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Getting Rid of Yur Stepdaughter
I wanted to share my story because like all of you I hate my stepdaughter! However, I took action and got rid of her, from my life at least. I live with my fiance who had is 8 year old daughter every weekend when we first started dating. A year and a half later he sees her 3 to 4 hours every other weekend at his parents house. She is not allowed at our house because I don't want her too. I moved us further away from his parents so it takes him longer to drive, and I got rid of her room in our 3 bedroom home. She's an idiot, she'll be 9 this year and she can not even read and she's getting held back. I think it's histerical and to think I actually tried to help her in the beginning. None of her family cares enough to help her with schooling, but that is not the point. I wanted to give little details on how I did what I did so if it will work for any of you, you can use it! First I claimed we needed alone time, which got the visitation to every other week. Then he started working on weekends and I told him I am not his babysitter and I am not her mother so he has can not bring her to the house. Then one time when she was at our house (last year) she didn't listen to what I told her to do so I tore into her dad, he refused to talk to her about it so I told him that she is no longer allowed at our home. She hasn't been here in over 6 months! Since then I got rid of her bed and put a guest bed in the room, and I have been progressively throwing away her toys. Since we just moved into our new home they are still packed up so no one ever knows the difference. We moved another 30 to 45 minutes away from his parents house so by the time he gets off work on fridays he has no time to see her, and then he works saturday and then i let him go to sleep and don't wake him up so he dosen't go up there saturday until like 6. Then Sundays after work all he has time to do is go get her and take her home, which I join in on. I want to make sure she associates me with leaving and no seeing her dad. And sometimes I even fight with him when he goes to see her so he assoicates seeing her with us having problems, and sometimes he dosen't even go! Ladies trust me there are a million things you can do to move your stepdaughter further out of your life. Plan vacations on special events, demand that every other holiday you spend with your family (I did that one too, he hasn't had her in 2 christmas's!). Accidently have made plans with friends on her weekends, and tell your husband way before so he dosen't think to count the weeks and goes ahead and agrees! I love our life now that she's out of our lives, our relationship is so much better! Good luck!
Posted by cellens11 at 7:25PM on Jul 25th, 2009
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I WISH I COULD DO ANY OF THE THINGS U DONE, BUT SHE LIVES WITH US, N IS A HELL I FEEL WAAAYYYYYY BETTER WHEN SHE GOES ON THE WEEKENDS TO HER MOTHERS HOUSE N FUNNY HOW ALL OUR ARGUMENTS START BECAUSE OF HER I HAVE 2 OF MY OWN N THEY WILL LISTEN. TO MY HUSBAND N HER SHE IS JUST A BRAT, SELFISH, ANNOYING, STUPID TEEN, I CANNOT WAIT TILL SHE GETS PREGO OR LIVES THE HOUSE PLZZZZZZZ HOPEFULLY SOON
Posted by ElizabethHC on Oct 24th, 2014 at 6:02PM | 0 recommendations
I understand how some may find your candidness abrupt, uncaring, and disrespectful. Sadly I understand what you are going through. My husbands ex, his daughter -totally run our lives. She has been brought up with attachment parenting, breastfed til she was five, and is downright mean to me. I love my husband dearly but if I had to do it all over again would never. The father/daughter relationship will beat the husband/wife relationship every time, leaving me feeling hurt, regretful, inadequate, and deflated.
Posted by Sadnewmom on Oct 5th, 2014 at 7:06PM | 0 recommendations
Wow! Awesome job! I am not able to do anything from the above. That brat is living with us 24/7 . Guess what is the only reason me and my husband are arguing aboutr That's right - my stepdaughter. She has a learning disability so either pretends or she is really stupid. I've made a decision to leave his *** because this marriage had brought out the worst of me. Can't wait to create my own family where kids love and respect me- their mommy :)
Posted by KristinaApple on Oct 1st, 2014 at 6:35AM | 0 recommendations
You're the kind of step-mother that make those evil step-mom stereotypes. You aren't allowing your husband to see his daughter! It looks like you just want to keep him all to yourself and your children, and keep the poor youngster from her father. You're a cruel, selfish woman.
