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I Would Rather Be Alone Than Be With the Wrong Person

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    Very Wise

    That is exactly how I felt, which is why I had to tell a number of people who were in love with Me that I didnt feel the same about them!  It made them both sad and angry but I couldnt be with someoneI didnt love. I waited 37 years to find love and it was worth it so I...
    alabastardragon alabastardragon 36-40, M 16 Responses Feb 19, 2008

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    What is wrong with guys these days?

    Aren't you suppose to dress to impress when you go on a date??? Is that too much to ask or something irrelevant these days??? I went on a date last night with a guy I haven't seen in a long time. He was very happy to recconect with me again and was surprised I had agreed to...
    melissav369 melissav369 41-45, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I guess I learned some things

    that probably scared and scarred me for life. My mom always tells me "You're gonna be living alone in a forest in a cabin filled with cats" and my response is always the same... Do I get to give them a curfew? I keep telling myself being alone is better than being hurt. I know I...
    Chibiiiii Chibiiiii 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Wrong bites too deep

    and life should never bite so deep
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    I Would Rather Be Alone Than Be With The Wrong Person

    I am a 28 year old single mother and and I am in my 3rd year of celibacy. I am sick and tired of hearing about women who put their libido before the welfare of their children. Parading an endless string of stepdaddys, uncles and mommys special friends in front of their children...
    ZZsMummy ZZsMummy 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 2, 2010

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    I have never been one to openly talk about

    every little detail of my personal life with people around me. I have no desire to aimlessly date at this point in my life I'm seeking more substance. I don't care about the club or hooking up just to do so although it has it's place don't get me wrong I'm not a prude. But I...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45, F 5 Responses May 8, 2014

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    I used to think I couldn't live without my

    bestfriend but since she's gone I've been ok without her yes I miss her but I'll be alright alone
    IsMyStory IsMyStory 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    The best way to be happy with someone is to

    learn to be happy alone. That way the company will be a matter of choice.. Not necessity.
    bluemoon2121 bluemoon2121 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 27, 2014

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    ...says the one who's practically throwing away

    her entire life being married to the wrong person :-( Wishful thinking... ************UPDATE*********** October 4th 2014 Just to see how instrumental EP has been on my life's transformation journey... When I first arrived here, I was clueless, confused, numb and completely...
    neeia neeia 36-40, F 16 Responses Feb 20, 2014

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    trionar trionar 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    This is something that my friends just cannot

    understand. I'm not saying that there is a right or wrong way to be. We are all different. Some people can be happy with just about anyone. To some people, the worst fate in the world is to be alone. I have seen some of my friends go from guy to guy with no recovery period. It...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 10 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    “Love someone because their soul inspires you,

    not because you’re interested in the relief from loneliness and companionship they can provide. Anybody can do that. Not just anybody can show you to yourself.” ― Brianna Wiest
    bluemoon2121 bluemoon2121 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    The Worst Thing

    “I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone, it’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel all alone.” ~ Robin Williams
    sciguy18 sciguy18 56-60, M 3 Responses Mar 9, 2013

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    I never really feel completely alone,

    I feel fortunate to have so many amazing people in my life, both friends and family..but as for intimate relationships, that's a different thing. I don't understand why so many people go into a relationship with the first person that gives them attention? Us ladies can spend...
    silvera73 silvera73 41-45, F Mar 3

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    When I see my friends getting into relationships

    and all. It makes me think about how I can't see myself in a relationship. It's kind of sad thinking about it. Still in all honest dating someone knowing it won't last long but doing it anyways. Then regretting it and feeling utterly terrible is even more sad. Anyways I can...
    nuwandaisaphony nuwandaisaphony 16-17 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Being With The Wrong Person.

    .. Most people can relate to over-staying in a relationship with a partner who was not right for them, who displayed major red flags, or treated them poorly. Many admit to staying in a relationship even though their gut repeatedly told them to get out. Why do we stay in...
    sciguy18 sciguy18 56-60, M 4 Responses Apr 7, 2014

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    What the hell is wrong with this world?

