Register
for October 15, 2010

Are there differences between who you are and who you aspire to be?

  • CountSpatula - 41-45 years old - female
    CountSpatula(3 votes)
    I've never had very lofty goals. I surpassed those years ago, and now I tot…
  • Caliper - 56-60 years old - male
    Caliper(2 votes)
    I always aspired to be the person that I could be, who needs all that press…

Add an Answer to "Are there differences between who you are and who you aspire to be?"

Send me an email when there are new answers to this question

37 Answers to "Are there differences between who you are and who you aspire to be?"

  1. darknight - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by darknight Oct 16th, 2010 at 2:10PM

    I aspire to be me, so no. I lost myself years ago, in trying to be who everyone else wanted me to be, but once I realized this, I set out to rediscover who I was, and have let go of trying to achieve other peoples expectations.

    Like (3)

  2. CountSpatula - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by CountSpatula Oct 15th, 2010 at 4:52PM

    I've never had very lofty goals. I surpassed those years ago, and now I totally amaze myself.

    Like (3)

  3. TheListeningOne - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by TheListeningOne Oct 15th, 2010 at 12:42PM

    Yes-Me)Unemployed,unfit,bored,sad.
    Like to be)Employed,fit n healthy,meet a nice woman,happy.

    Like (2)

  4. 9rocker9 - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by 9rocker9 Oct 15th, 2010 at 11:33AM

    i try not to be two different ppl. I just ry to be me. Where's the fun in life if u can't be who you are?

    Like (2)

  5. Connifer - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by Connifer Oct 15th, 2010 at 10:23AM

    Yeah about 1,000,000 dollars in my bank account.

    Like (2)

  6. Caliper - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by Caliper Oct 15th, 2010 at 10:23AM

    I always aspired to be the person that I could be, who needs all that pressure of wanting to be the President.

    Like (2)

  7. magnumbunny - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by magnumbunny Oct 15th, 2010 at 10:17AM

    I'm six feet tall but I have always wanted to be a circus midget..... I guess that's not going to happen any time soon:(

    Like (2)

  8. markflickr - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by markflickr Oct 16th, 2010 at 3:44PM

    The answer depends on if you have aspirations or not and whether you have reached or exceeded those aspirations in your lifetime.

    Like (1)

  9. QuestionMarks - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by QuestionMarks Oct 16th, 2010 at 12:44PM

    100% difference. I am still only my potential

    Like (1)

  10. tomogirl - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by tomogirl Oct 16th, 2010 at 10:35AM

    Two sides of me are totally different!!!

    Like (1)

  11. lrkun - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by lrkun Oct 16th, 2010 at 12:56AM

    Yes. The former describes who you are, while the latter describes who you want to be.

    Like (1)

  12. mysplitpersonality - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by mysplitpersonality Oct 15th, 2010 at 9:29PM

    Only in a physical sense...

    Like (1)

  13. bbuinthecold - 31-35 years old

    Posted by bbuinthecold Oct 15th, 2010 at 8:30PM

    YES. I am 31 years old, male, no social skills, can't dance, very fat, stupid-looking, don't have that high of an opinion of myself.

    I do want to stay male. But I want to lose 100 pounds, look intelligent, better my opinion of myself, learn to dance and become social.

    Without alcohol.

    Like (1)

  14. cgonzalez - 46-50 years old

    Posted by cgonzalez Oct 15th, 2010 at 6:59PM

    I aspire to always be more than I am. No one is perfect, least of all me, so there is always something more to aspire to be.

    Like (1)

  15. Me696 - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by Me696 Oct 15th, 2010 at 6:53PM

    I plan to start my own business in retirement and be my own boss. I want to fell free and independent; a big difference from working for a knucklehead boss and not enjoying my job.

    Like (1)

  16. StrawberryBoxXPrince - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by StrawberryBoxXPrince Oct 15th, 2010 at 6:43PM

    Only the law separates who I want to be.

    Like (1)

  17. poohbae - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by poohbae Oct 15th, 2010 at 5:30PM

    yes. i think you can aspire to be greater than what you are at the moment. :))

    Like (1)

  18. MorphAble - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by MorphAble Oct 15th, 2010 at 5:07PM

    You know, It's just real fine to be me. I'm who I always wanted to be and never dreamed I would be

    Like (1)

  19. Tsavorite - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Tsavorite Oct 15th, 2010 at 5:00PM

    Yes. In some ways no and in some ways I am far from being the person I aspire to be. I work on that daily. I make an effort to "be the person I want to be."
    Some people are dissatisfied with themselves and their lives, but make no attempt to change. "That's just the way I am." "That's just the way things are." Just resigned. I find those excuses annoying.

    In some ways I am what I aspire to be. I'm proud of that.

    In short....yes & no

    Like (1)

  20. 1053rw - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by 1053rw Oct 15th, 2010 at 4:59PM

    yes i am who i am in fact, because who i am came from my past experiences in youth growing in me like roots and that is who i am inward an outward, so far. i would not wish to know then what i know now, because then it would not be me, so i aspire to learn more as i live in today so my future is understood.

    Like (1)

Ask A Question

Answers to questions are provided for entertainment purposes only. You should never use answers to questions provided here to replace professional advice, such as from a doctor or lawyer. This page is for providing answers to the question "Are there differences between who you are and who you aspire to be?"