I already gave birth to my little twins:Lestat and Peza.Very painful expirience !
you don't have any idea what problems he causes me now - when he thinks he's grown up !
No. I think it's cool when others do it, but personally it just isn't for me. If pregnancy didn't involve stretchmarks, morning sickness, weight gain, your body never being the same again, pain, and your vagina getting stretched, I'd go ahead and be a surrogate to whoever. But since it involves that, which is like a huge sacrifice, I just wanna go through it once and -keep- my child, raise it, love it. Even if I got paid I wouldn't wanna be a surrogate. Not worth it.
YES, for family and friends
One of my closest friend is goin through some fertility test, theres a big chace she wont be able to have children, and im by her side through it all. i see the pain she goes through. And i've already told her i'd be her surrogate if she needs one...
Probably not. They would have to be very very special circumstances.
I know that I would bond with the child that I carried, and it would be very difficult for me to give it up to someone else. My maternal instincts are very strong. It would be very difficult to just let it disappear from my life. And if I had something to do with the child growing up, would I tend to interfere when the parents did things that I felt were neglectful or abusive to the child? I guess I'm saying that it would be hard for me to bring a child into this world and not feel responsible for it.
I'm also a strong proponent of adoption. There are so many kids out there that need good homes. Especially special needs kids. If I wanted kids and couldn't have them, then I think adoption would be the way to go.
i'D DO IT FOR THE $
I'm 50- my uterus is done- but an arms length transaction I got no problem with.
women are surrogate mothers all the time for the fathers of there kids
No. If you can't have kids and are religious.. well, god has not blessed you (or maybe he has.. very, umm, godlike....) if you're not religious well, that's genetics for you. Your genes out of the pool, thank you.
SO it is genetics why my now ex-husband caused enough stress to prevent pregnancy because I had to purchase ***** because he was starile. Or its god because I was forced as a teen to use a not so good birth control by the courts because I was wanting a baby at 15.
As someone who has fertility issues and seeing my cousin also go through the same pain I have a special view. I think woman who can grow a baby for another are strong and are giving the best gift in the world to someone. I don't agree that there should be $ paid for the service. insurance and in case of complications i can see. even looking at adoption I don't agree that intended parents should pay all this money to the one giving up their baby via adoption. Money is used to bribe the birth mother to hand their baby over because you can pay her way so you can pay the way for baby.
what! This was 6 months ago.. jeez... and I don't understand what you're talking about.
I'm not built right for that.
If I ha the right equipment and the chance I would get pregnant in a flash
yes - really - honestly