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4 the girls would u exspect a guy 2 pay 4 everything on first date?
Posted 2 months ago
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We're becoming a society where this is not expected, but I truly think the man should pay. Regardless of who makes what, I would be insulted if someone asked me out and then expected me to pay. They should have switched the words "Would you like to go out on a date?" to "Would you like to pay for my dinner?"

Also, women should be more honest if they're actually gonna protest. If a woman protests enough, and the man does let her pay, she is not allowed to be upset. She's the one who caused a scene over it.

But let's not let chivalry die without a fight!
Posted 2 months ago

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Posted Nov 9th, 2008 at 6:27PM
no.
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Posted Nov 9th, 2008 at 6:27PM
I would plan on splitting the bill until I saw or heard otherwise.
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Posted Nov 9th, 2008 at 5:59PM
Depends on financial situation and who asked who. I've paid for first dates before when I was the only one who could afford it, but if someone asks me out I kinda expect them to pay.
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Posted Nov 9th, 2008 at 6:13PM
Absolutely. Anything less indicates you can't afford to date her.
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Posted Nov 9th, 2008 at 6:26PM
no, of course not.
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Posted Nov 9th, 2008 at 6:30PM
If he asked me out, yes. If we set it up mutually, no- I'd expect we'd pay for ourselves. If I asked - I'd pay for everything.
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Posted Nov 9th, 2008 at 6:31PM
.i would be prepared to pay for myself, but he'd score points for insisting on paying
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Posted Nov 9th, 2008 at 6:48PM
No - I always insist on dutch.
That way - I don't owe the guy anything.
Now - if I WANT to be indebted to the guy - he pays :-)
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Posted Nov 9th, 2008 at 6:49PM
I side with thirty30 completely
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