You don't know how I wish I were.
I am but only a little while ago... and even my baby sis is 4 now so she does know that it's not her real mother...<br />
but I'd say the situation is entirely different... our oldest sis adopted us... allmost 4 years after mum passed away... and we spent some time in fostercare... so guess that's the best that could have happend...<br />
but I can kind of relate... never new my father... but I know his name is in our birth certificates and he was informed that he got twins... but up until know he didn't care...<br />
and cs either deemed him not fit or he didn't care cause he wasn't an obtion after we lost mum...<br />
kind of left me with, I don't care who he is... the only thing I'd like to know is if we have a genetical risk to anything...
I'm not adopted...but the only real life cases I know personally of someone meeting parents they had never known weren't happy endings. You should be aware how likely that really is even if you find them. They may not be interested in knowing you..or....after meeting them you may find that you'd rather not have known them.
They are people though and may have other things in mind. They may want to be part of your life all the way..Or some having not told their loved ones....might be horrified to be contacted and fear being outed. Or..they could just be the sort of people you don't want to know your are genetically connected too. They could be anything...and that's the risk you'd have to prepare yourself for i you can find them.
My mother is my blood mother but when I was 9 her husband adopted me.
In 2006 my mum got married. My biological father stepped out when I was a baby. In 2008 my mum's husband adopted me, making him legally my father. Which also means if they get divorced he can get custody of me.
hmmm...ever think you were stolen then sold to a family with more money? you said it was closed...your birth family might not have been the worse people on the planet. good luck at your search.
is she your biological grandma?
i think you should find out what agency you were adopted through, and then find out the agency behind the agency if there was one. with adoptions theres alot of paper work, and you would have to go through legal documents. theres only 2 ways either your birth mom went to an agency while she was pregnant, or lets just say the worse you were taken from the hospital by an agency and put up for adoption. you would have to go through the legal adoption records.
you would have to ask your mom. she would probably know, she may even have those documents saved and put away somewhere.
No, but good luck in your search. Where in Ohio, do you know? I lived there til I was in my 40's and might be able to point you in the right direction
ok I actually lived in Alliance in the '80's
was the hospital in Alliance? Getting little bits of info from other answers
yup.. i was adopted.. met my biological mother when i was 19 and father when i was 24.. they were both losers.. sometimes its better not 2 know.
i doubt that sweety. its been my experience that people that are self depricating are just being humble... plus ur gorgeous... u sure dont look like a loser 2 me :)
yeah.. pretty people are human too.. i guess we all the have the same feelings and doubts..i happen to like weird tho.. i like people that arent afraid to be themselves.. i say crazy stuff all the time just 2 see peoples reactions... cracks me up. lol
I was adopted at the age of 3 months, in February, 1950.<br />
My biological mother was a prostitute who didn't want any kids and abortion was legal only in Colorado, in 1949.
I don't think so...
I believe (I am not adopted)
You simply asked/ are you adopted? It's a question (not a post)