A guy asked me to come visit him in another city. Should he pay for my plane ticket?

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Yes, but be sure in your head that accepting a plane ticket does not obligate you to sex with him. (But if you WANT to...that's fine)

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trixiegirl	Posted Sep 15th, 2009 at 12:09PM Absofrigginloutley! Rated: +2Vote for this!
lovesfun21	Posted Sep 15th, 2009 at 12:09PM Of course! In exchange he gets to enjoy the pleasure of your company! Rated: +2Vote for this!
Lacsar	Posted Sep 15th, 2009 at 9:12AM are you a ***** ???? Rated: +2Vote for this!
Intruderlvr	Posted Sep 15th, 2009 at 12:09PM hell yes Rated: +2Vote for this!
Comprehensive2	Posted Sep 15th, 2009 at 12:09PM Since it's an invitation yes he should pay for the ticket. I would NOT go though if this isn't someone that you're familiar with and make sure you let at least one other person know this person's address, phone number, and give a description of him. It's better to be safe than to become a victim and end up dead. Be wise!!! Rated: +2Vote for this!
Cosreal	Posted Sep 14th, 2009 at 9:51PM yes. =] Rated: +1Vote for this!
wishing4peace	Posted Sep 14th, 2009 at 9:54PM When I was asked, I always paid. But that's just me. Rated: +1Vote for this!
snowlady	Posted Sep 14th, 2009 at 9:55PM Depends who "a guy" is. Rated: +1Vote for this!
robyn	Posted Sep 14th, 2009 at 9:56PM yes, but don't hold your breath while you're waiting for your ticket to aarrive. Rated: +1Vote for this!
alsorolo	Posted Sep 14th, 2009 at 10:00PM no, if you want to see him then you should, if hes looking to get in your skivies and you dont mind being paid for with a plain ticket then yeah, its up to your own discretion Rated: +1Vote for this!
mzdivine	Posted Sep 14th, 2009 at 10:13PM i I Wouldn't go!! Rated: +1Vote for this!
omgdeeper	Posted Sep 14th, 2009 at 10:17PM There is no iron clad rule. Your decision should be based on the reality of your situations (do you like one another equally, does he have the money, etc) rather than some abstract principle. If you're unsure about how YOU feel, but know that he really likes you, for example, then don't make him finance something that he may not like (your rejection). But if you both like one another a great deal, then why not spring for the ticket? You'll be happier with someone if you're honest and forgo all the games. Rated: +1Vote for this!
ukko	Posted Sep 14th, 2009 at 10:26PM Depends... Rated: +1Vote for this!
handy2iam	Posted Sep 14th, 2009 at 10:34PM Yes mr jackguy, out of line you are... I have actualy had a wonderful visit from an EP member and nothing happened,,, knuckle head. Some of us can be trusted as a gentlman. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Abooklover	Posted Sep 15th, 2009 at 12:10PM This is a tough one, I think at least ask him. Open communication about this is key. Maybe he can't afford it? There is no harm in asking. Have fun, just make sure you get to know him first, the world is full of crazies, as evidenced by some of the answers given here. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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