Ask opinions of others and ask them what is about you that you can change, ask advice of people who will be honest with you
well, wright a list of things about yourself like mine are...stop being so controlling and full on, relax and meditate more, get anger and stress management, lisson to other people need and wot there telling me and also lisson to my needs...try it and good luck! :)
Choose one thing and focus on it, don't try to change anything but that one thing, and just like that you will yourself to change!
I would move far away to a place where no one knows who you are and start from scratch. Done it a few times. I found my home
That won't help because every place you go , there you are again!