Everyone says personality means everything blah blah blah, and there HALF right. A **** personality on a good looking guy= NEVER. A good personality on the person you described= NEVER. But a good combination is good :) He doesn't have to be the hottest guy but I mean at least try to look appealing.
Well that's the way to go then! You can't naturally control how your face looks, but at least you can fix up your body :) Thank-you by the way for the the best answer :D
looks attract me...so with out that I wouldn't even know if you were a great person. I always say looks arn't everything but they are something. I'm not saying you have to be your regular cory taylor but you have to look at least average to get my attention. I mean looks are genetic. you gotta think about the kids
you must be attracted to them physically
I think myself that when one person is attracted to another, it's a matter of chemistry and that can only be there if there is some attraction...sometimes, it takes time to come and the person grows on you, but sometimes it is love at first sight.
has to be a balance of some sorts.
a girl i knew in high school tried her hardest to stay with this guy who was really nice, but had a million problems. he was antisocial and rarely bathed, not to mention was a pessimist about everything and had erectile dysfunction. the poor guy couldn't guess what made her break up with him in the end...
personality is a big part, because for all sorts of reasons are humans willing to throw away the most basic part of attraction- physical attraction. and the only way to be able to deal with someone who doesn't turn you on is if you have compatible personalities.
but in my case, i need a balance of both. looks wont get them very far with me, but neither will our shared interest in books and friends.
if they dont have a decent body they care for and work out i dont deal with them. not even a look i dont care how good the personality is. no attraction. no action from me.