Posted by CherryBomb15 on Sep 22nd, 2014 at 3:00PM | 0 recommendations
Sounds mean but I agree totally. People wouldn't really understand until they're in our position. Sometimes I feel like I should go to work Sunday to Sunday just so I wouldn't have to deal with her. Her mother is neglecting her and her father is allowing it but I'm sorry I AM NOT HER MOTHER, I have my own child who give me no trouble whatsoever and I shouldn't have to deal with another's problem. Her mother's negligence towards her is not my problem and it should not fall on my shoulders to compensate. That's just not fair to me.
Posted by jewels205 on Aug 26th, 2014 at 8:17AM | 0 recommendations
When I first read your posting I felt somewhat bad for the little girl, your step daughter. I thought that maybe you were just impatient or maybe too young to understand. I have since recognized the sheer gleefulness of eliminating her from your life. I have a 13 year old step daughter, she is a spoiled princess. It's not her dad that seems to be the main issue in her upbringing, you see, she lives very far away from us, so my husband depends on the idiot mother, and the grandparents to help out. They have spoiled her rotten, and all because they feel sorry for her. She has taken full advantage of this, by demanding anything and everything her little **** heart desires. She recently stayed with us for the summer. I am pregnant for the first time, a high risk pregnancy, difficult and delicate, and my husband decided to bring her here for TWO months. I have dealt with a spoiled, selfish, jealous whiny little ***** for two months. He has spoken to her about her behavior, but he is not consistent, and eventually goes back to coddling her and overcompensating again. She will be gone in two days, and I am so relieved. I TOLD my husband I do not want her for MY baby's birth. His parents want to be here, I don't want them here either. My father-in-law coddles her more than everyone, told me that he buys her whatever she wants, whenever she wants it with no question. My fear is that they will bring her, and they will pamper to HER needs while I am in labor and when the baby is born. The attention will be about how SHE feels, and my baby and I will be left behind, forgotten. I will NOT allow them to do to my child what they do to me. NO FREAKIN WAY. My husband is the only one allowed in the delivery room, and my parents will be the only ones allowed to come to meet their ONLY grandchild when born.
Posted by melinashi on Jul 7th, 2014 at 12:57PM | 0 recommendations
Applause to you. I have gone through hell with SD and also was recently successful in removing her from our life. My husband asked me to take down her pictures, he is completely done. Thank god!!! It only took 6 years of misery and verge of divorce many times. Now we can move on with OUR family and OUR two children. The drama is finally over. Ps until you have been in these horrible shoes, don't judge!!!! You would never understand what we go through.
Posted by IHMAT on Jun 22nd, 2014 at 11:37PM | 2 recommendations
Congratulations at least someone out there had the balls to stand their ground against these unwanted leaches who do they think they are trying to barge into your new life I really can't stand these god awful brats that think the world owes them something because their parents aren't together boo hoo daddy's got a girlfriend so that gives me a right to be a disrespectful little ***** I don't think so! They should all get a grip and stay with their useless mothers who weren't good enough to hold on to a man big applause to you lady!!
