A 20 year old woman with a 65 year old man. What are your thoughts?
Can be the other way around.
20 year old man with a 65 year old woman.
Apparently, a number of you are all assuming this old man/woman is a rich person.. well, what if they aren't rich? What if that old person is poor. Is it still about the money? Can there actually be love in the relationship? If there is, can it be accepted?
146 Answers to "A 20 year old woman with a 65 year old man. What are your thoughts?"
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as long as the 20 yr old is happy ..and so is the 65 yr old really who cares ..
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I'm happy for them. Love isn't about age. I'm considerably older than my wife. We just got married three weeks ago. It isn't about money since we are both professional people and financially can stand alone without each others' financial assistance. We are together because we love each other. Love is ageless.
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hey lol i could not beleive.. if you are dating a man and man you..you both defently talked about having sex..because human being could not control themselves in this situation.Like (1)
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I think people should stop being so quick to judge. I'm 34 and I'm dating a man that is 55. It's not about sex or money. We actually enjoy one another's company.
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:)Like (1)
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I am very glad that you do feel that. I am a 60 year year man and I do care a lot for a 30 year girl. I very glad that you do approve of something that does not mean that you can feel for someone either older or younger than you.Like (1)
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If it makes them happy, for whatever reasons, it's not of my business. Used to be fairly traditional.
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I do agreewith you
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young women turn me off that is creepy -that would be like having sex with a child
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I'd never want to be with a man who could be my grandad. No way, it's creepy!
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I am absolutely against this $#!t unless she's in it for the $- then it's perfectly fine
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This is what I'm sayin'
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nothing
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why don't people just let other people live their life.. geez
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If its love, its all good. Age is just a number
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yea a number that tells you roughly barring bad luck how close you are to death, how much you are likely to have in common and a pretty good indicator of your views and standpoints. pretty important numberLike (1)
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Up to the people involved.
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So sad. It's so sad knowing that the 20 year old could develop a true and deep passionate bond with someone her age and raise a healthy, loving family ba
sed off of that bond. Call me a dreamer and I still do believe that love exist and divorce is not the answer. But let me tell you....65 SHOULD NEVER BE THE ANSWER! Like (6)
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it's not all about gettin married and havin babies...some women (me for example) do not WANT to get married and have babies.Like (1)
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And I get this as I respect most of my girlfriends decisions to not do either. I believe the question was around generational gap not deciding whether they want kids or not. This is just a part that could play out in her life should she not decide to date gramps! Get over it.
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Hey, you love who you love, right?(:
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Your right, it's just that simple!!!!Like (1)
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Been there and done that, didn't work out, divorcing him after 17 years with him, they are sweet, caring, loving, but they always worry about the age difference, which makes them very jealous, this is from experience, maybe not all relationships are the same...
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wow, this is a huge generalization if i've every seen one.
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It is actually a win-win situation. Both parts of the couple know it is a temporary relationship. A 20-year-old can bring life back to a 65-year-old in ways that nothing else can. On the other hand a 65-year-old can help a 20-year-old grow so much as a friend, wise coach, and lover. A 65-year-old man may want to show what he can still do, but overall will be more interested in showing the 20-year-old woman what she can do. There is a huge part of me that would love to have a relationship with a very young woman and be all of those things to her, loyal and trusted friend, coach and mentor, lover.
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You have the perfect answer . ;)Like (1)
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thinking it is about the .....money , money, money
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That man must be loaded.
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Not loaded but well off but money has nothing to do with it. I treat her as a adultLike (1)
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how much money is involved ???^.^
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This is what I'm sayin'
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lol
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She still has a lot of growing up to do and things change as you gain knowledge in life.
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I'm 65 and love sex with younger women as long as they are over 18. If they did they did!Like (1)
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Should be if they die they die!!
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It's bad enough to have a pet you know you are going to outlive. But are you going to be willing to take care of him in 20 years when he may develop dementia or incontinence and you are still young enough to enjoy your life?---Love can defy logic--think about your future --it's alot longer than his
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Posted by malesnowman Jan 29th, 2012 at 10:42PM
sorry to bust your bubble love holes no no boundaries .if someone is gay that's not a choice its the where they are born so if a 20yr male/female falls in love with a 65yr male/female they can't help who they fall for its there lifes as long both are over 16 and not related I don't think no one should really be worrying about it as long as they are happy anit that what matters wouldn't you like to see your fellow human being happy even if that is a same sex relationship or even if one is 20 and the other 65 just remember if you fall in love your in love do we have the right to hang a gay couple just because they are in love so be happy for them as sounds like they are happy with each other
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Reply by pocket241 Feb 27th, 2012 at 1:19AM
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Reply by Dreammmer Apr 28th, 2012 at 8:02AM
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