Am I Being Selfish? (Add details in a sec)
-I've always been carear driven. As in I would always put my career first before family and friends.
-I have not seen my partner in about 10 days because of work. I am even working on the weekends and do crazy shifts like finishing at 8am in the morning, only to start again at 3pm on the same day to finish at 8am the next day, and it has been like this for a while now. Today was supposed to be my day off but they asked me to come back into work to do another double shift and I agreed.
A.I love my job
B. I need the money
I usually see my partner on my days off or when I have finished work at 8 in the morning but because I have been doing so many double shifts; I haven't seen him this time around. I told him I could see him on theSaturday as I'm not working then but he's furious and told me that he is upset i am putting my job first before him. That I am behaving like it is the most important thing in the world. I have told him it is. Our relationship isn't exactly straight forward and unlike most couples who have been together for 5 years and longer, we are still like a couple who have only just met. He has gone on about how he does this and that for me but I don't really understand why he is so upset when, I would have seen him later this week. Now when i should be sleeping and getting ready for work, I am going to see him even though I am exhausted because he's ranting about it.
I told him that now my Mum has moved out I need to work loads of hours to make sure me and my brother have a roof over our head and, we don't get evicted. He is threatening to tell the council which will get us all evicted and made homeless. He said that he doesn't care.
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