Posted by madmommy2 on May 25th, 2014 at 11:15AM | 1 recommendation
holy ******* ****!!! that 9 year old girl deserves way better than you and her "dad". your husband has zero balls and just like someone else said, god will get you. i seriously hope that girl grows up not knowing either one of you. and i hope that your ovaries and uterus and **** all get cancer and rot off your disgusting body. you are a ****. no wonder the girl doesnt listen to you, she can tell that you hate her. and to start fights with your husband to brainwash him is terrifying. it shows how selfish you are. you dont give a **** about him. all you care about is yourself. well let me tell you something you little ****. you better watch out cause that 9 year old girl is going to grow up to be a 21 year old like me and **** man, i do horriffic things to my step mother. i put sugar, salt and oil in her gas tank i put bleach in her contact lense solution, i put bleach in all of her potted plants, i spit lougies into her shoes, i wipe my **** with her housecoat sleve so it gets on her hands and face. and on my last day here im going to ******* snip all of the wires under the hood of her truck. i ******* hate my step mother but unlike your stupid, ***** whiped ***** husband my daddy loves me and doesnt let his **** get away with a lot of ****. that little girl will make your life miserable. karma will kick you in the teeth. and im going to pray to god to ask him for revenge for that poor girl. i hope you rot in hell you peice of ****. its people like you that are ruining this world. go die
Posted by fuckyoucunt1 on May 18th, 2014 at 4:22AM | 0 recommendations
I understand you perfectly. My step daughter and her son are living with us and now I want her out of my life!!. I emigrated her, I paid for it (because my husband hasn't had a good job) we wanted so badly have her with him. When finally she was able to come to USA she moved in with us. I started to notice her behavior, she is lazy, dirty, sleeps a lot, she thinks she knows everything, she always is right, and so on; I told my husband that she needed to accept the "rules" of my house if she wanted to live with us. At the beginning she agreed to the rules but after and slowly she was doing wherever she wanted. Until I got pregnant of our first baby, I was getting mad every single day because of her and her behavior. My husband told her to go back to her home, with her mom; she always was saying she would move back there. Then, one year later, she told my husband she was pregnant and that the boyfriend told her to go back to her mom's house. I said poor thing, ok, may be now that she is pregnant she is gonna change her attitude. We bring her back. But now she is even worse. She is been living with us for a year and my life is ugly like a hell. She doesn't work. She doesn't help with the chores at home. She has her bedroom dirty. She says she is tired of me and my rules. She is rude to me, she answers rudely, makes faces to me when I tell something to her. And the worse thing is that she doesn't take care of her baby. When he was like 1 month old she was giving him water instead of milk; she said that the water will helped his stomach. He cried a lot pretty much whole day because he was hungry, she would feed him only for 5 min. She would be at the computer in Facebook and the baby in her lap. She had the baby sleeping with her in single bed having a bassinet for the baby. She would feed him while she was sleeping. When he was sleeping she would put the blanket on his face. I have found the baby clothes with pop all over, which means she wasn't changing the diaper frequently. Now she has daycare (she applied for it). The baby is been taken care better, he doesn't cry that much. But in the weekends she needs to feed him, and because she is to lazy to prepare the food for him (we have the baby bullet to make things easier) she feeds him only with milk and even worse she gives him breast milk to avoid wash the baby bottles. Few days ago, the baby fell off the bed, she left him on the bed and she went to the kitchen, it was an night; we only heard the sound when the baby fell and he crying. The baby has some orthopedic issues and the Dr. recommended a brace for his legs and to use it every night, which she doesn't do. My baby and hers go to the same daycare. At the daycare the lady told me that I was been abusive with my stepdaughter, because she was saying that she was cleaning the house, making meals for me, doing laundry and everything at the house, that it was not okay which made me angry, obviously she is not doing anything at all. Sometimes I just want to grab my baby and run out of the house. I'm at the point where seeing her face bothers me. I feel sorry for the baby, that's the only reason for me no to kick her out, but I'm about to because I can't handle this situation anymore. My husband talks to her but she doesn't care. She wont listen. Obviously my relationship with my husband is deteriorating. I'm not longer happy.
Posted by rrodlo on May 16th, 2014 at 5:24PM | 0 recommendations
I in NO way condone your behavior, but I understand your reaction. When a child makes it impossible for you to care, then there is no emotional attachment. You don't care because it's a sincere reaction. You are protecting your home environment. I think it take a real amount of maturity to get along with a step child, I'm not saying love, I'm saying acknowledgement and respect for their feelings. It's just a very hard situation in which your husband must have a clear view of his children's behavior, sadly most men are blinded by pity for their children, and they end up spoiling their kids.
Posted by melinashi on May 11th, 2014 at 9:12AM | 0 recommendations
I hate my stepdaughter too. But for good reasons. You are just a gigantic *****.
Posted by Bluberrymuffn on May 1st, 2014 at 10:50AM | 0 recommendations
You people are fucken sick. The ***** that posted this should be arrested! God will make you pay sweetie. What you do done to her another will do to you or your kids.
