(question for ladies,however men,i would value your opinion) WOULD YOU BE A SURROGATE MOTHER FOR SOMEONE?

Asked By: thewingedone 46-50, F 1 year ago

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Posted by SaintMaj Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:09PM

I already gave birth to my little twins:Lestat and Peza.Very painful expirience !

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Reply by thewingedone Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:11PM

aww, empathize, i been through similar although i never had twins thanks..
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Reply by SaintMaj Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:28PM

you don't have any idea what problems he causes me now - when he thinks he's grown up !
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Posted by PeachesNScreams Nov 19th, 2011 at 4:16PM

No. I think it's cool when others do it, but personally it just isn't for me. If pregnancy didn't involve stretchmarks, morning sickness, weight gain, your body never being the same again, pain, and your vagina getting stretched, I'd go ahead and be a surrogate to whoever. But since it involves that, which is like a huge sacrifice, I just wanna go through it once and -keep- my child, raise it, love it. Even if I got paid I wouldn't wanna be a surrogate. Not worth it.

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Posted by sonador Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:47PM

YES, for family and friends
One of my closest friend is goin through some fertility test, theres a big chace she wont be able to have children, and im by her side through it all. i see the pain she goes through. And i've already told her i'd be her surrogate if she needs one...

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Reply by thewingedone Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:58PM

aww thats a lovely story, and what a compassionate and loving friend you are,she is lucky to have someone as wonderful as you . thank you
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Reply by sonador Nov 19th, 2011 at 3:15PM

thank you
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Posted by Vessa Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:41PM

Probably not. They would have to be very very special circumstances.
I know that I would bond with the child that I carried, and it would be very difficult for me to give it up to someone else. My maternal instincts are very strong. It would be very difficult to just let it disappear from my life. And if I had something to do with the child growing up, would I tend to interfere when the parents did things that I felt were neglectful or abusive to the child? I guess I'm saying that it would be hard for me to bring a child into this world and not feel responsible for it.
I'm also a strong proponent of adoption. There are so many kids out there that need good homes. Especially special needs kids. If I wanted kids and couldn't have them, then I think adoption would be the way to go.

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Reply by thewingedone Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:52PM

i agree and understand what your saying, iam similar to you in many ways, you see i have just met a friend (from a while back) on fb, whos wife cant have children, although my eggs arnt as much use as that of a younger woman, iam having thoughts of wanting to help them, in some way, its hard, though, i feel sorry for them, and i see where you are coming from regarding special needs children, my son has special needs, but from my point of veiw, ive got children and i would like for someone else who cant have children to be able to have the chance to do so...i havnt really spoken to them in person, or explained my true thoughts in detail,,has just been, on fb
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Posted by BabzEsq24 Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:37PM

i'D DO IT FOR THE $

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Reply by thewingedone Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:54PM

you would? i would do it for nothing .
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Reply by BabzEsq24 Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:55PM

I'm 50- my uterus is done- but an arms length transaction I got no problem with.
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Posted by swimmingswan Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:07PM

women are surrogate mothers all the time for the fathers of there kids

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Reply by thewingedone Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:18PM

Reply by thewingedone Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:10PM yes true, and i know if i disagreed and said well sometimes as a stranger (having this done for them)dont always see there children,then maybe (iam assuming) the answer would be, well some childrens fathers dont always stay with their partners, so its the same!,,,i maybe wrong.
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Posted by milander Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:05PM

No. If you can't have kids and are religious.. well, god has not blessed you (or maybe he has.. very, umm, godlike....) if you're not religious well, that's genetics for you. Your genes out of the pool, thank you.

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Reply by thewingedone Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:19PM

yes i understand where you are coming from, thanks.
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Reply by lovemylabpnut Jun 4th, 2012 at 7:42AM

SO it is genetics why my now ex-husband caused enough stress to prevent pregnancy because I had to purchase ***** because he was starile. Or its god because I was forced as a teen to use a not so good birth control by the courts because I was wanting a baby at 15. As someone who has fertility issues and seeing my cousin also go through the same pain I have a special view. I think woman who can grow a baby for another are strong and are giving the best gift in the world to someone. I don't agree that there should be $ paid for the service. insurance and in case of complications i can see. even looking at adoption I don't agree that intended parents should pay all this money to the one giving up their baby via adoption. Money is used to bribe the birth mother to hand their baby over because you can pay her way so you can pay the way for baby.
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Posted by horzchsnut Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:04PM

I'm not built right for that.

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Reply by thewingedone Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:19PM

is that right?...hmmm
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Posted by whitemalemaid Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:03PM

If I ha the right equipment and the chance I would get pregnant in a flash

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Reply by thewingedone Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:19PM

would you really.
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Reply by whitemalemaid Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:54PM

yes - really - honestly
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Posted by Lixivious Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:03PM

No.

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Reply by thewingedone Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:20PM

thanks for getting to the point, like that.
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Posted by TtLl Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:01PM

no!

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Reply by thewingedone Nov 19th, 2011 at 2:21PM

ok, thanks, to you too all the best.
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