    !?! No one can be a friend, you cant trust anyone especially that one person you always that you can count on. Not even family can be family anymore. Everyone screws you over. And then theres the part where everyone is getting mad at me why i dont have friends. Well i'd rather...
    phoenixgirl21 phoenixgirl21 22-25, F 7 Responses Feb 17, 2014

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    By Choice

    I was alone for years by choice.I had experienced a marriage that didn't go well.Before it was completely over my mother was harassing me to date and get married again.I wasn't interested.I am happy that I spent the time to be alone.  Being with somebody just to be with somebody...
    WildSpectrumArts WildSpectrumArts 46-50, F 11 Responses Oct 19, 2011

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    As I go through life I realise

    that it is a false dream to find someone who will make you happy - the power of being happy comes from yourself and the way you relate to your own being and to the world. The more we expect others to meet our needs and to make us happy, the more and more detached we become from...
    HenryScobie HenryScobie 51-55, M 6 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    Easier said than done,

    for me (i'm also a member of the group I Want To Follow My Own Advice). Yes, I can laugh about it.
    justbeit justbeit 51-55, M 4 Responses Mar 24, 2014

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    It's weird I hate being single,

    but I sometimes feel that the guys I meet are not really for me I guess, handsome, of course smart, funny, I just don't ever feel a connection with anyone and I hate to give the wrong impression sao I don't ever bother making one in the first place. I definitely look for that...
    alxvii alxvii 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 23

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    But really would love to find

    that "right" one!
    ThisBeautifulChaos ThisBeautifulChaos 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    So I tried online dating I've been on

    and off for the last 3 years. I did meet somebody I had been dating steady for almost a year. I told him from the get go once our relstionship reached the point of sexual intimacy the online dating profiles should go down. Mine did but his didn't. a friend found it. He...
    liznicole15 liznicole15 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 2

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    There's someone I care about,

    he feels the same. But when we're together we just can't ever seem to talk, I'm not sure he 'gets me' and it's really frustrating because we're missing that 'thing'. I know I should let go....
    lilyrose345 lilyrose345 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    It's better to be alone

    than to get your feelings hurt by someone you may not really know.
    JK7448 JK7448 18-21, F Mar 18

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    It's my saftey issue.

    If you can't deal with it that's cool. I don't jump
    Averageguy41074 Averageguy41074 36-40, M Jan 15

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    I'd rather you love my loyal heart

    than have you fall for my twisted mind.
    AcousticAnne AcousticAnne 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    Years ago, I was lonely

    and living in a new city and signed up for a dating site. I was looking for anyone; love, friendship, sex, or drugs, it didn't matter. I met many people, even met one girl who "lit my fire." The chemistry between us was unlike anything I had ever felt. Then I moved back home and...
    UrbanArtFan UrbanArtFan 26-30, T Dec 22, 2014

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    i have been with my boyfriend

    for eight months now and i am 100% in love with him. He has trust issues because he has been cheated on before. i said something a while ago that made him think i was an escort (which I'm not). He had a hard time believing me. i thought he was just being stubborn so i didn't...
    SophhCat77 SophhCat77 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 2

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    People always bleat on about relationships.

    ..but in fact a relationship takes two to work. I thankfully have found my life partner and we are blissfully happy. If your with the wrong person you are far better off alone. Alone is not so bad and its better to be your own person than be what someone wants you to be. If...
    ultimatehacker ultimatehacker 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I know I am worthy of love

    so why am I alone? I like to tell myself I am ok alone but I would love something more
    isfj isfj 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    Kenapa orang sesuka hati datang dan pergi

    begitu sahaja tanpa memikirkan perasaan kita???
    XZXIXAXNX XZXIXAXNX 26-30, F Jan 2

