Am I overreacting? Or is he wrong?
My boyfriend of one year was nothing but wonderful to me. One of his female friends (who has vocalized her crush on him) has been gossiping about me for the duration of our relationship, and he and I both agreed that it seems as though she says things to him to break us apart. At first, I thought it was pathetic and took it in stride... but a month ago we got into a major fight over things she told him about me, and he's been distant ever since. Now they hang out fairly often, whereas before he never did. Despite feeling as though I have no right to tell him who to be friends with, I feel like all she's done is try to break us apart, and lately, IT'S WORKING. I told him to choose between his relationship with me or his friendship with her, and it sparked a new fight. I'm starting to feel as though something might be going on between them (which he denies). What do you think is going on? Do I have a right to feel as though she is a major problem in our relationship?