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Am from india . i am 22 yr old ..i love a 12 yr old girl . is she mature enough to to love me really..?

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  1. certifiable - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by certifiable Oct 31st, 2011 at 1:51AM

    Don't even go there , she isn't old enough to consent to anything . Leave her alone .

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  2. phatdog - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by phatdog Oct 31st, 2011 at 3:38AM

    Great answer.

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  3. rahultony - 22-25 years old

    Reply by rahultony Nov 1st, 2011 at 11:40PM

    i wait.....

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  4. CheekyGeek - 41-45 years old

    Posted by CheekyGeek Oct 31st, 2011 at 2:08AM

    People remember arranged marriage is common in India. Just because there is an agreement or even affection that does NOT mean there is anything physical to the relationship at this point.


    that being said. while a 12 year old may have feelings of affection for someone older that is not a mature kind of Love. the old saying that : "one can not truly love another until they know themselves." comes to mind. A 12 year old (even one who may be mature for their age) Still has no real clue who they are as a person.

    I hope you will give her the opportunity and freedom to choose for herself and allow her family to save face should she discover her affection for you is that of mentor and elder rather then romantic in nature.

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  5. rahultony - 22-25 years old

    Reply by rahultony Nov 1st, 2011 at 11:40PM

    i give full freedom for her to grow and i approach her only when she turns into 18..........

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  6. nvkin - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by nvkin Oct 31st, 2011 at 1:57AM

    Hey Rahul, you must be crazy to think that she is mature enough at 12, when you at 22 are so immature. Well, had you been 32 and she 22, things would have been different and acceptable. At 12, I doubt if she can wipe her *** properly without leaving a trace of **** in her panties.
    As rightly mentioned by TrackyDaks, it is inappropriate and illegal in this entire universe. Please spare that poor kid and find a matured, above 18 year old girl, for yourself who can give you much more pleasures and no one will question you on that.

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  7. rahultony - 22-25 years old

    Reply by rahultony Nov 1st, 2011 at 11:39PM

    i don`t love her for sex....

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  8. missl56 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by missl56 Oct 31st, 2011 at 3:14AM

    im not one to judge,but i think at that age,u dont understand the concept of love,but yet again,i dont think u suppose to.one should stay young as long as possible,

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  9. rahultony - 22-25 years old

    Reply by rahultony Nov 1st, 2011 at 11:35PM

    well is it ok that she is 18 and i`ll be 28 .........if so i am waiting for that friend....

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  10. missl56 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by missl56 Nov 6th, 2011 at 2:03AM

    i think thats ok ;)

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  11. thegreatexplorer - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by thegreatexplorer Feb 26th, 2013 at 2:20PM

    most guys here really cant see between affection and sex!

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  12. meetode - 26-30 years old

    Posted by meetode Dec 9th, 2012 at 9:15AM

    hey don't worry . i am too loving a grl she is 15 and i am 26 . if she love u and u love truely so age does nt matter. but please wait for she will be 18 ok. don't do what saying ur mind listaning to ur hart ok.

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  13. tamang777 - 22-25 years old

    Posted by tamang777 Aug 25th, 2012 at 1:18PM

    hi rahul.
    i read ur all replies,well you should know that she is 12 yr only,n u r 22.
    u can undrstand ur love,u can love her very much but now she can not love u as u love..now she can only bahave like ur sis or friend.
    at this age u dont tell her that u love her,now u should be her good friend.
    when she got 18 yr,u just explain ur feelings to her........god bless u.

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  14. Nephari - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Nephari Jan 27th, 2012 at 2:30AM

    Is she mature enough to love you at 12? As a mentor? Yes. Brother? Yes. Sexually? No. As a lover? No. As a romantic partner? No.

