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Asked By: Staley 56-60, F  9 months ago

yep, sounds naive but all I seem to find online are men into BDSM, or somebody's husband pretending to be single, or just using the internet as a replacement Playboy Magazine. I don't have anything against sex, but I just wonder if there are any men in the world who just want to meet "the one". No tricks, no jokes, just nice

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  1. Stang69er - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Stang69er Aug 6th, 2012 at 4:48AM

    You say honest......well most guys cna be honest, but a lot arent, the same goes for women....Most guys like a good chat and it usually turns to sex......so it does for women, or else they'd be talking to themselves.....ive done that a lot lately.....when the net drops out and you realise you just typed to your self.....lol
    there are those as you say.... dishonest m and f but in sure if you continue your search you hopefully find who and what you are looking for.......
    me...well
    I can be a real ****, nice, smartass, caring, loving, or just helpful......sorry to my inner selfs.....did i forget anyone ?...........lol
    best wishes

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  2. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 6th, 2012 at 6:19AM

    lol... you covered it all and I think you really "get" what I was trying to say. I don't have any issue with BDSM either and if I've given that impression I didn't intend to. My point was: people just have to say that what they are there for. If it's BDSM and I say I'm not (and I don't really know that for certain but I do know enough that I am curious) then it's a little dishonest to come in saying they are happy to leave it out and then start bringing it in. "moving the goal posts" make it hard.

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  3. showstar - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by showstar Aug 5th, 2012 at 9:10PM

    I met the right one 35 years ago..still going strong.
    Am I nice..well that depends.

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  4. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 6th, 2012 at 1:40AM

    I probably meant something more than nice and on reflection I think, more to the point, people who aren't pretending to be something they are not. I'm quite sure you are nice, everyone can have an element of everything inside them. It's how they choose to treat others that makes the difference. 35 years sounds like you are doing something right. *smiles* Nice = you.

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  5. showstar - 61-65 years old - male

    Reply by showstar Aug 6th, 2012 at 9:21AM

    Thanks have a great day! Do something fun.

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  6. hertoy - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by hertoy Aug 5th, 2012 at 2:19PM

    Happily married, but love to learn about other lifestyles, hopes and dreams, and humor from all over the world. I only have 4 friends because I believe to be a friend you must get to know one another...how can that work with 217 friends?
    The 4 I have, have become true friends...as if we live next door. I would enjoy a couple more serious friends that have the time to spend, and interests to share.

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  7. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 5th, 2012 at 2:23PM

    I think you could be right about the friends, better 4 good ones than a whole raft of people you hardly know. And good to hear from nice people - thanks *smiles*

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  8. ILoveAGirlInStockings - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by ILoveAGirlInStockings Aug 5th, 2012 at 1:04PM

    I'm a decent considerate person who likes himself. Because I do, I can respect others. I'm married and I like meeting and chatting with women who wear nylons. My wife doesn't and it frustrates me and it's great to meet new people and learn about them. I care about others and am gentle.

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  9. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 6th, 2012 at 3:27AM

    Caring and gentle - nice :). Nylons are lovely actually and with a seam, even better.

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  10. ILoveAGirlInStockings - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by ILoveAGirlInStockings Aug 6th, 2012 at 9:37AM

    "Nylons are lovely actually and with a seam, even better." Wow, those are wonderful words to me. Do you wear them daily or often during the week? I don't mean seams, just regular nylons? Seams are icing on the cake and make a girls legs look thin and appealing. Are you caring and gentle? I'm guessing you are. That's good to know.

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  11. Simplified - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Simplified Aug 5th, 2012 at 12:02PM

    Yes. My friends here would tell you l am.

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  12. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 5th, 2012 at 12:04PM

    Good to hear and "hello you", it's nice to know there are some. What surprises me though is how slow this question is going. Very few seem to want to own up to being "nice". lol

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  13. Simplified - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by Simplified Aug 5th, 2012 at 12:17PM

    Well, if you post it in the main section a lot more people will see it. l don't look in the Mature Topics section often and some people never do. so l suggest you post the same question there. Oh, and .. Hello you..

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  14. Fazer - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Fazer Sep 24th, 2012 at 6:46AM

    I just want to find 'the one' but have no success. I treat ladies well and have never cheated but often wonder why men who cannot say the same seem to get all the girls.

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  15. brahim81 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by brahim81 Aug 11th, 2012 at 8:59PM

    well there are good man as the bad one.I think good one are away to work orfullfill their duties and responsabilities and left immature,teens or jobless men to chat and talk dirty as a way to show off themselves.

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  16. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 11th, 2012 at 10:09PM

    Could well be. ;)

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  17. brahim81 - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by brahim81 Aug 12th, 2012 at 5:57PM

    lol yes it could be

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  18. kingviper - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by kingviper Aug 10th, 2012 at 10:23AM

    yes there is i like to think im a nice guy.i enjoy just chatting about anything.doesnt have to be sexual just good conversation anyway yes there is a nice guy still

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  19. open1010 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by open1010 Aug 10th, 2012 at 2:21AM

    As you are looking for a nice good guy, he wants a **** Star Barbie!

