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3rd Date - What is expected? He invited me to his house....Is this a good thing? Or is he lazy? Guys Help

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    messyesey - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by messyesey Mar 12th, 2013 at 12:25PM

    I think he only wants sex

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16 Answers to "3rd Date - What is expected? He invited me to his house....Is this a good thing? Or is he lazy? Guys Help"

  1. tito2003 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by tito2003 Mar 12th, 2013 at 12:47PM

    is expecting sex

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  2. timanonymous - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by timanonymous Mar 12th, 2013 at 12:26PM

    He invited you over to his house because he wants to **** you. Cmon woman, you are over 40. You don't know?

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  3. cumsailwithme - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by cumsailwithme Mar 12th, 2013 at 1:51PM

    Eagle, showing a restrained interest level is a man's weapon. If you show too much interest, they run. Show little interest and they wonder and keep coming back for more.
    My guess is he wants to show you how he lives, maybe impress you by cooking up something that will surprise you, and then see how long it takes to get you naked.

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  4. gargamel68 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by gargamel68 Mar 12th, 2013 at 1:35PM

    A good thing?, For Him absolutely, for you? Probably, but really can't say. Just wear a short dress or skirt, leave the 'panties' at home, and bring a pillow ( or knee pads ), pull your hair back into pigtails ( makes ideal "handles" ) your in for good night/evening.

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  5. aces4battle - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by aces4battle Mar 12th, 2013 at 1:18PM

    If he is that shy, sex is not on his mind. He sound more of re-action type of person instead initiator. Ask him to invite his friends for a BBQ so yuou can learn his surroundings, they may be nerds which give you heads up.

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  6. toomuchfantasy - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by toomuchfantasy Mar 12th, 2013 at 1:12PM

    Why are you asking people on EP? Ask him tell him what you are in for and what not. Start with "I always get nervous when I go over a guys house after a few dates. I never know what they or I am expecting?" Let him fill in the blanks he will either put you too ease or send you running. It might also be a good way for you to put up your boundaries. Cause like the answers you are getting here some guys might think accepting to go over on the third date is agreeing to s3x

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  7. artgal80 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by artgal80 Mar 12th, 2013 at 12:58PM

    When a guy like that pulls this type of move on you....it 's just to take you bed & then brag about it later on to his buddies.You'd be nothing more then another pretty doll added to his "collection".
    If I were you I'd head for the hills and protect my dignity. :/

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  8. MagnusRobotFighter - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by MagnusRobotFighter Mar 12th, 2013 at 12:43PM

    He wants to show off his cooking skills and/or his interior decorating skills.

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  9. Messyah - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Messyah Mar 12th, 2013 at 12:41PM

    What were the first two dates like?

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  10. EAGLEFLYING - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by EAGLEFLYING Mar 12th, 2013 at 12:54PM

    He is really shy.....that is why this is throwing me for a loop...he doesnt text or call much...and is out with his friends alot.....and a bit distant....but polite...but at the same time...kind of like he is not interested...mixed signals

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  11. Messyah - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by Messyah Mar 12th, 2013 at 12:59PM

    Maybe he is intimidated and thinks he will be more comfortable at home. Maybe both of you are gonna be awkward nervous teens ;)

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  12. LilGangsta24 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by LilGangsta24 Mar 12th, 2013 at 12:39PM

    He wants to have an in depth conversation about the Revolutionary war, and what the British could have done to win.

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  13. kickingwolves - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by kickingwolves Mar 12th, 2013 at 12:31PM

    get ready to get laid...good luck

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  14. CadaverPuncher - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by CadaverPuncher Mar 12th, 2013 at 12:30PM

    Cue the **** music, you're gonna get laid!

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  15. Caatcat - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Caatcat Mar 12th, 2013 at 12:29PM

    He wants to have sex with u!!! Good thing is that it most likely means he is single.

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  16. Smokahontas - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Smokahontas Mar 12th, 2013 at 12:26PM

    I'm not a dude, but I think his plan is to get to know ya more under the clothes:l lol

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  17. Mrperfectstranger - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Mrperfectstranger Mar 12th, 2013 at 12:26PM

    he's taking you as far as you let him, its what you want, if you go I say your bed target

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