    Will she be more mature at 18? Yes, I should think so, but mental maturity depends from person to person. I suggest you keep waiting, till she's legal. :)

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  15. haybabes - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by haybabes Nov 1st, 2011 at 3:11PM

    freak

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  16. haybabes - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by haybabes Nov 1st, 2011 at 3:10PM

    freak

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  17. lotusfloat - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by lotusfloat Nov 1st, 2011 at 2:57AM

    i once watched a show on national geographics where children were in arranged marriages. they got married between the ages of 8 and 12. difference is, both in the marriage were the same age, and they didnt begin living together until they were at least 18. and even thereafter, they all said that they would like to change the tradition so that their kids would one day be able to choose for themselves at an appropriate age. that being said... the only way she should be loving you right now is as an older brother or mentor, etc and in no way romantically. you could initiate a sexual relationship with her and when she grows up she will see it as having been abuse because her mind is in no way mature enough to handle what you're suggesting. i not only doubt about the fact that she probably hasnt even started her period yet or grown in certain areas to be a woman, but i also know for a fact that she is a child, not only according to law, but also according to her mindset. no 12 year old i know is mature enough to even think about budgets, let alone cook and clean as a wife. if you worked and returned home- she wouldnt be able to grasp the concepts of the working world if you tried to explain what your day had been like. please see how disturbing it is if you are attracted to this child. do not further abuse her with these notions. get an education rather than think of expanding your population any further.

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  18. rahultony - 22-25 years old

    Reply by rahultony Nov 1st, 2011 at 11:29PM

    hey............ i love her ..it doesn`t meen that i marry her now itself.....if i recall myself when i was 12 year old i can say confidently that i could be able to understand love feelings....and i really love that girl and i know she really likes/loves me..........and i wait till she turns into 18 and then she really loves me then we`ll get married .is that okay....????///

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  19. thetimemaycome - 16-17 years old - male

    Posted by thetimemaycome Oct 31st, 2011 at 10:14PM

    She is still only a child and hasn't even approached her teens, and you could get in big trouble in America for sure, she is definitely not mature enough

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  20. vishrutranjan - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by vishrutranjan Oct 31st, 2011 at 4:06AM

    Don't do it that's really a dumb idea. if u want to have a relationship with her then at least wait for next six years and then approach her. She is a kid right now, plz don't take her childhood away from her. or better find a girl of ur own age

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  21. rahultony - 22-25 years old

    Reply by rahultony Nov 1st, 2011 at 11:33PM

    yes friend even i wanted to do in that way see my above replies.. i love her truely ..if u love someone truely..u`ll never look for anotherone.i`ll wait till she turns into 18 then ....i`ll leave for her heart

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  22. PumpkinSkull - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by PumpkinSkull Oct 31st, 2011 at 3:12AM

    I doubt she has even gotten her period yet...

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  23. rahultony - 22-25 years old

    Reply by rahultony Nov 1st, 2011 at 11:34PM

    not yet i love her i wait for her........no matter how many years

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  24. lazycrazybasket - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by lazycrazybasket Oct 31st, 2011 at 2:02AM

    Has she got two wheels, in other words - a bike? 12 is too young!

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  25. rahultony - 22-25 years old

    Reply by rahultony Nov 1st, 2011 at 11:36PM

    i wait for her

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  26. Strength92 - 18-21 years old

    Posted by Strength92 Oct 31st, 2011 at 1:54AM

    Youll have plenty of virgins in Heaven.

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  27. rahultony - 22-25 years old

    Reply by rahultony Nov 1st, 2011 at 11:37PM

    but i want with love.......

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  28. l0v3w1th0utrul35 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by l0v3w1th0utrul35 Oct 31st, 2011 at 1:53AM

    omg thats really nooo!....she is sooo smalll and like a kid ..no way...back off!...

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  29. rahultony - 22-25 years old

    Reply by rahultony Nov 1st, 2011 at 11:37PM

    i`ll wait.........

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  30. zhafar - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by zhafar Oct 31st, 2011 at 1:50AM

    In our country you'de be thrown in jail for a long time.

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  31. rahultony - 22-25 years old

    Reply by rahultony Nov 1st, 2011 at 11:38PM

    well i am ready for that for her.....i love her friend i won`t marry now.read my above replies......

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  32. TrackyDaks - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by TrackyDaks Oct 31st, 2011 at 1:49AM

    In this country that would be inappropriate and illegal

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  33. rahultony - 22-25 years old

    Reply by rahultony Nov 1st, 2011 at 11:39PM

    well after 6 six years it`s leagal right.....i am waiting for that......

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