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Abortion is haram but why is my ex quite happy for me to do it? ! He doesn't eat pork but doesn't mind abortion? ! Wrong

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16 Answers to "Abortion is haram but why is my ex quite happy for me to do it? ! He doesn't eat pork but doesn't mind abortion? ! Wrong"

  1. Pagan1 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Pagan1 Nov 4th, 2012 at 6:53AM

    Islam,Judaism and Christianity...
    are three very sickening mental disorders! All of which should all be Forbidden!
    Dump the hypocrite and the misogynistic faith that spawns this grief! Good luck :)

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  2. Ch3rryp13 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Ch3rryp13 Nov 4th, 2012 at 11:11AM

    I agree!

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  3. Pagan1 - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by Pagan1 Nov 4th, 2012 at 12:24PM

    ADD Me please... I'd like to discuss this further,but you'd have to add me first,before I can contact you :)

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  4. Madej - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Madej Nov 4th, 2012 at 6:46AM

    When you kill an animal you are eliminating a subject of experience; there is actually something there. A fetus does not even have the capacities for sentience until the later stages in abortion.

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  5. shardster - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by shardster Jan 27th, 2013 at 11:32PM

    I believe this is why 3rd trimester abortions are illegal.

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  6. Redredred - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by Redredred Feb 20th, 2013 at 2:52PM

    And you know this for certain exactly how?

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  7. Spann0r - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Spann0r Nov 4th, 2012 at 6:14AM

    People believe what they want to believe and they shape their "god" according to their own wishes. If he thinks it's alright to go through with abortion, then he also thinks it's alright with his god. "Allah will understand!", because there is no Allah to disagree in the first place.
    Just as a homophobic christian priest will preach that "God hates ****". The very concept of a god would not feel right to him, if this god loved gay people.

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  8. MathMan789 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by MathMan789 Nov 4th, 2012 at 6:08AM

    people often tailor their beliefs and rationalize according to their own convenience.

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  9. monocerus - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by monocerus Nov 4th, 2012 at 6:08AM

    religions are so flexible aren't they? Ppl are happy to go against them when it suits

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  10. picklelilly - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by picklelilly Nov 4th, 2012 at 6:07AM

    Yes - wrong. If you are against abortion for any reason - don't do it. You will regret it. Trust this.

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  11. Janife - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by Janife Dec 5th, 2012 at 12:01PM

    You are right. She will regret it later if she is against it now. Having and abortion against her will could cause her psychological problems and depression later along with a feeling of guilt that she will never forget. I sincerely hope that she makes the decision that she feels most comfortable with and gives her peace of mind.

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  12. tak1 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by tak1 Nov 4th, 2012 at 6:27AM

    Sounds like double standards to me..and maybe a tad bit of hypocrisy?

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  13. cryinginthedark - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by cryinginthedark Nov 4th, 2012 at 6:18AM

    Because in his eyes it is you that will be commiting the crime, not him. He does't care if you go to hell. As long as he can still go to paradise. Don't worry though, Allah knows all.

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  14. Adonia1 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Adonia1 Nov 4th, 2012 at 6:13AM

    that's called being a hypocrite

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  15. ladyryan - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by ladyryan Mar 28th, 2013 at 7:12PM

    Funny

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  16. shardster - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by shardster Jan 27th, 2013 at 11:28PM

    You act as if you weren't aware that hypocrisy and Religion go hand and hand. The more religious you are/ claim to be, the more likely you are to be a hypocrite.

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  17. BabzEsq24 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by BabzEsq24 Nov 20th, 2012 at 10:12AM

    You will not end up with him for the long term, and you know this. Why then are you even entertaining the desires of this dead man walking?

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  18. mandyy200 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by mandyy200 Nov 4th, 2012 at 7:19AM

    Keep that baby and dump him instead.This might be the only baby maybe in your life and if you abort it one day you might really regret and he will not marry you.

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  19. beertap - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by beertap Nov 4th, 2012 at 6:30AM

    he dont give a dam about you and if it his kid he dont want to support it

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  20. Ch3rryp13 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Ch3rryp13 Nov 4th, 2012 at 11:12AM

    he says he does want to support it if I go ahead with the pregnancy but I now don't want him involved. Am I bad person for thinking this and should I let him into his childs life?!

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  21. beertap - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by beertap Nov 4th, 2012 at 1:18PM

    ware ever you found him put him back he will only bring you down

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  22. Janife - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Janife Nov 4th, 2012 at 6:18AM

    Were you married to him? If he is Muslim and you were not married then he already broke a strict rule in Islam. No affairs out of marriage. So now if you are pregnant with his child it is going to cause him a great problem with his family so now he is choosing the easy way out for himself. He does not have great Islamic morals and he has gone against his religion completely. Abortion is haram in Islam. He should have thought about the consequences before jumping into bed with you. Now you should decide whether you want the baby or not. It is not up to him to decide. It is your baby and your feelings. If you were married then I would suggest you keep the baby and even if you weren't then go through with it and if you can't keep it yourself have it adopted. But abortion is not a good solution. Was he Muslim or Jewish? Jews don't eat pork either and are also against abortion. But because you said haram (which is Arabic for forbidden) I automatically thought he was Muslim.

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  23. Ch3rryp13 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Ch3rryp13 Nov 4th, 2012 at 7:30AM

    No we are not married thank god! I said to him when he was telling me to abort that isn't pre-marriage sex and abortion forbidden in Islam and he said yes but I'm not that religious? oh please! but you don't eat pork but you drink and when you go to mosque you 'pretend' to pray. If only your family knew your thinking. I don't care what his family think of him, they should be ashamed! I don't really want to get an abortion and I don't necessarily want to keep the baby with him as the father as he wants to be around for the baby even though he wanted an abortion?! I can't even stand to look at his face so I don't know how this is going to work. I said I don't want him involved and he said he knows his rights and will take it to court to see his child. This makes me sick! I am also back living with my parents, they have never met him, they don't know what I'm going through and I feel ashamed. This isn't the life I wanted. My sister said it would be unfair to bring up my baby at home and that I would find it hard to stand on my own two feet with rent and childcare costs. This I agree with but if there's a will there's a way. I think I'm fed up of fighting for what I believe in now with everyone him and what my family will say. Right now I don't have the strength but I'm so angry that abortion is probably the way it's going to go but I can't get my head round that. I'm so scared, sad and alone and I'm starting to snipe at people because of my feelings. I've had counseling and I was sure I was going to keep it but now I'm not sure again

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  24. Janife - 51-55 years old - female

    Reply by Janife Nov 4th, 2012 at 7:40AM

    He has double standards and he is not a practicing Muslim. Not eating pork doesn't make him Muslim. Jews and vegetarians don't eat pork either. Drinking alcohol is not allowed in Islam, sex before marriage is also not allowed in Islam either for a man or a woman. I think you should put the child up for adoption if you can't keep it yourself. Don't do anything you will regret later. Having a child is a great responsibility, but you are not a teenager, I am sure you have enough life experience to cope with this situation. Why is your bf your ex? what happened? I mean there must have been a time when you were in love. I hope everything will turn out for the best for you in the end. Pray. God will help you to make your decision. But whatever you do, you must make the decision not someone else.

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  25. howardnc - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by howardnc Nov 4th, 2012 at 6:16AM

    And you are still with him? Why? He's an ex...

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