Is anybody out there really like, "Abuse! YES! I LOVE it.
It's horrible. the end
I think more needs to be done. It bothers me that people feel sorry for abusers I think that's because they are unaware of what they are capable of. I know first hand and while I may not like it I know they must be dealt with harshly and immediately If it means they do life without parole.
Difficult issue for me. Why..You ask...? Cause to me, I struggle with the verbal abuse I inflict upon my spouse as a direct result of the emotional abuse I have endured throughout the years at the hands of my husband. It pains me to be categorized as an abuser, when it is clearly my maladaptive response to years of emotional abuse.
It killed the person I might have been, so I'm a revenant of sorts.
A very misunderstood and horrible thing.
takes 2 people for it to happen
the victim is not always at fault. e.g. an abused infant or toddler. they are not guilty of "letting it continue." they have no control of their situation.
Still took 2 people though. Thats my point. Even people that self abuse have been affected by another too do such things