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I Wtk Why Good Girls Like Bad Guys

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    I Have a Theory

    Though I've rarely gotten straight answers from women on the subject, a crazy patchwork of philosophy, psychology, economics, pick-up experts, and personal experience has lead me to a startling revelation: Most girls don't like themselves. You see how this can be problem for any...
    Honir Honir 26-30, M 9 Responses Apr 25, 2009

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    I Wtk Why Good Girls Like Bad Guys

    For the same reason that men love *******
    Bettiboop Bettiboop 31-35, F 1 Response May 5, 2009

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    Bait - Switch

    the men i seem to hook up with, are not bad in the begining, they turn that way after a few months, almost like the bait and switch thing.
    Asianblue Asianblue 41-45, F Aug 12, 2012

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    Not True - This Is Just a Myth

    The truth is that bad guys like good girls and good girls can then hardly escape from the bad guys.   The truth is also that all girls like and prefer good guys. But they do not exist.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 10 Responses Apr 26, 2009

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    I Don't

    I'm a good girl, and overall I don't like bad guys. I mean, ya, I like fun guys and guys who like to be adventurous, but mean, obnoxious hateful guys annoy me and disgust me. And it sucks because I attract those kind of guys. Bad guys like me which to me docent make any sense.
    HaleyBloodRedRose1995 HaleyBloodRedRose1995 18-21, F Mar 31, 2011

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    I Don't Think So But I Know What Ya Mean

    ok i totally get it & it CAN be true a lot...but then too, I like good guys only...'bad boys' are lame & immature.   BUT i think they have more of a general appeal to some gurls because they are often much more confident...confidence is soooo important...
    kylae77 kylae77 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 25, 2009

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    Why do good girls like bad guys.

    I've had this question for a very long time. I've been a bad boy and it's plain to see. So why do good girls fall in love with me. -Falling in Reverse
    Samchezz Samchezz 13-15, F Feb 27

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    My Generation

    Most girls my age can't help liking bad guys because they are really confident.Bad guys seem like they can protect you and because of that good girls see the potential that guy has to be an awesome boyfriend/bodyguard. There is also the possibility that good girls like bad guys...
    lazemaze lazemaze 13-15, F Apr 26, 2009

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    You Bad Guy

    I think some bad guys are just bad. But other guys would go beyond what is being bad. Things which good guys just could n't simply do, within the premise of their good and well proclaimed ideals. Good girls sees this bravado as something attractive or seductive. Thus they would...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2012

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    I think it's weird that no other girls or gay guys have posted on this. How CAN YOU NOT like big guys? They're the only type that turns me on to the fullest extent! ❤️😘
    xNickDavidx xNickDavidx 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 10

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    My first crush was a white guy. He was actually the guy who played Superman back in the early 80s, Christopher Reeves. My crush for him was so huge, I didn't know what to do..lol...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    I like older guys but not the perverted ones. I've been liking older guys since I've been on the internet and that has been since I was like 11. I have nothing against younger guys...
    ArielleLove ArielleLove 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    I like older guys that are not creepy but are kind yet will take control please be from New Jersey so we can possibly meet and not married and I'm not racist but white
    lilithnight369 lilithnight369 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm a bigger girl so I like my guys bigger ;)
    sourpatchkid578 sourpatchkid578 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I think I understand a little bit more about why exactly I made such a fool of myself when I was a child. When I was an adolescent I dressed and acted like some sort of black...
    Badtimanonymous Badtimanonymous 31-35, M Jul 6

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    I like: - Romance stories. - Baking and cooking. - Postcards. - Jigsaw puzzles. - Candles. I dislike: - Snow when it becomes icy underneath. - Feeling unwell. - The smell of...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 13-15, F 16 hrs ago

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    I love girls of all ages, races, shapes n sizes
    csmith989 csmith989 26-30, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I'm a 17 years old boy. I have been confused about my sexuality for about 2 years, and I still am. There are two weird sides to this story. I was 15 when I first started to feel...
    WillsWill WillsWill 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I am so attracted to older men, no women wants a boy when they can have a man! guys my age don't no how to treat a women and are to immature. Dating guys my own age get tiring, i...
    angelheelz angelheelz 22-25, F 5 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Yeah I'm only 5'1 sooo a lot of guys are taller then me
    LaKira LaKira 13-15, F 16 hrs ago

