Resolved Question

AM I WRONG AND LEADING HIM ON?

I HAVE BEEN COMMUNICATING WITH A GENTLEMAN WHO LIVES IN ANOTHER STATE FOR 6 MONTHS. I AM STILL NOT OVER MY X COMPLETELY BUT THE RELATIONSHIP IS DONE. THIS NEW GUY IS VERY LOVING AND SUPPORTIVE AND COMPLIMENTARY AND ATTENTIVE. WE SPEAK EVERYDAY. HE IS VERY ENCOURAGING. HE'S AT A POINT IN HIS LIFE WHERE HE WANTS TO SETTLE DOWN AND HE SAYS THAT HE'S CHOOSING ME. HE'S PLANNING TO MOVE TO MY STATE TO BE WITH ME. I CONTINUE TO RELATE TO HIM PARTIALLY BECAUSE I ALWAYS WANTED TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO LOVED ME MORE THAN I LOVED THEM SO I WOULDN'T GET HURT. ALTHOUGH SLIGHTLY NUMB INSIDE I AM SAD TO SAY THAT I STILL LOVE MR.X HOWEVER. IN A WAY I FEEL A LITTLE GUILTY, LIKE I MIGHT BE LEADING HIM ON, BUT I DON'T KNOW OR REALLY CARE, AT THIS POINT, WHAT HE MIGHT BE DOING WHERE HE IS. HE MAKES ME HAPPY. SHOULD I JUST BE HIS FRIEND AND BACK OFF UNTIL I GET THOSE OLD FEELINGS IN CHECK OR CONTINUE TO COMMUNICATE AND HOPE THAT THEY DISSIPATE ON THEIR OWN?

You are a free agent, free to do as you please. It sounds like you should not make any commitment to anyone at this particular juncture, however, until you are more certain about how you feel and what (and who) you want.