If he is attracted of what im earning, i am more concern if he has healthy savings..
being independent is not only about making money and having security economically, its also about being able to be independent mentally, to be by yourself and enjoy your own solitude
mhm it depends on the girl. Take me for instance, I L O V E being by myself which is exactly why I am very very picky when I choose who I want to hang out with. Some men find that interesting because they know you like to be alone because its better to be alone than to have bad company. Either way, you shouldn't change the way you are for men, someone will find you attractive as you are :)
About the earning more. Small men aren't. Real men don't care. <br />
About the independent part I like it. But I am a strong character.
The men I've known prefer women who are independent... they don't want to be stuck feeling like the HAVE TO take care of her. They also like that the woman is with him because she wants to be and doesn't HAVE TO be.
I have no problem with her making more money than me. She can even take me out to dinner and pay. Even better, I wish there were more.