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  20. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 10th, 2012 at 11:17AM

    .... yes. *sigh

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  21. contrailz - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by contrailz Aug 9th, 2012 at 12:28PM

    There are probably a lot more nice guys than would admit it here, because a "nice guy" is generally thought of as weak, so not a good image for the guy to project, and not what most women look for (weakness). You have to get to know them and then make your mind yourself. They're around, the hard part is to smoke them out.

    BTW, I think it's cool that you're still answering responses to your question, and haven't lost interest...

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  22. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 9th, 2012 at 12:42PM

    contrailz that's sad that nice guys think they are seen as "weak". It takes a lot more effort for a person to live by what they believe, and I've always suspected that there are more fundamentally nice people than not. I also think that the anonymity on here often encourages people to "act out" a little and doesn't necessarily mean that they are what they seem to project.

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  23. kingviper - 56-60 years old - male

    Reply by kingviper Aug 10th, 2012 at 10:28AM

    being a nice person doesnt mean your weak.it means u respect others and there feelings nothing wrong with that i feel the world could use more people who r nice

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  24. SanJoseNativeMe - 61-65 years old

    Posted by SanJoseNativeMe Aug 7th, 2012 at 3:35AM

    Yes, or should I say, we used to until we got played by psychopaths or until our ads went unanswered and we stopped hoping.

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  25. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 9th, 2012 at 12:49PM

    I am sorry to hear that has happened to you. Keep hoping, there are nice women out there too. And I would like to apologise for all the psychopaths who have beaten a path to your door. I just hope they don't "round" on me for spoiling their fun.. lol.

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  26. maninconn - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by maninconn Aug 5th, 2012 at 7:00PM

    I come for laughs. I feel nice about that.

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  27. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 6th, 2012 at 1:42AM

    and so do I... and I get lots of laughs on here. There are great people here with a great sense of humour and I love that.

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  28. redmaple - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by redmaple Aug 5th, 2012 at 6:52PM

    Of course there are.

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  29. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 6th, 2012 at 1:42AM

    Indeed - good to know.

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  30. redmaple - 56-60 years old - male

    Reply by redmaple Aug 6th, 2012 at 6:08PM

    women define what is nice here

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  31. ald76 - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by ald76 Aug 5th, 2012 at 6:18PM

    I think there are many nice guys hanging out here...I would like to think that the folks I interact with here would say that I qualified. That doesn't mean that I am not interested in sex and enjoy discussions on that topic...but I don't "force" myself on anyone!

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  32. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 6th, 2012 at 1:48AM

    It's probably difficult to "force" yourself on anybody here. Your words give me hope. As I said before, I am as interested as anyone in sex, but at the right time with the right person.

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  33. ald76 - 56-60 years old - male

    Reply by ald76 Aug 6th, 2012 at 4:08PM

    That's the key...we can get into erotic chat when we chose...with the person we chose. There are people who are simply "pests" for lack of a better term who really make things frustrating at times...but it comes down to having respect for each other!

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  34. clintonbill - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by clintonbill Aug 5th, 2012 at 4:26PM

    Yes of course - but I think you might be looking in the wrong place for your White Knight

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  35. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 6th, 2012 at 2:39AM

    Maybe you're right. ;)

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  36. lickitysplit - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by lickitysplit Aug 5th, 2012 at 4:21PM

    I am nice, nice and married ;-)

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  37. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 6th, 2012 at 2:29AM

    ... yes you are. ;)

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  38. Pumpkinseeds - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Pumpkinseeds Aug 5th, 2012 at 3:37PM

    There are a few nice guys on here I have been lucky to meet a few.

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  39. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 6th, 2012 at 2:36AM

    Heartening. :)

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  40. compuslo - 51-55 years old

    Posted by compuslo Aug 5th, 2012 at 3:12PM

    lots of qualifiers there are nice guys but they wont be dictated to

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  41. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 6th, 2012 at 3:23AM

    You know I was talking about honest representation up front don't you? Telling the truth without compromising your privacy. I don't think I was talking about anybody "dictating" to anyone. btw: this is said in a non-threatening, friendly tone with a soft smile. Completely benign.

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  42. Looking123 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Looking123 Aug 5th, 2012 at 3:02PM

    Theres plenty of of nice guys out here. The problem is like the old saying nice guys finish last. We need to have a little bad in us to entice you. If your good to us and the sex still flows, why would we look?

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  43. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 6th, 2012 at 2:32AM

    I think it's clear that when I say "nice" it doesn't mean anything negative, it means being honest up front. And a little bad is beguiling.......*smiles*

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  44. DAVEY200011 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by DAVEY200011 Aug 5th, 2012 at 2:41PM

    Some men are nice & still like to talk about sex or bdsm as well they are often middle aged like myself & a bit bored with str8 sex or like myself have health issues & are looking for something different

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  45. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Aug 6th, 2012 at 2:34AM

    and I think it should be fairly clear that talk about sex isn't the issue here either, it's about being straight about who you are and what you're here for. Clear signposts.

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  46. DAVEY200011 - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by DAVEY200011 Aug 6th, 2012 at 12:23PM

    Well its imperfection reflects real life

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