I Would Rather Hear the Truth

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 874 People

    Always!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Lies cut SOOOOOOOO much deeper then the truth
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Nov 8, 2009

    Than hear a million of your lies,

    Why do you continue this charade when we both know it's not true, If I'm not worth the truth... What am I worth to you???? Nothing absolutely nothing You've shown me for so long... That's how I feel... Nothing I Am Nothing
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 21, 2015

    I'm not in support of the idea of

    either men or women seeking sexual gratification elsewhere if they are in a committed relationship but it happens all the time I think that more men than women are unhappy from my experiences on here... It's just my opinion. I'd never go behind my partners back if sex was a...
    GalaxyGirl2015 GalaxyGirl2015
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 4, 2015

    Concretelyambiguous

    ConcretelyAmbiguous is anything that’s AbsolutelyUnclear We drive towards  and talk about the TRUTH.   Truth in relationships.  Truth in entertainment.  Truth in everyday life.  Before settling in; know that sometimes, &ldquo...
    concretelyambiguous concretelyambiguous
    31-35
    Nov 4, 2009

    Hearing or speaking the truth are really one

    and the same - I was thinking about this group from an inwards perspective - to assess myself truthfully in all the good, bad and the ugly I have done. Cumulatively, does the accuracy of this assessment not inform the propensity for self actualization?
    BConnect BConnect
    41-45, M
    Dec 7, 2015

    Pain...

    the pain from a lie cuts deep and can be hard to heal if at all... the superficial wounds from the truth can feel just as painful but are more likely to heal...and more likely to be forgiven...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 7, 2009

    Maybe that's a consequence of isolating

    someone in their mind, and making them go out there and be like everyone else. Ultimately, we are are all "special" which makes no one special. So there was no everyone else. The hurt is numbing with time although I despise their cunty mentality. They won't ever accept that I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 11, 2015

    I would much rather you tell me the hard truth

    than any kind of lie. Lies build up and hurt over time. A hurtful truth just stings and can be talked about. Lies just always hurt and add doubt.
    Raptax231 Raptax231
    22-25, M
    Dec 8, 2014

    Truths

    The truths are never simple and sometimes it hurts, but they set us free from the „evil“ and „darkness“ , especially in this selfish world. Some people would prefer to hear lies to not get hurt, I don’t.  I would rather hear the truth than anything else, even though in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 15, 2011

    I just wanna let you know

    that I'd rather be hurt by the truth than to be comforted by a lie...
    RagingDemon29 RagingDemon29
    13-15, F
    Jul 12, 2015

    No matter how it looks I want to tell the truth

    even if I loose it all. I deserve the guilt cause I chose to lie.
    NomadAngel117 NomadAngel117
    18-21, M
    May 30, 2015

    Just Tell Me.

     Even if you think it will hurt me, I always want to be told the truth. I think its better to be told something potentially hurtful right away. That way, there is less chance  for more intense upset in the future. Also, if someone lies to me about something or keeps something...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Sep 7, 2009

    No matter what I'd rather get the truth

    than be lied to, at least I can then defend myself through knowledge...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 16, 2015

    This Website

    For some reason, after a year, I decided to come back to this website. I don't remember why I ever left. People actually replied, and listened to what people had to say. Maybe I just feel as if I need to vent, and get SOME kind of input. I'm just loving all the honesty that is...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 13, 2012

    Tell the truth and get blocked ,

    what's wrong if I said wrong is wrong .
    Johnnystha Johnnystha
    26-30, M
    Apr 16, 2014

    How Do They Get Away With It !!!!

    the more i watch video,s like this the more unhappy and angry i get.not just at the people getting away with ripping us all off,but with us for letting them...... please watch this. it is virus free.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vI8IdVQsk-4&NR=1 i would like to read...
    theshadowhunter theshadowhunter
    26-30
    Sep 21, 2009

    Most people will automatically try to cover up

    something they are guilty of doing. That only makes me more upset. It's simple. Suck it up, grow some balls and take ownership of your actions. The truth will always be a hard pill to swallow but once it's out, the healing process can begin.
    SweetHawaiianHoney SweetHawaiianHoney
    36-40, F
    Oct 6, 2015

    She Brought Up The Topic, And Left It Hanging.