Posted by rosheeze1 on Apr 14th, 2014 at 10:24AM | 0 recommendations
All of you resenting stepmothers are very wrong. I am a step kid to 2 people who love me very much I imagine that if your child was sick in the head like that, you would call a doctor. Wouldn't your Be the bigger person and make the appointment yourself, if you really love this person you would love his/her kid as well. My stepmother plans my trips to go to and from my mom and dad and she actually wants me to go over there a lot. I actually am very lucky for my step parents, my stepfather is a jeweler and he makes me jewelry from time to time and he also drives a limousine late at night to pay for my tuition and he don't give a sh*t cause he loves me and wants the best for me. Same with my stepmother, I have my own room and she went shopping with me for my Christmas presents and we spent just about $500 on just me bc I also wanted a hello kitty sowing machine. I am very grateful for that shopping spree and that was just presents from her, not my dad. My dad gave me a $100 bill. For those women who want no stepchildren, just leave the man and consider a single man who will have time for you and have time to start a family. As many women said here that ex's of your husband couldn't keep the family together, we'll try it yourself and see how 'easy' it is to you.
Posted by Peacemaker911 on Mar 24th, 2014 at 1:39AM | 0 recommendations
After reading these posts I can see where you are all coming from. I am just about to walk away from the man who was the love of my life, I just cannot take his one sided behaviour any more. My stepdaughter was 6 when I met her and already showing sociopathic traits, which I observed and kept quiet about. Twice I caught her throwing my beautiful elderly saggy 8 year old rabbit to the floor and kicking him. A year later when our cat gave birth to 6 dead kittens both myself and her Dad cried. She never shed a tear, just kept wanting to go and gawp at their dead bodies. I also caught her locking my puppy in a bedside cabinet. When her Dad was out of work I paid for EVERYTHING for a whole year, including his maintenance to his fruitloop of an ex partner. I also bought shoes for his Daughter as I was sick of seeing hard skin on her feet through ill fitting shoes. There is really too much to tell it would take me ages,but lets just say that I know she has some sort of problem and is now 11 years old, nearly as tall as me, and quite frankly she gives me the creeps. Ive caught her analysing me when she thinks I cannot see her, she steals from me (sentimental things that cannot be replaced). I wrote her Dad a heartfelt letter last week, and when some more of my jewellery went missing I went into her room to look for it. I found a small picture of her Mother and tucked behind it in the frame was a piece of paper folded up into tiny squares, and when I opened it, it was a copy of the letter I had written to her Dad, she had copied it out word for word then stuffed it behind the photo of her Mum. I am at the point now where I am not going to wait around until she either pushes me down the stairs or stabs me in the back, literally. Ive googled "mini wife", she fits the bill, she fits the bill for sociopathic, phycopathic and other disorders but her Dad thinks she is his little princess and can do no wrong. I have now decided to cut my losses and leave them to it. I would never harm her but I seriously hope that she does the same thing again to his next girlfriend, as he seems to think that sacrificing the love of his life is worth it to keep cossetting this horrible child. We were supposed to be getting married, then she upped the ante with her behaviour. I would imagine she will be grinning like a cheshire cat when I leave, but he is terribly afraid of being alone and the minute he brings next girlfriend into the equation, the merry go round of **** will start all over again, and by this time I will be long gone, maybe then and only then will be realise that the true love of his life was trying to warn him and tell him the truth. His loss, not mine.
Posted by loulou770 on Mar 4th, 2014 at 5:02PM | 1 recommendation
I have an 18 year old stepdaughter and I met her when she was 15. I know you are a b+i+t+c+h. A 9 year old kid, come on already, you are not only selfish but you are also insecure about not only your relationship but your own identity. That's sad. You are the one who needs to be dropped sweetie. You are pathetic and have no reguard for any other human being! You are selfish and you don't deserve what you have and he will figure you out eventually and drop you for the b+i+t+c+h you are. Grow the **** up already for real, *******!
