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A question for the ladies only.....but good info for men?

What is the most important physical feature, body part or any thing else that you are drawn to or look for first when you look at a man and find him attractive?
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on the surface - eyes, smile and oddly enough hands (and not for the big hands, big d**K theory either lolol)

underneath it all - integrity, intelligence, wit, sarcasm, creativity.

it's a mix and balance of a lot of things. obviously though if the chemistry isn't there, regardless of how amazing the eyes and smile, intelligence and creativity are we wont click.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 2:54PM
For me, it truly varies from man to man. If I'm interested in him, it's only because I've talked to him for long enough to determine that I'm interested.

But if you're just talking about looking at a man and considering him handsome (even without wanting to take it any further), then I'd have to say that I notice: eyes, smile, abs, hands, hair, ***... Like I said - it varies from man to man. Different people have different qualities.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 2:54PM
Must have a bulge in the back pocket if the ladies are honest. I think that would be number one. Maybe number two after the whole eyes thing...
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 2:54PM
Facial Bone Structure and Proportion are VERY important.

I like a man who is masculine looking and has everything that flows together! Eyes, Nose and Lips that look good where they are!

Eyes too close together, a nose larger than all other features put together, no lips or too much lips, a weak chin, Ears jotting out of his head, Thick ungroomed brows, etc... etc... -- these type of scenerios are just not attractive to me.

As for body - a nice upper body!
Broad shoulders, thick arms and nice BIG hands. Again, masculinity is key and very attractive.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 2:54PM
I like a man's hands. I think it's a turn on if he looks like he's a hard worker and his hands show it. I always like a man to be taller than me, which is hard to find sometimes. I think a sense of disturbing humor and funny sarcasm is the best quality, because both he and I are on the same wavelength and can argue (in a good way, it's also a turn on).
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 2:54PM
Eyes....and smile....
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 11:56AM
Hey now! Why are you asking questions when earlier you made a post inviting people to ask YOU anything because you had an answer for EVERYTHING??? :)
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 8:59AM
Proportionate. Next, eyes and teeth. Eyes should reflect intellect and humor, teeth show hygiene. My favorite part of a mans body is his arms. My deal breakers are an undefined nose and short, stubby fingers.

No one should feel shallow for having a personal standard of physical attraction. It's natural.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 9:30AM
The most important feature for me would be a beautiful smile(and hoping that he smiles alot because I love humour).I don't mind if he is a little overweight but I don't care for excessively hairy men.A beautiful smile and a great personality/sense of humour goes a long way with me.Also,I don't care for men who are loud and need to be the center of attention all the time.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 8:42AM
I don't like a man for his looks, personality comes first, but I would say his face, especially his eyes, the way he looks at me or possibly his lips and mouth. But I would say the eyes have it.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 8:43AM
I have answered this before, my answer hasn't changed. The eyes.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 8:47AM
His nice round a$$ ! And the way he walks. Weird, huh ? I could be a man talking about a woman ! If I were an a$$ man ! LOL ! But I am an a$$ woman !
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 8:51AM
The eyes and the voice principally...

but it does no harm if he stands up nice and straight and looks as if he looks after himself well.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 8:52AM
like the women before me the eyes and for me honestly i really need to get to know the guy because yes looks are a factor but personality is always key! like for me i fell for this guy who is attractive but wat i love most about him is his funny personality and the way he can totally **** me off but also cheer me up the next =]
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 8:53AM
Eyes, hands, arms, smile. But I agree with CrossEyedMary - wit is very sexy too!
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 9:05AM
From farway, the way he carries himself. close up: his eyes then his smile. Over the phone, His voice, and his choice of words.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 9:14AM
As vague as this sounds, his face. As a whole, all of his features combined must be devestatingly handsome :)
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 9:14AM
hmmm.... shoulders and back. love a goatee. definitely muscular, moderately hairy legs. manly hands and arms.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 9:34AM
Probably how he carries himself. If it is with shoulders back and standing straight up looking confident I feel attracted but when I see a man that is sloughed over and looks weak it turns me off.

Next I love blue eyes with a sparkle in them, a moustache, and lots of loose hair (not long hair just an abundance of it). I love hair on a man, on his chest, on his arms, his legs--- its so sexy!

His body build matters too. I perfer a man that cares enough to take care of his body but its not a deal breaker as long as he's a bit over weight and not grossly overweight.
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Posted Jul 20th, 2009 at 10:05AM
biceps
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