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Anyone else sick & tired of living with a spouse who is addicted to gambling and refuses to get help?

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The only one who could ever intervene with either 100% success or who's word never comes back empty handed is God. My husband was addicted to crystal meth and gambling and never comming home for two years!!!!!! I was pregnant and at home alone and miserable but when in Gods timing I cried out to the Lord for three days and was filled with the holy spirit and spoke...... My husband told me "You know you almost had me convinced!" And I told him that I only told him what I heard. He never did drugs ever again nor gambled nor left me alone ever since that miraculous night!!! My gratitude in thankfulness is genuine when I thank the Lord for that one!
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Posted Oct 24th, 2009 at 4:14PM
living life for someone along with something you hate is really not the easiest thing in the world to deal with.
you may have had enough,
you may think you're nearly at your end rope..

but pls, i beg you to think about it for a while if you can..

now is not the only time you had so much difficulties..
if things are not working the way they're supposed to be, then maybe it's because you still have all the time in the world to find new ways you've never tried before.
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Posted Oct 24th, 2009 at 4:15PM
My Ex husband couldn't stay away from the horse track. Notice I said EX husband.
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Posted Oct 24th, 2009 at 3:54PM
I am sorry to tell you this, have lived through addiction my whole life and your spouse won't be able to get help until he/she hits rock bottom. It nearly always takes something drastic to happen for them to realise they need help.
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Posted Oct 24th, 2009 at 3:56PM
In our country we have a anonomomus tip off line... for problem gamblers...maybe you have it in yours... all you need is their ID number or or card details to refuse access to casinos...
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Posted Oct 24th, 2009 at 3:58PM
I've known many drug addicts and alcoholics ... but no gamble holics in my life ....

I was lucky enough to kick a drug addiction on my own without help.... but most addicts are not that lucky .....

I recommend using the techniques from that show 'intervention' to try to create a false bottom for your loved one
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Posted Oct 24th, 2009 at 3:54PM
my dad was that way... ruined many good family moments.
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