no one is destined to misery; your own greatness is out there for you to claim, but you won't find it in a state of misery.
No.., try to make good, long term choices and remember you are the Captain of your own ship!!
Keep thinking like that , and you will be!!<br />
THOUGHTS ARE THINGS SO DON'T THINK OF WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE, BUT WHAT YOU WANT...AND YOU WILL GET IT.<br />
quite thinking you are destined for misery!!! please??!?!?!
Most people that ask that already are.