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48yr old virgin why do women hate me?

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Have you ever been out on a date? How do you interact with people in general? Why are you still a virgin - is it because you were waiting for the right person or because you just have never had the opportunity? If you go on a date do you tell women straight away that you are a virgin? Do you appear (even subconsciously) desperate - to simply want to bed any woman regardless of how you feel for her. My sister started dating a man in his 40's about 6 mths ago and she recently told me that he was a virgin when they met...he is a lovely guy, treats her really well - but was simply waiting for the right person - and there is nothing wrong with that...it happens. but, the way society is, once you get past a certain age it is unusual to be in that situation and so it would be best for you to get to know a woman well first and then tell her.
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Posted May 31st, 2009 at 12:14PM
Man ya'll just ripped this poor guy apart! OK bud look at the responses you just got from all these women on here. Notice anything??? Women do not hate you they like you, they love to prey on weak men. Stop cowering, start dominating. Get a gym membership, learn to smirk, get a bad attitude, and stop caring about stuff. They say they don't like badasses but they are lying. They love it.
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Posted May 30th, 2009 at 8:48AM
Because you ask questions like this.
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Posted May 30th, 2009 at 3:18PM
I don't much believe you.
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Posted May 30th, 2009 at 8:49AM
You need to give more details. How do you treat women? What are your experiences with women? What kind of women do you tend to date/go for? Why do you think they hate you? Where do you go to meet women? etcetc
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Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 7:19AM
Depends on the women you socialize with. But its probably because they feel if you haven't had sex yet, it's because there's something wrong with you. Or possibly they want someone with more experience. Maybe you make them uncomfortable because they've had multiple parteners and you've had none.

There's tons of reasons.

But if you find a womwn secure enough to give you a chance, everything will go good.
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Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 7:20AM
I think you have to be more specific as to why you think women hate you. The fact that no one has had sex with you is not necessarily an indicator of hatred.

I know a man who's in a similar position to you - now in his early 40s and still a virgin. In his case, it's not that he's been "waiting for the right one", it's simply that he only goes into relationships looking out for himself. That really turns people away. If you want a woman to like you, you'll really need to like her and respect her first.
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Posted Jun 30th, 2009 at 7:21AM
You know, in today's society, that's almost unheard of. Thanks to double standards, women have a endency to feel slutty in certain situations, even if we aren't and this is probably one of them. Also, if you wave it around like a flag, it might come off as you being judgemental, or expecting to find someone in the same situation. Just be careful how you approach it. We women are sensitive beings, and you have to be careful with our egos.
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Posted May 30th, 2009 at 7:43PM
Well I personally HATE a dominating man because I'm a very dominant woman....But, if you are too shy women probably just don't know anything about you...A lot of women (myself included) HATES when a guy fumbles all over himself and never asks a gal out on a date...If you like someone, let them know. :)
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Posted May 30th, 2009 at 3:49AM
depends in what society you live... there can be multiple reasons... may be they doubt that you're straight...in many societies they are looked upon... may be they look upon you thinking you never got a partner... also there are societies where they consider old virgins as bad omen i.e. they cause bad(supernatural) impacts on other women.
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Posted May 30th, 2009 at 6:29AM
Are you serious? Do you want to be a virgin? I hope you know that love is just a concept in my opinion. Go **** a prostitute, maybe you can fall in love with her... You have to love to be loved. You have to have sex to get sex
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Posted May 30th, 2009 at 8:25AM
Confidence is key. Make yourself more attractive! If you are some ugly guy then buy a sports car. Keep yourself very well groomed and very well dressed. You have to smell good! You also have to stay in shape. My favorite fragrance right now is KING by Sean John the Ladies love it! And if none of this works I would suggest just getting you a hooker cause at age 48 time is a major factor.
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Posted May 30th, 2009 at 9:09AM
Awww it isn't hate. It is women who think that experiences make the man. And that is not always true. Just be yourself and show those women around you that you are worth the effort and have more to offer than anyone else :-) Good luck!
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Posted May 30th, 2009 at 7:43PM
What aileengein said :)
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Posted May 30th, 2009 at 9:01PM
Your name is Joe Blow so that means you are a liar right. I was taught thats what it means to blow or to be a blow. I take Joe Blow as being your everage joe plus liar. Correct me if Im wrong.
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Posted May 31st, 2009 at 8:44AM
Hire an erotic services specialist, or escort.
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