I Would Rather Hang Out At Home Than Party

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    Home Body

    I am a home body at heart now what I really like is a nice small get together at my house a few friends and BBQ  
    librakitty05 librakitty05
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2008

    Yes, I do like to visit with what little

    friends I have(hubby's), for a few hours. I was never social growing up. Not even to go to other kids birthday parties, cause I was bored and didn't like some games and activities. I wish I were more outgoing. It's lonely and boring at times. With my thoughts and only tv shows...
    mrsklemzak mrsklemzak
    41-45, F
    Jul 25, 2014

    Not a Party-goer

    I don't mind going to parties really--it's just loud and obnoxious to me though.  People stir up crap and the drunker they get, the more crap that comes out of their mouths.  I don't like to drink either, and even though it's New Year's Eve, I don't care to drink.
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2008

    My Wonderful Hideaway!

    I guess I am what you guys call a "home buddy."  My home is my escape...the place where I come to run away from life, a place that gives me internal peace and a respite from the world outside.  It is in my home where I find comfort surrounded by the things and...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 20, 2009

    A good album, television show,

    book or movie can keep my attention far longer then any party or club would.
    yrnjojo yrnjojo
    18-21, M
    Feb 16, 2015

    I love staying at home.

    People see it as boring and I have no life. But I guess it comes with me being an introvert. I love just being at home in peace,free to do what i want without the need to put up with whatever my friends want. I have friends. I just see them at work. lol other than that,they dont...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 30, 2015


    I would love to spend quiet evenings home with you.  As long as I have you there with me everywhere is a party for me.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Feb 17, 2010

    I am generally non-social

    and without friends, and have been comfortable and happy being at home and being on the computer, watching TV, and reading. My sister wants me to do things with people, and I could sometimes.  I would have to become friends with people I know.
    MDenise MDenise
    31-35, F
    Dec 4, 2013

    T.O.T.A.L.Y 9/10 times I would prefer to stay

    home, have friends over and just enjoy their company around a cozy fire, steak sizzling and wine flowing. I'm waaaay past clubbing every weekend! Hangovers seem to linger these days (ponders about the aging process)
    deleted deleted
    Feb 23

    Even Better

    I don't like to socialize with people too often or for too long so parties really tire me out. Maybe that's the whole point but I don't get tired from having fun, I get tired from having to talk to drunk or/and hyper people and pretend like I'm having fun. I'd much rather stay...
    UnseenBlossom UnseenBlossom
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2009

    Yep......My Secret Is Out....i'm Boring!

    MAHAHAHAHAHHA! : )   Actually, I don't drink, don't smoke (anymore), don't do drugs, so really why would I want to party. It would be the most boring party of all time. Mahahaha! So I stay home & live through the memories of my friends. lol... Yes now you all...
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Apr 18, 2009


    keeping yourself healthy in mind and body makes you enjoy life to the fullest. i think a healthy mind needs positive thoughts and beliefs. and a healthy body needs workouts and physical activities. both are necessary to enjoy life to the fullest
    antonross antonross
    51-55, M
    1 Response Mar 26, 2011

    I Just Don't Like Loud, Crowded Places.

    I love staying home, watching a movie, or staying home with my boyfriend sometimes.
    minnie22mouse minnie22mouse
    18-21, F
    Dec 10, 2008

    just remembering why I'd

    rather be at home too many stupid f*cking people also rude and inconsiderate and don't even get me started on the girl and their damn bitchy attitudes if I hadn't of been drinking already I would go home now and cut my losses, damn it
    fenrirandimpachi fenrirandimpachi
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 23, 2015

    For me, that is a party.

    Have a few friends over for the night and watch movies, while lily eats all the green skittles and everyone gets mad.
    Peachyyoshi Peachyyoshi
    13-15, F
    Dec 14, 2015

    I realized that. A few firefighters

    and I went to party and I realized how much I hated it. It wasn't for me. I threw up a lot, I couldn't think striaght. and if I GOT CAUGHT I was gonna be in major trouble
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt
    18-21, F
    Apr 16

    Who Said That The Only Way To Have Fun Is To Go Out And Party?

    In high school, while most of everyone was out partying, drinking, getting high and being sexually promiscuous, I was at home, in my room reading, drawing, writing, on the computer or listening to music. People would always ask, "Why don't you ever go out? What do you do for...
    tink1984 tink1984
    26-30, F
    Oct 6, 2010

    Small Circle

    I hate crowded and noisy place. So, I don't go to big parties where people barely know each other. I can handle small groups like family get- together or tete' a tete' with close friends and work-related parties.
    1PrincessKai 1PrincessKai
    41-45, F
    Mar 27, 2011

    Don't Get Me Wrong...

    Don't get me wrong - i love going out, to get dressed up, to hit the town with my friends, to have a drink, relax, flirt, dance and have fun but give me good friends, a bottle of red and good converation and i'm happy - give me my comfy slippers, my jersey lounge pant suit, my...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 3, 2011

    Id Rather Hang Out At Home

                                  i am a grandma so 25 yrs ago i did plenty of partying! now it dosent take as much for me.  where i...
    flourlady111 flourlady111
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Dec 31, 2008

    I'm a homebody and content to be one.