    She was about to tell me what was on her mind. Finally. I felt relief that she felt like she can trust me, respect me with the truth. And then... nothing. And it kills. Because she unzipped and left it where it is.
    wowzie wowzie
    26-30, F
    Jul 22, 2010

    You probably know how much "power" you have

    over him and that is a huge threat to me even if you never have done anything wrong. You know that he will always be there for you and won't walk out of your life, for me.. and that is the reason why I can't like you but I'll pretend so that you don't think your a threat to...
    Nannyxd Nannyxd
    22-25, F
    Dec 9, 2014

    I asked him to say all the truth !

    ! Why In the **** is he saying it a little each day ! Did he forget all the bullshit lies hes done !
    MrsNeedit MrsNeedit
    41-45, F
    1 Response Nov 22, 2015

    The truth can be hard to handle,

    but it would be better than living a lie.
    tsubakiblossom tsubakiblossom
    22-25, F
    Jul 12, 2015

    hear the truth not say it then say .

    . I didn't say that .. not in that way !! **** write it down so we both understand...
    MrsNeedit MrsNeedit
    41-45, F
    Dec 1, 2015

    "The TRUTH may sometimes hurt

    for a moment, but the pain you experience from a LIE can last forever." http://refe99.com/quotes/truth/
    ArrowPewPew ArrowPewPew
    18-21
    1 Response Dec 8, 2014

    Truth

    They say THE TRUTH WILL SET YO FREEI join this group cause I believe in that quote that the truth will set you free. Its better if you tell me truth than to tell me lies that will make me smile. It's better to frown because I knew you made some stupid things than to make me a...
    friendlycat friendlycat
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 23, 2011

    Today in class, I had a chat with someone,

    who I realise now, that I never really knew. She told me so much stuff, all the cr.ap she's been through. It just made me realise how easy it is to mask all the pain. She's had so much horrible stuff happen to her, I can't even imagine what she's going through. And I feel so bad...
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx
    16-17, F
    Nov 11, 2014

    Nothing But The Truth.

    My feelings do get hurt very easily and I can get upset easily but I would still rather people always told me the truth no matter what. It would make me a lot happier in the long run and I'm sure I would thank you for it later...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes
    18-21, F
    Oct 7, 2009

    Easier to Take

    I've always found the truth to be easier to take in the long term.  The truth is also easier for me to heal from, I don't find any real solace in being lied to "for my protection".  I made a promise to myself that I would be honest with myself and the people...
    wordsmith85 wordsmith85
    22-25, M
    2 Responses May 27, 2009

    Hearing the truth hurts my inner soul.

    . * my little city crumble and dies part by part because you say things part by part .. the towers in my city I call love are demolished from Hearing the truth of your decision to cheat to have sex, dinner, by gifts & watch tv an affair demolished my soul *
    MrsNeedit MrsNeedit
    41-45, F
    Dec 4, 2015

    I WANT THE TRUTH BUT CAUTION AFTER I KNOW WHAT

    YOU ****** UP ON N HOW .. YOUR TRUTH WILL BE SAID ALL IN THE RIGHT WAY YOU HAVE SAID IT .. IF IT HURT YOU, TO HEAR IT BACK .. WELL YOU SHOULD OF THOUGHT OF IT BEFORE YOU SAID IT !! HOWS IT GO !! PUT YOURSELF IN MY SHOES
    MrsNeedit MrsNeedit
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 4, 2015

    so i had a practical test the other day

    and i got great feed back from my tutor though we both knew that i could do better. i feel a little short changed. the criticism would have been appreciated.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 17, 2015
More Stories