Y r u posting the SAME question TWICE ?
No ...more like HORRIBLE memory u have there kid
Always defend the weakest.
If someone threw it out-it's garbage--
Make more friends, love more people, eat different types of food more often.
If you're awkward, take a public speaking class; if you're dumpy, hit the gym for a few months (people there care more that a person wants to better themselves than how good of shape they're in on day one); if you don't have much interpersonal interaction in your daily life, join a club or move somewhere. Life is. There are no "somedays" or "when I get enoughs"; there is only now.
If you go out, know how you are getting back, alive.