I am not saying that you're not right about this, bcz it's your opinion. Bit isn't that wrong about this story, you're judging people bcz they live their lifes different then u do? If u make other decisions, that's ok. But respect the ones with a different way of life. And if the so called snakes, grab your girl away, then step forward and fight for her, you really should.<br />
Besides that, istill think you're a cool guy:)
Earth Bear, mate, I think MOST girls don't sleep with every guy they meet. Some would slap a guy, who thought like that, and would really be amazed by a truly decent guy.<br />
I think the celebrity media, which ob<x>jectifies and glorifies being sexual puts a lot of pressure on these girls, even more so when they realise that there is no Prince Charming, but don't realise that Mr Right still may exist.<br />
There's also a desire to be loved and made to feel attractive- which a heartbreaker may seem to give.<br />
By the way, how would you feel about a girl who slept around but then realised her mistake, repented and reformed?
Okay, it is fine to want to stay away from certain people- that's your free will. But you are straight up being disrespectful, & you don't even seem to be bothering to beat around the bush! It is highly disappointing to read in all honesty. I completely understand that people who are like this may make you feel anxious, i experience that myself as well, but to judge them is a whole different thing. If you come across someone who is making you feel bad, all you have to do is leave, it's as simple as that! And anyway, like you've never messed up? I can probably guess what your response to that will be, but it's the principle involved that i am focusing on. What if it turned out that the perfect woman for you was like this?
But anyway, my main point is that you were judging them & it is not appropriate.
I think it would depend on the situation for me, sleeping with 20-50 people is a lot, but some survivors of sexual abuse might come under this.
I think Shari Karney, an inspirational survivor of abuse, points out that some people may cry out for help by being sexual.
Is your point that it's impossible for someone who's slept with that many men to change?
If so, how many sexual partners will you accept from your missus?
By the way, mate, your personal comment towards Rainbow was very cheap and unacceptable. How do you know she doesn't have a close friend who was, let's say, groomed into sleeping with many men?
Excuse me? Did you just call me a ****? So, you ask me to add you, yet you clearly have not read any of the groups i have joined, & certainly not any of the stories i have written, because if you did, you would know i have never once slept around if you read a certain one! I wrote a reasonable response, viewing both you, & the people in question with complete compassion, & this is how to talk to me? And don't put words in my mouth, i never said anything to set a double standard. I will not judge anyone who does these things, but i will leave that scene alone- like i always have, thank you very much. And yes, if the man was right for me, i would date him, but i don't see what that has got to do with you? And you seem to have put more words in my mouth- i never said you have to date anyone you don't want to.
No, mate, you're not wrong. We're just saying that you should look at the situation properly before jumping to conclusion. For example, a drugged andgroomed traffick victim will come under that heading.
Myself, I don't know any girl that's slept with 50 men- so is there any worth in imagining these scenarios? ;)
Do you not pity her though? I would wonder what got her to where she is? Was she abused as a child? Was she told that she was only good for one thing?
I'm not saying that I'd want to marry her or even be with her, but I would pity. :(
Not as long as there is $ or drugs
true but true it's that way.
Yes, there definitely are, i'm one :). I like to have a solid & genuine relationship before anything else!
No, some of them bend over instead. But I get what you're saying and agree.
I'm not in the age range, but my number is quite a bit less than 30. So it isn't everyone.
Just want to say I truly respect the question you asked and how respectfully you wrote it down.
I'm not one of those women. Plenty of them out there that do that for many reasons. Quite honestly I'm not!
I'll try addinf you?
plenty of em... you see em everyday...<br />
Lotsa women will not sleep with a man- in favor of a woman...<br />
Lotsa women will not sleep with a man... if he doesn't have swag.<br />
Lotsa women will not sleep with a man... if he is not a certain height.<br />
I could go on and on.. but you get the gist...
Does it HAVE to be a fail? I listed things that I have experienced, as well as common truths and notions... if you refuse to accept it for what it is, that's you guy... besides, you asked the question, not me.