Posted by Momforlife37 on Feb 23rd, 2014 at 3:04PM | 0 recommendations
My marriage has fell apart because my spouse of full time rights back to his kid, every thing revolves around her, all we do is fight because he wont discipline her, he ignores the baby... I think since he see's his self as christian he needs to re-read his bible and see that the marriage comes first and Abraham sent away his child and the mother and the same needs done here. WHat does he dor buys stuff he doesn't take care of the physical constant demands he isn't the one getting held back on a career because he wont take the ex for child support so mountian heart will accept his child but will mine! I suffer from her, HE DOESN'T, because he has no responsibility I have it all! My child suffers from having a neglectful father because of it! I think if he is going to let that woman see her that woman needs to take the responsibility and be a mother not a friend! I want to help the mother get back her rights back so at least one of the natural parents will be taking care of her! because neither one really does anything! I can't do nothing for myself or my daughter because I'm stuck taking care of his kid while he is at work, and with him constantly telling me how much he doesn't love me I want to get my career in place so I know we will have something to go to when a divorce happens and I wont feel so bad for his kid for not having anyone decent taking care of her. Just thrown in and out of baby setters, daycares, schools, and god knows what. He doesn't have time to be a father why should I waste my time taking care of his baggage while I have my own child to take care of! God knows the little pill head isn't gonna pay child support that is the only reason he took the other kid he didn't want to pay his ex any money because he is a dickless pos!
Posted by Missbabiesmomonly on Jan 23rd, 2014 at 3:38PM | 1 recommendation
You have issues lady! Please seek help of a counselor before you continue this behavior or worse yet before you teach this behavior and bad choices that stem from it to others. This planet doesn't need anymore help from people like yourself.
Posted by Truble4all on Jan 14th, 2014 at 10:45AM | 2 recommendations
This is the exact reason why children do not trust their bioparents' new lovers/spouses. This is the reason they are horrible to them. Seriously, this is exactly the thing they fear, a stepparent who wants to take their bioparent away and willfully tries to destroy the parent-child bond they share. I don't like children, in general. I won't ever have children of my own, and I would never marry someone who has children under 18 that he/she has contact with. So, I understand where you are coming from. They can be a pain, and after a while frustration will probably get so bad that you just want them out of your life and miserable for the rest of their days. But really, it makes you a pretty horrid human being. It's quite petty and childish to act like that.
Posted by Quantumphysica on Jan 12th, 2014 at 4:05PM | 2 recommendations
I feel the same you are a blessing I can't stand my wife's devil's seed she's horrible she got pregnant when she was liked 15 we made her have an abortion and come to find out this little fun swollower has been having sex sinse she was like 12 oh I hate this *****
Posted by joey2100 on Jan 9th, 2014 at 11:30PM | 0 recommendations
And I say this to ALL bio moms who have a problem with step moms... Stop having kids by men who don't stick around or that you can't keep! KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED IF YOU CAN'T KEEP YOUR FAMILY TOGETHER!! If YOU kept your family together step mothers would be non-existent!
Posted by LolAtPplWhoGetMad on Dec 24th, 2013 at 9:23PM | 0 recommendations
Your the most disgusting piece of human feces on this planet. You psychotic-sosiopathic disgrace of of a human being. I am normally not one to condone what I'm saying to you, but **** you, you worthless pill of filth. I hope he leaves you for a beautiful and wonderful woman so he can finally see the the difference between a beautful soul and a rotten pile of maggot soul. You digust me. If you were infront of me I'd spit on you.
Posted by Lolobeans12341234 on Dec 24th, 2013 at 12:31AM | 0 recommendations
Elina1989 ur my hero! I wish step children under 18 could be aborted! Just put down like dogs!
Posted by Karenns on Dec 20th, 2013 at 9:38PM | 1 recommendation
I've never felt so disgusted in my entire life. Is this what that woman my used-to-be dad was with, didr You... You need to stop being so sick and realize what you are doing. Have you no feelingsr Where is your heartr You teach children, yeahr You love children, yesr Then why are you pushing this little girl away from her fatherr You have no idea what you are doing to her. That man your with told you to come here so we, everyone on this site, can talk some sense into you. You need help. And something I know nothing aboutr I know a whole lot of something's about this. You make me sick. I've never been a hateful person, but ma'am, I will laugh when someone has finally killed you, then I want to stand over your grave and laugh as your corpse rots, then I will want to laugh again as the devil puts you through a torturous hell, and hopefully, you will regret every single second you didn't love on that little girl. You are why every girl hates their stepmothers.
Posted by AbandonedKitten on Dec 20th, 2013 at 8:59PM | 0 recommendations
I have a 4 year old step daughter and I hate her guts! Her bio mother has a suspended licence and is on probation for continously driving drunk. Ohh how often I pray shr drive drunk with that lil brat in the car and they both fly off a cliff!
