Am I wrong in this? Or does anyone agree with me on this?
Ok so I was just told by a random woman on here that she didnt want me to contact her that she heard horrible things about me. I was confused massively and just didnt know how to respond to that. It actually hurt. I had asked her what she meant and that apparently she said that I am mean and kind of pushy......still didnt know where she was getting this from so I asked her to please be more specific and elaborate. Apparently she had said I have been calling women ****** and that I am obsessed with how many men a woman has been with......and that she has heard this from multiple girls. Ummmmmm one I dont really call women ******. I dont believe in calling a woman that unless well deserved honestly. Example is a woman that says she has been with over 50 or 100 guys or even 1000 and yet shes proud of it......yeah Im sorry but I wouldnt say it out loud but I would think it. I wouldnt say that to them. Anyway getting off course here, sorry. I dont think its wrong to want to be with a woman that hasnt been with a lot of guys at all. I think that to me because of an experience I had with my last encounter (I was lied to massively) I have a right to know how many men a woman has been with and that I have a right to feel if that has been too many or if its not too many. Im sorry but if a woman has been with a lot of men it tells a guy things that she wouldnt be a relationship kind of woman, that he is being compared to a lot of other guys, that he probably wouldnt be able to make an impact or impression on her even though he is GREAT guy, that she wouldnt be a faithful woman etc etc. A lot of things go into a guys thinking (some guys anyway) when that kind of information is given to them. I myself am a guy looking for a real relationship and those kinds of things do impact me. I was rattled very badly in my last encounter being almost a year ago. Six months were in fear that I may have caught something from her and I am thankful that I am clean since through those six months I was being tested. But still, an encounter like that can really rattle a good guy that actually cares about that kind of thing. Do I really want to be seen as a random number? Do I really want to see a woman as some other number? Heck no. Im not that kind of guy and I dont do one night stands. I dont like too. It has left me feeling empty and hollow and painful inside. But even more so being seen as a random guy and a number hurts when I know Im more than that. But mainly the case is that I do feel it matters how many women a man has been with just as it matters how many women a man has been with. If women care about how many women a man has been with then shouldnt a good guy care as well? Am I wrong in this? Help please.