I Wtk What Qualities You Are Most Attracted to

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    This Isn't Always Easy

    There is no laundry list cause every man is different and many have qualities I'm attracted to. Hummmm, lets see! Has a good appearance (not slovenly), professional manner, has a job, good attitude toward women, good attitude toward children, cheerful, witty, intelligent...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    2 Responses May 25, 2009

    Intensity

    I admire someone who is:Passionate, Compassionate, loving, kind, is as emotionally intense as I am, accepting, possessive of me, is as weird as I am, strong, confident, a hopeless romantic and pervy is a plus (you got a problem with that????)If that person does not like what I...
    Wackypunk Wackypunk
    18-21, M
    Dec 23, 2012

    Qualities to Me

    Trust Honesty Gumption Conviction Empathy Humor Maturity
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 19, 2009

    In Everything.......

    ~ GENTLENESS, KINDNESS, LOVE, COURAGE, SENSE OF HUMOR, ACCEPTANCE, OPEN-HEARTED, OPEN-MINDED, SWEET & LIKES TO CUDDLE. RESPECTFUL TO ALL, HAS CONTROL OF ANGER OR AT LEAST WHAT THEY DO WITH IT, HEALTHY RESPECT FOR ALL LIVING THINGS & MOTHER EARTH, LOYAL, HONEST, AND ABOVE...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 17, 2009

    Attractive

    I am attracted to people who are open and honest.  I like people who have curiosity about life and are willing to step outside the box now and again at least.  I like creative people, those who appreciate beauty in all its forms and those who like to laugh and not take...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    1 Response Aug 1, 2010

    Originality. Authenticity.

    Creativity. Confidence. Kindness. Passion. Dark humor. Vulnerability. Self-awareness. Open minded. Adventurous. These qualities are important to me in any relationship outside of my familial bonds, which are unconditional. Most else is background noise.
    anhonestmouse anhonestmouse
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 5, 2015

    Everything

    Sensuality, compassion, caring, understanding, logical, funny, smart, cool headed, charismatic, charming, energetic, adventurous, dynamic, loving, easy going, democratic, frugal, not materialistic, romantic, strong, sassy, kind, sincere, honest, loyal, devouted, laid back, take...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72
    36-40, F
    6 Responses May 23, 2009

    Things That Most Wouldn't Like...

    1. Dark wit/sarcasm: Yes, dark souls who can laugh at how ridiculous life is is a mostly a must. 2. Selective: Not someone who will befriend everyone. Only reserved for the special few. Quality not quantity. 3. Thinks outside of the norm/Deep thinker: Dosen't want what everyone...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe
    22-25
    1 Response Mar 7, 2011

    Passion!

    I love a guy that defends me and makes me feel safe. I adore people who'd do anything for me, and what I reeeaaally love is a fella who runs up and surprises ne with a big hug! Ah, heck, who am I kidding; I'm not attracted to qualities... I'm attracted to my boyfriend. Haha XD
    MeAndYou353 MeAndYou353
    16-17, F
    Jun 4, 2013

    Qualities Im Most Attracted To.

    He has to be able to make me laugh - having a sense of humor is on the top of my list. He has to be kind aswell. He has to have the same taste in music because thats a big part of what keeps me sane. He has to be understanding and know that I tend to act very weird. And lastly he...
    applescruffs applescruffs
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 29, 2009

    Depends ...

    At work I am attracted to gentle, calm, quietly effective people.. probably because I am not feeling calm at all!   But outside work I love spending time with people who enjoy fun and laughter        
    Orangetas Orangetas
    51-55, F
    32 Responses Mar 17, 2009

    Good Question :-p

    I like good teeth. Good hygiene. otherwise, looks dont bother me. He has to, has to, be cuddly :-) I feel unloved without my 5 hugs a day! (AT THE BARE MINIMUM!!!) He has to like debates. And be patient with me, I go very slow, and any sign of moving too fast- I...
    specialben specialben
    18-21
    Aug 6, 2009

    Qualities In Guys That Girls Are Attracted to

    1. caring and always taking care of people 2. determined and never give up 3. cool - always remain calm and collected even in tough situations 4. most important --- LOYAL
    KissinCoffin KissinCoffin
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Mar 18, 2009

    As A Person... A Friend... Or Anyone...

    I love being around people who have this natural warm and open personality. People who are willing to reach out to someone new and say, “Hi! Are you new? Come join me and my friends!” I’ve been the new girl enough times to really love and appreciate it when people are...
    jazzME jazzME
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 3, 2012

    I Like....

    I like people who are honest no matter what. Even if it may hurt a little please tell me the truth. I like people who are trustworthy and do not like to keep up a lot of trouble. I like people who are goal oriented.
    Abriee Abriee
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 1, 2009

    In No Particular Order

    Introspective Philosophical Thoughtful Compassionate Intellectually-stimulating Ethical Vegetarian/vegan Honest Broad horizons Well-read Quiet Contemplative Sophisticated Serious Emotional Understanding
    WoundedButterfly WoundedButterfly
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 19, 2009

    What I'm Attracted To...

    Intelligence, compassion, generous, sweet, honest, charismatic, funny, thoughtful, physical, determined, hard-working, interesting, strange, geeky, confident... long hair and a beard is a big plus too.
    deletedd deletedd
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 5, 2009

    Happiness

    I am attracted to a certain depth... a certain intelligence in one's eyes. I can't explain it accurately, and I'm probably just nutso...  I also have a weakness for broken things. So. Make of that what you will.  ANYWAY, I'm also attracted to originality, creativity...
    Ragelovelumos Ragelovelumos
    18-21, F
    Aug 9, 2012
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