LOL... There are a zillion self-help books out there,, and although they may seem to apply to your situation when you first buy them, you may not find them helpful at all. You also may not like what they're 'saying'... We don't always like to hear the truth, and instinctively shy away from it. I guess that if you've found a good one, and you're serious about getting some advice, you should try to finish reading at least one of . Doing that could potentially set you up for finishing the others.