Posted by LilyAnnFross on Dec 20th, 2013 at 7:57PM | 3 recommendations
I'm 19 years old and have dealt with a nasty ***, mean *** stepmother since I was six years old! She had my whole family including my own FATHER turn on me, and as a result on my 18yh birthday I was kicked out of my house. My best friend to me and and even her mother hated my stepmoms guts. My other friends parents thought she was a ***** too, even a few of her own cousins did. I've been trying to tell my father for years this woman is no good but he never listened! Now, after cheating on him before and still cheating on him NOW he finally sees what I've been trying to tell him! She tricked him into moving to another state alone for his job and now she's at home having an affair and taking his all of his money! She's never worked a day in her life accept stupid hotel receptionist jobs and used all his money to go to college and she still won't get a career! She has rubies my life! I hope ignorant as ******* like you as well as my stepmother (soon to be ex stepmother) BURN IN HELL you piece of ****! I wish I knew you so I could BEAT YOUR ******* *** STUPID ****. GO LAY IN TRAFFIC LAZY *** HOE. You're clearly a dumb *****.
Posted by CharlieRose24 on Nov 30th, 2013 at 4:51PM | 1 recommendation
Perhaps this woman is a bit jealous of the stepdaughter, however, it is her instinct to protect her relationship and her future family. How many of you who are making comments actually have stepdaughters. Let me tell you, not just my personal experiences, my only one friend(yes, only one, because the rest will never choose to date a man with kids) told me that her stepkid was trying to hurt her own son due to jealousy. She had no choice but to move her family to another country to avoid this screwed up stepkid. I am in the similar situation too, the stepbrats are so jealous of my daughter that they tried to feed her with plastic balls! I will NOT TOLERATE anyone that is willing to destroy my family, or is a thread to my daughter's life.
Posted by Elina1989 on Oct 9th, 2013 at 6:22AM | 1 recommendation
Your sick a very sick woman i hope god raises all hell on you.
Posted by MajesticGalaxyStar on Sep 24th, 2013 at 10:46PM | 1 recommendation
BTW, i'd really like to urge all of you who dislike or hate your stepbrats to take some serious actions. because, long term resentment is going to damage your health, mentally and physically, imaging all the medical bills you have to pay due to these brats. Secondly, You have done absolutely nothing wrong. Such step relationships are not natural! They are against our true nature. Tell yourself everyday that 'I AM A LOVING INTELLIGENT GREAT PERSON, I HAVE ALL THE RIGHTS IN THE WORLD TO HATE HER/THEM, BECAUSE I DID NOT CAUSE THEIR PARENTS' SEPARATION, I ONLY MARRIED TO MY HUSBAND, HIS ROLE IS TO BE A HUSBAND TO ME IN THIS MARRIAGE, A FATHER TO OUR KID/KIDS TOGETHER'. You truly have nothing to do with these brats, empower yourself everyday, hang out with positive people to increase self-esteem, slowly, they will be getting out of your life, although it won't happen over night. Trust me, the more powerful you are, the further they will stay away from you.
Posted by Elina1989 on Sep 13th, 2013 at 11:14AM | 1 recommendation
You can't judge someone unless you've walked in their shoes. I know how you feel.
Posted by luvhorses on Sep 8th, 2013 at 7:30AM | 3 recommendations
You are getting feelings of joy by destroying the relationship between a father and his child. Wow. You are truly a sorry excuse for a human being. Do us a favor hun, find the nearest bridge and jump off of it!!
Posted by breena93 on Sep 4th, 2013 at 6:48PM | 2 recommendations
I have an evil adult stepdaughter that I hate but up until last year I tried my best to give her the love and care she needed. I think it's awful what you are doing to a 9 year old child!! You only give up when there's no hope and you are not just giving up, you never started loving her. You are actively dab stoving her relationship with her father. You pretty much suck as a human being!
