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan
    18-21
    8 Responses Apr 30, 2014

    02/04/2016 - As much

    as I love to say I love you I wouldn't say it unless I meant it. Hard not to have feelings for people though I do think there is a fine line between love and like.
    shecanonlydream shecanonlydream
    26-30, F
    Apr 2

      . that's true.

    .I wont.....although..... I know you don't want me.........but I still miss...you....... please comome bacck.... ... a......(sorry I wont mention the name.) ....
    gaziraisa gaziraisa
    13-15, F
    Nov 29, 2015

    Love Is A Mysterious Thing....

    So many use it as a way to verbalize an attachment, but so few understand what it means. Love is a mysterious thing. It becomes when you least expect it; it makes you feel immortal when it's right and takes you to the depths of despair when it's wrong. I have never understood...
    Aptrick Aptrick
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2012

    I won't even tell you I like you

    if I don't mean it. I will tell you that you're a "stupid *******," and totally mean it.
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    Jan 4
    ENGLAND22 ENGLAND22
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 12, 2014

    I will however call you an *******

    and you better believe that I mean it.
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    Feb 14

    I never have and I never will.

    I can love you as a person without being in love. If I'm in love with you then you can rest assured that you will know it.
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    Dec 7, 2015

    When I Say Important Things to You I'm Being Sincere

    I'm not going to say "i love you" capriciously. If i tell you, "i love you", it means i care about you very much - greater and for more reason than i'd normally feel about someone. Please try and also be as sincere when you say things to me if you want me to believe you.
    eleanorssong eleanorssong
    56-60, F
    Aug 27, 2012

    sometimes you feel like you are not in love

    anymore, like love was a horrible dream like it was a ghost, like it was an evil, you stare at it like it didnt give you a real feelings of happiness before, you know what? we dont want it and so much want it ... sometimes kinda weird, its the only thingthat we can ignore...
    Exita Exita
    22-25, F
    Oct 16, 2015

    This is to my love and my friend.

    I had deleted my account (seems like it takes days to actually do it), but now you have cut off all other channels of communication, so I will keep it awhile longer. The world has grown dimmer since I lost you. You always shown so brightly for me, so warmly. And now that light...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 22, 2015

    Never have. Never will.

    So if I say it, believe it.
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jan 7

    Not Just Words

    I remember being a kid, talking to a boy on the phone, or passing notes in the halls...The notes were very simple usually...No idea what other people called it, but when we were exclusive, (what else would we be at that age??) we called it "Going together". From that...
    onceandfutureglow onceandfutureglow
    31-35, F
    58 Responses Oct 21, 2009

    If you see this, you know

    who you are. I want you to know that I did love you with all my heart... I just made a huge mistake that snowballed so damn bad. take care. miss you.
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jun 1, 2014

    I dont know what happened

    but something in my mind over the past few days has snapped and for some reason I've stopped the worrying, for once Im thinking about the best conclusion before its happened, more than ever do I want something to happen so badly and you are never off my mind ever, Im never...
    Verix Verix
    18-21, M
    Jul 27, 2014

    Those Words Would Never Leave My Mouth.

    .. In fact they rarely ever do. The only people who hear those 3 words leave my mouth is family.. And one other person In the past, I had people abuse the words "I love you" to the point they were broken and meaningless. At 14, all "I love you" meant to me was "I want something...
    SnowStorm00 SnowStorm00
    18-21, F
    Jun 17, 2015

    The Power Of Love...

    Love is one of those words that has totally lost its meaning these days. It used to mean so much, and now people use it flippantly and without thought. I hear people saying 'I love this show!' or 'Don't you just love that guy?'.....I understand why they might choose this word...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 13, 2012

    Delicate

    I have never told someone that I loved them and not meant it.  It's just not something that I would do.  Love is such a delicate and special emotion to share with someone and it should never be abused or named if it's not meant.  I would be doing myself...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    12 Responses Oct 22, 2009

    I love you. I don't know what else to say

    or do and I'm sorry if I can't give you what you need. I'm so sorry. I thought, I was trying-putting out effort. You're doubting our relationship again. God, help. I just don't get it...
    Hiddenintheleaves Hiddenintheleaves
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 20

    I believe there are different types of love.

    Like I love multiple people. I love my mum and my family, I love my friends, and I love you Leslie. But I love all of them in different ways. I love my mum and family, but I'm not in love with them, it's just a bond we have because we are family. I love my friends on here, but...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 2, 2014

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    emilyccaa emilyccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 8, 2015

    i am not one of those people

    who say i love you, just to say it. i think its cruel to tell someone you love them, when you dont, its like playing a game. i would never tell you that I love you if i didnt mean it.
    HisLittleAriel HisLittleAriel
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 19, 2015

    I'm a little scared, though,

    that I may do that too easily, and that people would take advantage of me as a result. I dunno...
    9Fan 9Fan
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 15, 2015

    Because all veiw love diffrently you will never

    belive me parents. Dad you make another family only to end up in the same situation, hurting your crazy wife and drowing yourself in cassino chips and lotto cards, broke again. I still love you dad I just can't support you. Mother you ran away with my brother and I miss you both...
    Thelemicc Thelemicc
    18-21, F
    Feb 13, 2015

    Love Is Not a Word to Toy With

    Love, to me is an emotion that is related to the sense of strong affection, something that I often see used loosely. This intense, interpersonal attraction and  the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional...
    ntbadjstlst ntbadjstlst
    31-35, M
    30 Responses Dec 7, 2008

    Some people never realize

    and appreciate what they have until it's gone. Some never will. Yet there are some who do realize, appreciate, and likely go out of their way to let you know they do.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 25, 2015
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    Jan 14

    I love you. Words that can make you

    and break you. They make you feel amazing and like you have someone that truly is with you no matter what, for you. But it can break you easily when you start to see true colors and the secrets come out of their shadows.
    verox3 verox3
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 12, 2014

    When you love someone ,

    nothing seems to matter anymore. :)))
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 10, 2014

    I Know, I Hope You Do Too.

    I won't lie on this site.  I am often ashamed of the things I feel but I know there is more room out than there is in.  I keep typing, keep writing, keep expressing.  Someone is bound to understand and relate to me.  I'm looking for the ultimate bridge...
    ichooselife ichooselife
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Dec 5, 2009

    I love all of you so muchI love all of natureI

    love this whole planetI love u most of all!!!
    Skoph Skoph
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 6, 2015
    savoy2 savoy2
    46-50, M
    Mar 27
    utahwriter utahwriter
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jun 10, 2014

    You know, I love you

    so much it hurts inside. It leaves this cold and empty feeling in my stomache I've been trying to eliminate for years. I can't tell you how much I love you, there are no words to describe what I feel, not in any language. Believe me, I've tried to put my feelings onto paper, but...
    crackedwriter crackedwriter
    18-21, F
    Jun 22, 2015

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