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I Would Rather Be Naive Than Jaded

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 26 People

    Towards An Unconditoned Mind: Experience Is A Liar

    so and so did this.So and so was that waytherefore if new person does that...they are this.how could it be any more clear how much of a liar our expeirences are?I still expect cruelty from people, but I ignore the voice of experience, I let them in anyways. Why? because I never...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M May 5, 2012

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    Too Obvious.

    Life is hard and at times the things you experience are despicable. But it is far too obvious that you can't dwell on the past. It won't change it. Might as well be happy having survived it. With a semblance of normalcy. Then just move forward maximizing what ever it it you can...
    jeremyleaves jeremyleaves 26-30, M Oct 16, 2012

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    than to feel what I feel, I would rather not remember than to reminisce. I feel a void within that still smolders. She created this. Now I further know what's to be had....or so it...
    idleheart idleheart 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 25

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    i would rather be happy within myself as a person, treat ppl good, and stable in life, then rich in money living the good life and feel miserable within myself and terrible to...
    Deztiney Deztiney 36-40, F Nov 30

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    They hug and kiss you....almost as if they care....only to betray you first chance they get....just for the sake of good gossip....never caring about your feelings and your pain...
    Sjenka Sjenka 36-40, F Nov 29

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    I would much rather you tell me the hard truth than any kind of lie. Lies build up and hurt over time. A hurtful truth just stings and can be talked about. Lies just always hurt...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Dec 8

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    I'd love to meet someone who is really good at communicating, who is able to hold a really good conversation on more than one level....emotionally maturity and openness pretty...
    lilyrose345 lilyrose345 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    Wrong person makes you feel even more lonely than being alone.
    Awanputih Awanputih 18-21 3 Responses Dec 1

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    Exhausted daily in my physical body than constantly keeping trying to understand why my souls feels the same.
    emiri77 emiri77 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Experience project has been here for me through thick and thin. It keep my secrets and helped me cope with my deepest, darkest worries. Thank you for all the people on this site...
    heynice2meetu heynice2meetu 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    But worry comes because solution is always debated. Tesla. What you give. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9vwHuCC6nP8&sns=em Tesla. Love song. http://youtu.be/l2q_...
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 23

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    Suggested posts for sanity. EP Link
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 23

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    I can be with my husband, yet feel completely alone. We're not really communicating anymore. After the holidays, I'm going back to school. When I'm finished and have a job, it's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 1

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    Just be yourself!!! ;)If you try to be normal, then you miss out on being weird and awesome!
    Aryg Aryg 36-40, F 8 Responses Dec 6

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    There's someone I care about, he feels the same. But when we're together we just can't ever seem to talk, I'm not sure he 'gets me' and it's really frustrating because we're...
    lilyrose345 lilyrose345 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 8

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    You can't force loyalty, some people will always let you down. Everybody won't always be who you want then to be. I'm never perfect, but I'm always genuine, and I've realized...
    lovinglife699 lovinglife699 51-55, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    My whole family is weird and some people think were "insane!" We all tried to be normal once, but none of us could do it! It was way too boring!
    s123456789s s123456789s 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    For the longest time in my life I was ashamed of myself. I wanted to be liked, so I made myself into different people. As you can imagine this really took a toll on me...
    tiredgoodguy tiredgoodguy 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I hate getting my picture taken. Yet, unfortunately for me I live in a faimly where every one likes to take MY picture....
    Muffin421 Muffin421 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Things I don't do:- soap operas pubs bingo socialising charts music cinema restaurants The list goes on and on and on to the point where my usual reaction to 99% of everything I...
    charnwood charnwood 61-65 4 days ago

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    Following your dreams until they are full on reality.
    jtwenty jtwenty 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    Anyone have any thoughts on Diablo 3 ultimate evil edition? On sale for Black Friday but I've never played any of them... Is it worth getting?
    jbar291 jbar291 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 28

