Am I wrong for telling my sister that I feel uncomfortable having her "boyfriend's" kids stay with us for a week?
The "boyfriend" choked her to the point she had bruises on her neck. I believe it was their 2 year old son who saved her life, by begging his dad to stop. They broke up, and now apparently are back together. She is coming to visit me from out of town with my 4 nieces and nephews. Out of the blue she asked if it was ok if she also brings along the "boyfriends" 2 daughters as well. I told her she could if she had to, but that I felt really uncomfortable with it. Now she is mad at me and doesn't want to come at all. I know it's not the kids fault, but I don't want to pretend like I am okay with her having a relationship with this guy. Should I have just said it was okay for her to bring them along as if they were part of my family? I adore my sis and her kids...do I have to adore his kids too? Am I just being a jerk? Thanks for any input.