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    I sometimes look back on my previous

    relationships; good memories, bad memories, happy times, sad times. But I can't actually recognise myself in those memories. I gave my heart and body absolutely, but I feel like they also took my personality too. It is like everything revolved around my partner and there was...
    Fioritura Fioritura 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 7

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    so I've known my boyfriend

    for about four years now dating for 1 year 8 months now, here's the thing he lies a lot about the little things like what he eats or drinks (former larger man) these days it's his purchases he recently came home with a brand new hawks jersey and mind you is his favorite hockey...
    TinaDan615 TinaDan615 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    Mister Right, Or Mister Right-Now?

    I am 26, but it really doesn't matter how old you are, it comes to a simple choice: Do you want Mister Right, or Mister Right-Now? I am afraid that many of us have wasted our time, money and emotions on Mister (or Miss) Right-Now.  You know who I am talking about. ...
    PhantomAccordion PhantomAccordion 26-30, F 13 Responses Feb 21, 2008

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    I've actually never been in a relationship.

    .. even many are trying but then if I consider all things around I will rather stay alone... only once I fell in love (I guess it still lasts) but I know he is not the right one for me... But its not so easy to accept, even if my brain is saying that its good like this...
    BaskaK BaskaK 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 14

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    after a few failed relationships

    where I just knew they were the one and everything was fine till years added in the truth, I would rather be a spinster. I have 5 wonderful children and am old enough to realize that I'd be the last choice for the average man. A man wants to be with a woman he can build a family...
    fbizzle fbizzle 26-30, F Mar 15

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    I don't know why people 'take what they can

    get' , or just have to be in a relationship. I'd rather be alone with dignity , and self respect!
    CrushOnPhilBrooks CrushOnPhilBrooks 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 28, 2014

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    To be scolded at first thing in the morning

    and lastly before bed... To be put on the back burner to tv, friends, and alcohol... To never get even a 99 cent or handmade card on anniversaries, birthdays, or holidays... To be called lazy, selfish, dumb, ignorant, and annoying... To be told to shut up daily and even during...
    snm1991 snm1991 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 11

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    I was married to a man

    for 17 years...had 3 beautiful children and loved being a family. I gave him all my love, trust, respect, friendship, everything I wanted in him. He rejected our family and tore my heart apart I tried to make things work...went to several marriage counselors until finally I...
    jlj5298 jlj5298 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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    Has Anyone Noticed..

    Has anyone noticed that this generation of young adults have this huge "being single" complex? Like, what's wrong with being single? Some people think that being a relationship is the only way to be happy; that it's the only reason life has purpose. And I'm just over here like...
    TheBrie TheBrie 18-21, F 13 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    My ex used to bully me

    and destroy my confidence. When we broke up I was the happiest is been in months😄
    shiv1992 shiv1992 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    I made the decision to be alone,

    instead of staying with the wrong person. Now I'm laying in bed, in my new apartment, feeling completely alone. I never thought being alone would be harder than being with my ex husband.... but honestly, right now, it is.
    kelly65876 kelly65876 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    Being with the wrong person calls

    for a lot of regret in the long run. Feelings of low self esteem, anger, revenge and all that which will eventually eat us up and make us ugly. I don't mind being alone...its hurts..the loneliness hurts but It's the price I have to pay to not get hurt... Again.
    Tears4fears15 Tears4fears15 22-25 4 Responses Mar 3

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    Life is too short to waste it trapped in

    unfulfilling relatiomships. I was married for close to a year, and I'm so much happier and satisfied picking and choosing with whom I spend time.
    thegirlnobodyknows thegirlnobodyknows 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2014

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    What is wrong with today's generation of boys?

    This Guy just sent me a message saying that we need to talk, and that can't talk anymore if I can't give him head, and that's he's older and that he needs that in a relationship. We literally just started talking a week ago, haven't even went on a date, in fact he stood me up...
    alxvii alxvii 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 1

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