Yes. I went through a divorce and I changed everything. I completely reinvented myself, and I became much more honest about what I wanted in my life.
It doesn't have to take long. When you're ready for change, you change. I changed everything in three months... Well, except my job. That took a while longer. I had to go back to school first. The best part is that when you do it, you get so much energy to do even more.
It took me three years and a lot of counseling, but yes. I am way better off now than I was when my first marriage ended. WAY better.
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Yes. I call it getting a divorce. After I did OMG my life is so much better.
Yes, moved out bought my own place, did it up and then got lucky and found the woman of my dreams.
I did. I wasn't very good at choosing healthy relationships, so I decided to get counseling and not date a few years and just work on changing and growin. It worked, I grew and learned a lot about me and then when I was healthy I met my husband. We've been together 10 years and he is absolutely "perfect for ME!" I chose well!