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A guy I've been seeing wants to have se.x soon I was just curious if anyone could share what their first times were like

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    REALSOUL4 - 56-60 years old

    Posted by REALSOUL4 Jan 23rd, 2013 at 9:51AM

    You better stay a virgin as long as you can,he want sex soon? Read between the lines,that's all he wants and he will leave you as soon as he get it. A person who care for you will not pressure you into having sex until you are ready. Save yourself for someone who is deserving of you.....take your time,there's nothing good that come out of it,this is why girls are told to wait until they are "Married".

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  1. MissTori - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by MissTori Jan 23rd, 2013 at 9:55AM

    I like him and he likes me we have already talked about our future neither of us want to be together forever we like each other and being together is a part of it I guess.

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  2. REALSOUL4 - 56-60 years old

    Reply by REALSOUL4 Jan 23rd, 2013 at 10:01AM

    Men and boys tell women and girls what they think they want to hear to get what they want. He will drop you as fast as the "Titantic" went down. Don't do it...."Please".

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13 Answers to "A guy I've been seeing wants to have se.x soon I was just curious if anyone could share what their first times were like"

  1. sl54 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by sl54 Jan 23rd, 2013 at 10:01AM

    It was with my boyfriend and we had been together for about 8 months. It felt like the right time and it was a wonderfull experience. Too sappy?

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  2. MissTori - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by MissTori Jan 23rd, 2013 at 10:04AM

    I think it sounds sweet

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  3. crazynuts83 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by crazynuts83 Jan 23rd, 2013 at 9:48AM

    i was nervous, had performance anxiety. but it was great. just try to get plenty of time so theres no pressure

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  4. Confusedlo20 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Confusedlo20 Jan 23rd, 2013 at 9:45AM

    my first time was...very funny loldnt be so nervous just relax

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  5. SpilledSecrets - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by SpilledSecrets Jan 23rd, 2013 at 9:45AM

    awkward and kind of uncomfortable.

    It's not at all like the movies so I strongly suggest having your first time with someone you trust wholeheartedly, just because they're more likely to be careful not to accidentally hurt you and they'll probably be more patient.

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  6. ChipmunkErnie - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by ChipmunkErnie Jan 23rd, 2013 at 9:44AM

    It was a real breakthrough for me

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  7. samyindeed - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by samyindeed Jan 23rd, 2013 at 9:44AM

    Just do it if you feel like you want to !

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  8. DozerDan - 66-70 years old - male

    Posted by DozerDan Jan 23rd, 2013 at 9:44AM

    Sex is the normal way that men and women share with each other. Its what "seeing" or "dating" is all about. Sex gives both people a deep sense of well being and confidence.

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  9. IamDRock - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by IamDRock Jan 23rd, 2013 at 9:43AM

    I stuck my sausage in her taco

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  10. deltadon - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by deltadon Jan 23rd, 2013 at 9:43AM

    horrible.......blood everywhere.....looked like a murder scene

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  11. MissTori - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by MissTori Jan 23rd, 2013 at 9:45AM

    Really? That sucks

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  12. deltadon - 46-50 years old - female

    Reply by deltadon Jan 23rd, 2013 at 9:48AM

    than ya didn't git a virgin honey

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  13. atadir - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by atadir Jan 23rd, 2013 at 10:07AM

    how old are you really? i'm not allowed to discuss my sex life with underaged children

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  14. MissTori - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by MissTori Jan 23rd, 2013 at 10:12AM

    No really I'm nineteen my birthday was two days ago I was born january 21st 1994

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  15. atadir - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by atadir Jan 23rd, 2013 at 11:02AM

    it was fun. started with a lot of drunken fumbling and didn't go so well. we tried again in the morning, and it was fun. we'd just met and we stayed together for a couple of months, nice girl

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  16. sumnerkagan - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by sumnerkagan Jan 23rd, 2013 at 9:47AM

    Umm. Don't have sex to please the guy. Especially not your first time.

    Do it because you're turned on and into the other person.

    Do it when YOU want to, not some teenage douchebag, and STOP the second you start to feel uncomfortable about it. That's the only way to ensure a good first experience.

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  17. MissTori - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by MissTori Jan 23rd, 2013 at 9:50AM

    He's not a teenager but I know what you mean and I like him so I think I want to.

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  18. sumnerkagan - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by sumnerkagan Jan 23rd, 2013 at 10:04AM

    lol 20-something guys are not much better than teenagers when it comes to being driven by their urges, they're just a smidgen smoother

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  19. heather111 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by heather111 Jan 23rd, 2013 at 9:45AM

    I was drunk so much of the entire evening I can't remember.

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