You did the right thing, having a baby is not easy, specially when you know people around you will not support or help you. But I think you should get rid of your boyfriend, what if one day you really decided that you want to be a mommy, he would not support you, it is not your fault that he have many children. I don't know, I don't like him :O
Learn from the past and move on to the future.
I think not to find a man who is free and able to support you and commit to you is dumb. Think of the child too. It's not fair to have a child that will not be fully supported by both parents. Your bf sounds a real "prince charming"
These prince charmings are what young women today flock to.
You made a decision which still affects you till this day. But at that time you did what you thought was right for you. :) Don't beat yourself up about it, it's taught you a lesson that children are really a blessing. Sometimes we have to lose things to gain others. :)<br />
P.s. I think you need a new boyfriend maybe someone who isn't so idiotic and selfish. :)
You did the right thing. Overbreeders are scum and should be considered criminals. Find a new boyfried.
You made a difficult decision but it's over now...<br />
The next step is to lose the boyfriend..
Those around you made it pretty clear that they were not on the supportive side. It would be very difficult for you to go through that, even more difficult because of their implicit opposition. Everyone deserves better than that. It's never easy, but peace will come. You might even see that it was for the better someday.
I feel bad that you feel bad but if you could feel all the pain that a person has in a lifetime, I bet you would not feel so bad about this.
It's alright. You can have another kid with the next guy you hook up with.
I guess the time wasn't right to have the baby and even before the baby come to this life were dramas already from him and your mum, just move on and what you did was right
You did the right thing....forget it...and move on.