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    I guess I always have sense young I mean not like a 20 year difference but between 3-7 years older I don't see a huge issue I feel like men are more where I am mentally then boys...
    Sincerelynia Sincerelynia 18-21, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    My ex is 23 and was immature as ****! I thought he'd be all mature and stuff but evidently not! But I met some guy who's 34 and really straightforward and oh so mature butttt my...
    EvaSFenty EvaSFenty 18-21, F 5 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Idk why but I love guys that can be tough but can also show their emotional and sensitive side. Even thought that's rare and most are scared about being judge by their friends. I...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Okay I know this is a little odd because but I recently wrestled a girl when I was drunk at college and honestly it was really hot how she kicked my *** haha. It was really sexual...
    yeahbutimcool yeahbutimcool 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I love younger girls so much, girls hit me up
    csmith989 csmith989 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    I love tall guys😍. I like the way they make you feel like their baby because they are so much taller than you😍. It seems like it would feel good to have someone tall and...
    OutOfSight23 OutOfSight23 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 1

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    25m girls hit me up :) lets talk about your fantasies!
    Nohdin Nohdin 22-25, M Jul 9

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    If I tell you back off that means you're in my personal space. I don't get why guys like that don't give up. It's like the warning isn't clear until they get kicked in the nuts...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    What's funny is that I've always wanted to date a guy taller than me (I'm 5'10) and the guy I am in a relationship with is 5'8" haha. The only reason why I am ok with his height is...
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I don't know why but I guess I find some of them attractive.
    chasehux chasehux 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 7

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    I am not sure why. Maybe its connected to my domination complex . I do date men my age and slightly older but I prefer them younger than me. More sexually interesting they seem .
    seybear seybear 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I can't believe in this website they have the cutest guys!!!! I love having cute guys as friends.😊
    pattyricia pattyricia 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Idk i just find older guys more interesting. I like older boys too, i think there's only 1 boy that i like that's my age, but he giving me mixed signals (−_−#) i like guys...
    ShadesOfCoolBae ShadesOfCoolBae 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I really don't know why. My ex is 27. I could never see myself with anyone under my age (under 18) or even 18 for that matter.
    MikBlack13 MikBlack13 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Irish guys, are hot. I'm half Irish and half scottish xD I don't know what it is but the Irish guys I've ever met are always so charming and nice ^-^
    Tabithaaa Tabithaaa 16-17, F Jul 4

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    Likes: 1. Vintage-style Wristwatches 2. Documentaries 3. East Indian/Pakistani Food 4. Bookstores 5. The Desert Dislikes: 1. Garage Sales 2. Crowds 3. Romantic Comedies 4. Traffic...
    Rutterman Rutterman 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Likes- 1. Getting a pedi 2. Flowers/plants 3. Seeing new places 4. Pepperoni rolls w/ sweet peppers 5. Laughing with my kiddos Dislikes- 1. Waiting in long lines at an...
    Jadedlace Jadedlace 36-40, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Idk I date guys my age but they're pretty immature and the relationships I've had with older guys have just been much better and very exciting
    Avery1313 Avery1313 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm 5'8 so guys that are 6 feet or taller>>>😍😍😍
    jessm2194 jessm2194 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    When I say this, I don't mean guys in there 50's or 40's. And also, I don't mean in a sexual way, or anything like that. I just like the appearance and I enjoy talking to them to...
    Driftyftw Driftyftw 16-17, F Jul 2

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    I love tall guys. I'm 5'5" and my boo is 6'6". Spooning is my favorite thing ever. We fit perfectly together :)
    elleon88 elleon88 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Aaaaah, tall guys are the best. I want to hug a guy over 6ft like right now.
    Trupp Trupp 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    emo guys are so attractive like i cannot explain . 😍😍
    ughmichaela ughmichaela 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Over the years I've discovered I'm attracted to intelligence, and I can relate to and appreciate a guy with a taste for sci fi, fantasy, anime, reading, writing, really the list...
    janicefromkansas janicefromkansas 18-21, F Jul 14

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    Just more on the mature level...Half the guys my age are a turn off because they act so annoying and child-like. I think i've always liked older anyway. Age limit though..:-S
    ThatIsSoJill ThatIsSoJill 18-21, F 34 Responses Jul 15

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    White guys well damn ;) That's all ill say
    AriannaMariee AriannaMariee 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    Pft Eff being muscular, big guys are just so comfortable and make me feel safe.
    DyeHard DyeHard 16-17, F Jul 19

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    Older guys make me horny and happy
    sweetaddictionxo sweetaddictionxo 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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