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I Would Rather Have Love Without Sex Than Sex Without Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 149 People

    The Feelng Of Being Happy

    Sex as we all know is important in a relationship. But, I have spent in a marriage for 13 years with no sex for three years straight out of it. The idea of sex is pleasing but it is not what is important to me. The idea of being touched such as a hug, being able to wrap my arms...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 14, 2011

    Sex Is Just Sex

    Love has absolutely nothing to do with sex. Plus, I can always **********. I am completely content doing that, I don't need someone else to do that for me. I do however need someone to care for me, to love me, to take care of me when I'm sick. Someone I can wake up next...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    Jun 15, 2009

    Need a Woman Who Feels the Same

    I'm embarrassed to say that I am an attractive 50 years old male who could not get an erection for a woman.  I don't like the private part but love about everything in a woman.  I'm looking for a woman who feels the same like she can't have sex but can do many ways...
    energyfield energyfield
    46-50, M
    Sep 19, 2009

    Love Goes Beyond the Physical!

    Even though I DO love sex with him, I would rather be with the man I love and never have sex again (if it had to be so), than not have his love and have as much sex as I could. Why? In my opinion, love goes beyond the physical. Beyond how one looks. Beyond...
    TopazSkye TopazSkye
    26-30, F
    3 Responses May 8, 2009

    Again... had/shared both.

    .. would definitely settle for the former... though I obviously want both love and sex. It's a great combination... like chocolate and peanut butter. :-)
    utahwriter utahwriter
    41-45, M
    Apr 24, 2014

    The Volatility Created When "love" And "sex" Come Together Works Better Some Ways Than Others

    The title of this category is wonderful!  I'd like to believe that most people share this position, despite a Western culture saturated in sexuality, and how to get more of it.  I could -- as could most of us, I suppose -- write an essay about the pleasures and follies of sex...
    UnderEli UnderEli
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 12, 2011

    Sex Is Just Sex

    Love has absolutely nothing to do with sex. Plus, I can always **********. I am completely content doing that, I don't need someone else to do that for me. I do however need someone to care for me, to love me, to take care of me when I'm sick. Someone I can wake up next...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    Jun 15, 2009

    ~ I Would ~

    THE LAST TWO YEARS OF MY "RELATIONSHIP" SUCKED! BUT THE LAST YEAR WASN'T AS BAD BECAUSE I HAD STOPPED HAVING SEX WITH HIM. I WAS NO LONGER WANTING TO "PLEASE" HIM. HE WASN'T DOING ANYTHING TO PLEASE ME. THERE WAS NO LOVE THERE ANYMORE ON HIS SIDE & GOT...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 14, 2009

    As a virgin I have experienced neither

    but I know that I prefer physical intimacy when there are loving emotions involved. I've had physical intimacy without emotion and it was not a great experience.
    purplemusicprincess purplemusicprincess
    31-35, F
    May 2, 2014

    Create a Website

    Would it be great that someone creates "Love Without Sex" DATING SERVIICE WEBSITE?  WE need to find someone who's willing to do this for us.  It would make it easier for us.  What do you think?
    energyfield energyfield
    46-50, M
    Sep 20, 2009

    I Would Rather Have Love Without Sex Then Sex Without Love.

    I think love is the foundation of a true relationship. If my boyfriend and I couldn't have sex for whichever reason, I'd be a little mad but that won't stop me from loving and being by his side. I prefer to call it making love.  the word Sex sounds over rated.. idk. Maybe it...
    allissaxx allissaxx
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 17, 2009
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