Posted by Madreofmany on Jul 26th, 2013 at 7:00PM | 2 recommendations
How did you manage to do it! My husband has his fugly kid every other weekendwhich is far too often for me!! However everytime I make a coment about her or moan that we have no us time he get defensive and tell me that if i dont like his hid our marriage will have to end. I'm a catholic and I do not do divorces, I love my husband but there is not a day I wish that Kid (by his ex muslim wife) disappeared for good. Everything that is her is precious, I feel like an intruder in my own house ( bearing in mind I pay for most of stuff coz he spends all his money on that little ****) I get more bitter everyday, I'm full of resentment towards that kid and her mother. How can I solve it not to lose my hubby but to get rid of HER!
Posted by IBM84 on Jul 25th, 2013 at 10:58AM | 0 recommendations
Because she's uneducatedr Reallyr You're a monster
Posted by ericjames85 on Jul 14th, 2013 at 5:06AM | 2 recommendations
If I was your husband, I'd run for the hills and keep on running. No doubt you'd track him down on your broomstick.
Posted by duncanpoundcake on Jul 8th, 2013 at 9:32AM | 2 recommendations
wow, while you're patting yourself on the back, I'd like to kick your a. What a pathetic bunch you and you're husband. You have a mentally handicapped child and your solution is to make her life hell. Good on you. in the end, she's better off without you around anyways. I bet you're wonderful husband is stiffing the mother on child support too. Useless!
Posted by TamelToe on Jul 4th, 2013 at 3:41PM | 4 recommendations
Wow i dont see my step children because of the agro the ex and they caused which has been hurtful and difficult at times. I think you are right to not have to have them in your life just because you are married to their dad, but you can be honest and not so devious for the sake of his feelings where he will be caught in the middle. i cant say i particularly like their personalities, but i dont hate them and wow how can anyone hate an 8 year old childrrr
Posted by Gembibbs on Jun 22nd, 2013 at 3:45PM | 1 recommendation
Wow i dont see my step children because of the agro the ex and they caused which has been hurtful and difficult at times. I think you are right to not have to have them in your life just because you are married to their dad, but you can be honest and not so devious for the sake of his feelings where he will be caught in the middle. i cant say i particularly like their personalities, but i dont hate them and wow how can anyone hate an 8 year old childrrr
Posted by Gembibbs on Jun 22nd, 2013 at 3:45PM | 1 recommendation
I fail to see how you women can even call yourselves human. I have two stepdaughters that I've raised since they were 5 and 7 (now 12 and 15) and NO, it isn't always easy. But how could you knowingly manipulate your husband into ABANDONING his childrenr!r The best thing that could possibly happen is for you to get divorced and your ex husbands marry women JUST LIKE YOU. You won't be high-fiving each other so much when it's YOUR children that your chicken$h!t husbands are destroying. I'm ashamed that you even have children of your own, please sterilize yourselves so your complete lack of humanity dies with you. You women should be ashamed of yourselves for the joy that RUINING A CHILD'S LIFE brings you. Your husbands are also complete dumba$$es for allowing you to do this to their children. How can you be proud of being married to someone so weak both in mind and willr Wow..just wow.
Posted by Holyshnikes on Jun 20th, 2013 at 10:29PM | 4 recommendations
I am the adult version of the abandoned step daughter all of you selfish disturbed women are trying to abandon. My "father" was a result of a lie he create to cover up the fact that he was cheated on, a fact his "wife" "failed" to see (along with the fact that she was a part of the Jerry Springer fiasco because that's who she is too). I was treated like a third class citizen until I was 16 when, after countless setups and being made the scapegoat of what I thought was my family, I was abandoned in the ghetto. I was promptly found by a sociopathic 19 year old who offered me a place to say in another state. He wouldn't let me go home after that so I spent SIX YEARS BEING SEXUALLY ABUSED, MISSED THE REST OF HIGHSCHOOL AND HAD HIS BABY! He moved me to a different sate every year. It has been over a decade since I ran from him and started over. My "stepmother" still does these tactics with me. The sad part is that I still love her like a mother. How sick is that. i WILL NEVER BE WHOLE AGAIN! NEVER! SHE TOOK MY LIFE FROM ME! I HOPE YOU ALL END UP IN HELL FOR WHAT YOU ARE! FIVE YEAR OLDSr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! JESUS CHRIST DUDE! I HOPE YOU DIE!
