Hero- mariah carey
whenever you remember- mariah carey
ill stand by you- pretenders
my wish- rascal flatts
Oh, when I read the question I thought it was like a "southern brother/sister" wedding. I was going to say "anything by Georgia Satellites" but now that I read it I will say anything by Donnie and Marie would work.
You've Got a Friend-James Taylor
I'll Stand by You - Pretenders
Wind Beneath My Wings - Bette Midler (a little overdone)
You and Me Against the World - Helen Reddy (cut out the Mommy parts in the beginning and end)
These are all pretty sappy but you might like one
Sometime you cant make it on your own - U2
There is a light that never goes out - The Smiths
Just the way you are - Billy Joel
Waiting on a Friend - The Rolling Stones
"In My Life" by the Beatles. The lyrics are a warm sentiment that don't come across icky.
If you happen to be from Southern USA, I would suggest "Dueling Banjos."
How about Sunshine on my Sholder by John Denver. its slow enough to let anybody's two left feet keep up....
I just listened to it to fact-check my suggestion, its really nice. Those in attendance that are over 40 will love it. My sincere congratuations in advance to the happy couple and families.
btw....make sure there is plenty of tissue before you head out this one is a tear maker.