I dunno....I don't think a refined guy is for me at all. And I don't really care about the power and wealth. Having enough money to be comfortable is a bonus, but that has never been what I looked at first. Most powerful men make me sick to my stomache, too. They are just way too arrogant for me.
I'm curious as to why you put some things in capitals and other not. All the desc<x>riptives of the female are in lower case, but all the desc<x>riptives of the male begin with capitals. Why so?<br />
About the topic at hand, 'refining, power, wealth, face, figure' are all not overly important if important at all, to a genuine woman or man. A great personality is about the one important thing listed.