Posted by hcm1977 on Jun 18th, 2013 at 12:02AM | 2 recommendations
Wow your my hero I love you... I did similar things to my husband to get rid of his 2 bratty girls... Even moved us into state... Was all going to plan until his ex kicked there 14 year old girl out... Now she lives with us... Total night mare. Her mother won't have her back & there is no where else for her to go... He works away & I work a lot of nights so when he is home I get him to come places with me & she always says no I will stay home... I wish the mother would have her back. It's bloody hard work.
Posted by Annnapier on Jun 9th, 2013 at 8:44AM | 0 recommendations
I have two evil stepchildren. They are in their 30s now. They were 9 and 11 when I first met them. I always welcomed them and showered them with love and attention. They took every opportunity to mock and ridicule me. The stepson battered me on one occasion and sexually assaulted me when he was 19. The stepdaughter is very two faced. She pretends to be friendly around me. After she leaves I always hear through the grapevine her nasty comments about us. When I think back on all the years I tried to get them to like me I am only filled with regret. I shouldn't have bothered. It was not worth it. Now that they are adults I tell my husband if he wants to see them, he can go to their place or meet them out somewhere. I don't want them here. His son is a threat to me and his daughter can go gossip about someone else. I'm done. Not playing the game anymore. Their loss.
Posted by MistyQ13 on May 25th, 2013 at 12:58PM | 1 recommendation
Wow congrats for potentially screwing up an innocent persons life. Your husband is complete loser for allowing any of your manipulation to take place. Remember the story of Cinderella and snow whiter Well you are just as ugly as those witches and you will suffer the same terrible ending as they did, in life you can not get away with BS like that, it will come back around honey. Though you hate your year old step daughter I wager that your selfishness and maturity level equates to that of a 3 year old, so she still one ups you sweet heart.
Posted by WowthisladymakesmeSICK on May 17th, 2013 at 4:19PM | 3 recommendations
You are a total, B
Posted by Forever21a on May 7th, 2013 at 12:57AM | 3 recommendations
I met my husband when my SD was 3 yrs old. She will be 17 in May. When she was young, I treated her like my own. She lived in another state with her bio mom so when she would come to visit everything was about her. She came to live with us when she was 13 and I was excited. What a nightmare it has turned out to be. She is awful to me and I have reached the point where all I want is for her to go. Your story makes me feel sad for your husband and SD but I understand. I really do. Why should you waste your timer Best of luck to you.
Posted by Raspberry815 on Apr 26th, 2013 at 8:16AM | 2 recommendations
Three words You Go Girl. We married the fathers not the jacked up kids!!!!!
Posted by Savannah80 on Apr 26th, 2013 at 6:57AM | 2 recommendations
I am in a similar situation - however my husband is actually raising an 11 year girl who was a product of an affair his ex-wife had while they were still married. The child is also bi-racial (a beautiful girl) but she does not know she's biracial - because my husband nor the ex-wife has been honest with her about her identity. She believes my husband is her biological father. Dysfunctional - I know. I have 2 boys 5 and 11 from my first marriage. My husband has no problem with disciplining my kids at the drop of a hat - but excuses everything his "daughter" does. She's a hyperactive, manipulative, antagonistic, self centered little jack wagon. He sees none of this. I am frustrated withal of it - including being an unwitting participant in keeping of his charade that he is her bio-Dad. If I never saw her again - I wouldn't care and dread when she is at our home. I feel really guilty about my feelings.
Posted by damzel12 on Apr 24th, 2013 at 2:35PM | 1 recommendation
Just cos a bloke has kids from past doesn't mean we should have to put up with them. A few cells mutated and bred these aliens. Not our problem! Why should we not have the man we want because of these brats
Posted by Myboysmummy on Apr 2nd, 2013 at 1:18AM | 2 recommendations
Haha . Yes I have the same issue . My step daughter is 5 and she is dumb as a rock . She can't tie her shoes , count , tell me what letters look like , shapes . Smh . She throws fits over everything . She harasses my 5 month old . I need to step my game up so she doesn't come around anymore
Posted by Smelinda123 on Mar 27th, 2013 at 8:26AM | 0 recommendations
I have been doing something very similar but I haven't been quite as ruthless... Maybe I need to step my game up.
Posted by bumblebeez on Mar 25th, 2013 at 2:06AM | 1 recommendation
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