I am not either, but in response, I see nothing wrong with having these traits one way or the other. There are a lot of straight guys that have a feminine demeanor or look to them. in Japan it is called Bishonen. and is usually featured in Manga and Anime to having them be very popular with the ladies. All I can say is that it depends on HOW they are saying it, not on what they are saying. Simply saying you have feminine qualities does not make it an automatic put down.
I'm a guy and have been told I have feminine ways.
I act more of a man than my brother does. People think im girly since my exterior creates that projection but im sort of opposite. Not completely a man ofcourse but some what masculine.
I dunno, no one ever tells me much :/