That assumes the woman's made "mistakes" and the man hasn't. Suppose the woman's tally was just as deliberate and intentional as the man's ?
STDs know no gender.
I actually believe most men believe if a woman makes just "one" mistake "or whatever" she is a tramp!
If you don't respect ***** you don't respect women.
Why? how many men is a woman allowed to sleep with before you stop defining her as a woman?
Honestly, I don't see someone as a tramp when I learn they've slept with thirty people. I don't see it as anything other than they are experienced in bed, have/had insecurities, and MIGHT have an STD. That is the only thing I infer about anyone (regardless of gender) who's slept with a number of people.
It's one of those double standards that works for some but not others. But twenty mistakes? To each her own.
Oh okay. I was thinking that wow, at twenty, even I would have to start calling names. Lol.
There are two general standards in society. <br />
1 The standard men set for woman.<br />
2 The standard woman set for men.<br />
Now in each gender there are people who either have higher standards then the norm of lesser standards. People should not get all up in arms because there are two standards. It is up to men what their standards for woman are and it is up to woman what their standards are for men. And it is also up to the individuel what standards they set and what they are willing to tolerate in the opposite gender.
There are several more standards but I'll list only two more obvious ones:
3. The standard men set for men.
4. The standard women set for women.
True. But i was confining my answer to address only the point being made by the Questioner. The questioner seems to believe there is an injustice happening but it is just a differance of standards being applied.
I get why people used to say that; back then their weren't that many forms of birth control so a woman could get pregnant (mama's baby papa's maybe). Now we have all types of birth control that can stop women from getting pregnant but time has stuck with the you're a ***** part. <br />
Guess it'll take some time until it woman can have many sex part and not be a tramp part wears out.
It'll never wear out. By our selfish nature, men naturally want to control/manipulate women, and vice versa. Calling women with more than one partner, or promiscuous women, names is just another ploy to control. Both men and women use it on women for control.
Just as much as men want to control women, women want to control men. Or what I should say any one partner in a relationship is fighting for control, who doesn't want control?
I love girls like that.
I see a girl like that as an experienced person in bed.
And probably has HPV
yeah definitely, that's why you double layer up.
Human papilloma virus
If a woman is making the same mistake 19 or 20 times, she's not too bright.<br />
But that aside, yes, it is selfish to have that kind of double standard.