Showing emotions towards the proper peole is not bad! Some people really don't deserve to see your sensitive mild cultivated side from close, they can really hurt you! That's you parents thought I guess! You should be rough towards few, formal with the majority , and emotional and informal only with those who deserve!
maybe you try to read too much into things. eh??? maybe that's all she means...
maybe you're the one who needs to be honest and say what you really mean... have you told her directly that she hoards too much and needs to stop???
hummm.... maybe you should start getting rid of stuff for her... but actually I'm somewhat of a hoarder myself... of clothes and such... but I think a war is coming anyway... and when it does surpluses like food staples will skyrocket... so you may be grateful for all her hoarding then.. idk :D :P just let her be... there are worse things in life than hoarding food *sigh*
oh I see now... you don't trust her so when she does something that seems nice you automatically assume she has an underlying ulterior motive.. eh? and that she couldn't possibly actually just plain be being nice... I get it now... but people actually can change... is she still abusive not or not? she may actually just trying to be nice... idk idk her... eh?? :)
sigh... idk. not talking is fine if the atmosphere is peaceful... but it seems yours is a bit strained... and that's the issue :(
why not try being open and honest about how you really feel? what's the worst that could happen??? sigh maybe she really is sorry and has changed.. idk :( forgiveness is a good thing sometimes... not to make light of anything she may have done to you in the past... but maybe she's not like that anymore... idk :( idk :( sorry
idk either... try to be nice but be wary of her??? is that possible?
no, she's your mom and as such your superior... you are in her house and under her care so you are under her command... and she's bossy... (I know the type cause I am one myself) so... that's all it is... but you're living in her house. it's the least you can do for her. eh??? get her a drink... it's not so hard eh??? it's not like you have better things to do then be of slight assistance to your mother??? *sigh* :/ so maybe she's a bit bossy but... such is life??
oh, well maybe that's just her way... and she doesn't know how to treat people humanely... *sigh* :/ like you shouldn't take it personally??? sometimes people are ungrateful for things they take for granted... cleaning her house for he is a lot of work for you and one she may not value and appreciate... because she doesn't know otherwise... maybe take a break from it and then when you do do it she will be grateful to you :D cause she'll notice the difference... idk *shrugs*
well at least your brother seems like a decent person *sigh* just don't expect any gratitude from your mother... she seems self absorbed and ungrateful eh??? idk what to say :/ she might even resent you for living there... sometimes that happens too *sigh*
ah... it's possible :)