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    "The TRUTH may sometimes hurt for a moment, but the pain you experience from a LIE can last forever." http://refe99.com/quotes/truth/
    ArrowPewPew ArrowPewPew 18-21 1 Response Dec 8

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    You probably know how much "power" you have over him and that is a huge threat to me even if you never have done anything wrong. You know that he will always be there for you and...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd 18-21, F Dec 9

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    But people my age don't seem to like to play dammit.
    justme195 justme195 51-55, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I would rather be happy but if those are my only options, has to be sad rather than bitter.
    marriedup marriedup 56-60, M Dec 11

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    in this world life is short. so short that wasting it on someone you don't love , or care about is just a waste of time. but it is long enough to find the right person that one...
    Chinsei Chinsei 26-30, M Nov 21

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    It's true, I would. But I don't particularly mind the cold actually. I love playing in the snow, and I love spinning around in the rain. But yeah, I hate being cold in bed. But...
    BrokenHeartedOlicityShipper BrokenHeartedOlicityShipper 70+, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I think money is evil because it makes people greedy and people gets killed over money alot I would Werther use trade like if someone really needed something that I had and they...
    bud24 bud24 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I don't like being spanked. I do like the fact that I'm a spanked girl. Now that you're totally confused. There is nothing about the actual spanking that I like. It hurts, stings...
    EmilyRenae EmilyRenae 18-21, F 17 Responses Nov 29

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    It really depends on the person for me whether I would rather talk to them face to face or over chat
    Borntobedevilcute Borntobedevilcute 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm 15 but I would rather hang out with my 20 year old cousins than any of my 15 I 16 year old friends
    alexwhite99 alexwhite99 13-15, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I would like to thank all of you for being supportive, giving advice and accepting my inner weirdness. I know I may have made EP a weird place because of some of my stories, but I...
    Profweird Profweird 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    "I've never had feelings for anyone who was good for me. I've never been interested in someone where a good, healthy relationship could've resulted, and maybe that's why i'm so...
    BeautifullyBroken10x BeautifullyBroken10x 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 7

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    I would like to say thank you, to all of you, for sharing your thougts with me and letting me to see you. Thank you EP for allowing me to express myself in a written word and...
    MyLady9 MyLady9 46-50, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    "Miss Independent"Kelly ClarksonMiss independentMiss self-sufficientMiss keep your distanceMiss unafraidMiss out of my wayMiss don't let a man interfere, noMiss on her ownMiss...
    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    it's hard being used for sex and then discarded as if you didn't matter. just give me one man who wants more than sex
    kittyluv78 kittyluv78 36-40, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    For the last moths, I have had it extremely hard, I,ve been betrayed, lied to, hurt, I had lost any hope in friendship, and honesty. I could not trust anyone anymore. But, these...
    chanjen chanjen 41-45, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    It is sad, I live in a society where girls are brought up in such a way that their only dream becomes to get married and have kids. Regardless of all the changes that happened to...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 3

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    It's not very often I get taken for a ride, but I used to be. Tomorrow will be her birthday which has made me think of this. When I was 22yrs old I went out for around a year...
    Mick672 Mick672 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 29

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    I'm not a big fan of the night club or bar scene.With the right woman in my life,staying at home than going out wouldn't be at all boring.I would enjoy her company with pleasure in...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 7

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    I was naive to have believed you when you said you loved me. I didn't even know that i would fall so in love with you when we first met. I treated you as a good and close friend...
    Shimmerz479 Shimmerz479 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Some of my friends on EP know that I am lost. I have been struggling to process big, big hurt. Mostly stuck in darkness, and intermittently me comes back with bits of hope and...
    willbefreeiwill willbefreeiwill 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Crowds make me feel uncomfortable and a variety of simultaneous sounds exhausts me. I much rather hang out with one or two friends at home. But even being alone with a good beer...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 23

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    I'd rather be hot than cold any day. I hate the cold so much
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 27

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