Change your phone number, put out a restraining order against him so that he can't come near you. If he is an abuser all you have to do is file a complaint with the police and say you would like a restraining order. If for some reason you feel you can't do any of the above, I know for a fact that the police will actually go and have a talk with him and request that he leave you alone if you say that he is harassing you.
no contact...repeat as nessecary
Please don't get back with him. If he wasn't good last time what makes you think he would be better this time around. Tell him straight away that you are not interested and that he should walk away.
You don't have to be civilized to a person who purposely hurts you! Tell him that if he doesn't take a long walk of a short cliff and leave you alone, your are going to make his life miserable. Then slam the phone down like a diva, flick your back and walk away! Don't be a good girl, have your diva fit, you earned it!!!
just ignore him. turn to friends or family for protection
yes...put people around you for support....<br />
do not meet or talk with him... stay strong....<br />