    When I was younger I would go dancing or hang out with friends, but now the perfect Friday night is just doing whatever I want at home.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 16, 2015

    It's been a long time

    since I have even seen a REAL party where everyone just let's loose with no boundaries! Too much ******* drama these days ruined all of it so now I spend time doing other **** that I enjoy! Parties are over rated anyway!;)
    Spitbak Spitbak
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Nov 29, 2015

    Way back in college i used to party every

    weekends with my friends, but after graduation and keeping yourself busy with work and saving money for your own expenses i'd rather stay at home than party in a bar. Last saturday i was invited by my friend to go out, she told me that we will just chill because its been months...
    jellynecaryl jellynecaryl
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 21, 2014

    because i want to hear what people are saying

    rather then screaming into someones ear from four inches away from their ear. only to get a "what" in response.
    sofakingEZ sofakingEZ
    36-40, M
    1 Response Oct 31, 2015

    I'm really not a party person.

    I'd rather stay home and do my music, and spoil my dog.
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999
    16-17, M
    Sep 27, 2015

    My favorite way to hang out is

    so lowkey. You wanna watch movies all day in our sweats? Okay. Wanna do homework and barely even talk except to complain about how much work it is? Sure. Wanna read different books while sharing an entire tub of ice cream? Alright. Going out is so much effort. Sometimes, I just...
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 3

    Yup all the time- I like doing things alone I

    feel I get more done that way!
    catlady777 catlady777
    26-30, F
    Mar 6, 2014

    I just moved to a new,

    much bigger city than where I'm from. I'm grateful all of my friends and family have came to visit me. Of course they want to go out when they come but lately I'm not feeling it. I work a lot and would prefer to relax when I do have free time. I hate this. I don't want to be...
    Loveheals1 Loveheals1
    31-35, F
    Mar 21, 2015

    With a Few Friends

    I prefer more intimate settings. From my empathic abilities and what I do for my work, when I want to be with people I want to be with people I'm close to and where I can fully appreciate the moment.
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 1, 2009

    Yay For Home!!!

    I am such a homebody. My life seems to take me away quite a bit......I work 50-60 hours a week and have my boys who keep me running and also am committed to being a school board director in our local school district as well as the Vo-tech school in our area. So when I am finally...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM
    36-40, F
    Dec 4, 2008

    I've never been someone who's extroverted

    enough to enjoy the company of others for a prolonged period of time, plus the noise level annoys the life out of me. I enjoy a little get-together with friends so long as it doesn't get too rowdy, but I must prefer the enjoyment of one friend's company and a good conversation...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat
    26-30, F
    Sep 23, 2015

    I'm stuck in a bar. its really overcrowded

    and I'm getting pushed around. it wreaks of alcohol. I can't drink because I'm under 21. all my friends are with a guy. I'm just looking around, trying to distract myself. I want to go home. I can't even hear myself think. do I hate the bar life though or just the fact that I'm...
    cynicalroses cynicalroses
    18-21, F
    Feb 24


    keeping yourself healthy in mind and body makes you enjoy life to the fullest. i think a healthy mind needs positive thoughts and beliefs. and a healthy body needs workouts and physical activities. both are necessary to enjoy life to the fullest
    antonross antonross
    51-55, M
    Mar 26, 2011

    I Have Always Been This Way

        I'm not the kind of person that goes to a party. I don't like people having their eyes on me. I hate being the center of attenchen. I don't care to even have a party. I don't like to entertain people. I think that I'm like this. Because of my own mom. She is the same way...
    acjf acjf
    22-25, F
    Jan 9, 2011

    My Sanctuary

    I never felt the need to go out and get drunk. It doesn't seem like any kind of fun to me. If I want to have fun there are so many other things worth doing. It seems too many people are addicted to something like drinking as a form of having fun. I feel society has put too...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    May 12, 2013

    At home, much better

    than going out. I may be surrounded with so many people but no matter what I always feel alone and uneasy and feel tired easily. Plus you can wear anything comfy clothes at home, hate goin out coz I need to pick clothes to wear.
    shriie shriie
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 25, 2015

    I Had A Great Run!

    I can honestly say that I did enough partying in my days to last me through three consecutive lifetimes. Now I like to kick back with family or friends and maybe play some cards or a game or whatever, but my going out to party days are now firmly behind me.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 17, 2011

    Staying Home Instead Of Partying

    I wiould rather be at home then party. I don't drink and in person anyway I'm not social. I'm not a party animal it's just me. My friend had a boyfriend who like to party. He would go to his friends house and they would party atleast untill the police were called. We also had...
    monam monam
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 2, 2011

    I've only ever been to two parties

    and while I enjoyed them I would have enjoyed a good book and snuggling in my blankets more. I would also probably enjoy a rousing 1 on 1 debate or historical discussion to interaction with a group of humans. So really parties were doomed to be a failure for me from the start...
    Freedgorgan Freedgorgan
    18-21, M
    Feb 23

    When I'm at home-I want to go out.

    When I'm out-I can't wait to get home!!
    Randomology Randomology
    41-45, F
    Mar 6, 2014
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