Yeah , grow up.
Remind her everyday. Make sure she knows what you want. It will help her serve you better. Also knowing what she wants and needs makes for a better Master.
make a profile with no nude photos. Do not say you are a "master" because people take that seriously, and may think you are full of it.
Then join any munch groups in your area and go to them, respectfully talk to any men and women who approach you, introduce yourself and say you would love to learn more about what it is They do.
Be a normal person in normal street clothes when you go, and truly put yourself out there as wanting information.
Then hopefully you get invited to a party and can observe for yourself.