Love and commitment is actually a sign of healthy relationship and marriage and fear of commitment or love raises questions of the condition of your relationship.
Yes because I really do feel "suffocated" at the thought of forever and getting bored with one person. Yes again because I have BPD, so it gives me an excuse to push men away and keep running. If I wasn't so defective, I'd say no. I want to be in love but that ain't happening because I'm gonna **** it up anyway, so why bother. Never cheated, never had a relationship long enough for anything bad to happen..lucky me.
I respect your optimism, but I disagree. Plenty of people out there yes, but none that strong to deal with me. I accept it.
Not afraid of either...they are both good for me.
Thank you! Even if it went badly sometimes, I just consider it practice for the right one :)
RIGHT! (Sorry to yell, but I just really felt like it right then, lol)
I was ...when I was younger...but not anymore...there is nothing to fear!
Not at all.
Afraid of commitment when ure not really inlove
True if love just lasts as long as commitment does
petrified of either
iam afraid of marriage...
Are tum kyo marriage se darne lagi, Jhansi ki Rani.
coz mene mere shadi shuda friends ki married life dekhi hai... mene dusro ki sab ki married life dekhi... ya to husband pressurise karata hai ya wife... shadi k baad hi sare tensions ate hai... baccha nai to bhi tension aur bachha ho to bhi tension...
apna ghar best... aur apne friends best!!
Not afraid of it,just absolutely sick of it and trieing to find it.been cheated on but didnt do any cheating.Took all the things i learned in the 42 years of existance on this dam planet,carefully put all the"should have done"& the"treat others like u want to be treated"all together with a cup of "patience"a pinch of"ah its o.k"and set forth believing nothing could go wrong like everything past.huh,i ended up with "unbelievable dissatisfaction" in every way with myself and disbeliefe that has made me so unsure of whats wright or wrong ,good or bad,to the point that i cant even be sure if i have or could ever know what its like to be loved by someone you love.
Not at all. Just afraid of someone taking the love I have for them and abusing it.
Yes they terrify me. That's why I do it. It's a rush.<br />
Me and an ex cheated on each other on the same night once, and then rushed to phone each other about it.<br />
"You go first"<br />
"No you"<br />
"Okay, you know H___..."<br />
"Oh my God no way! You know B____"<br />
"You're kidding!"<br />
"Ya, we..."<br />
"Holy **** so did we I can't believe this!"<br />
"So do you wanna break up?"<br />
"Not unless you do"<br />
"Umm. Okay we'll talk about it when you get home, she's sleeping in the other room."
No right now I'm in a monogamous relationship.
Mostly because we have a toddler and there's just no time for that crap lately lol
for the record, that phone conversation above is the only time I've "cheated" ...
Not at all, I'm just afraid of nobody else being able to commit. I would never cheat on anyone and haven't been cheated on.
I am not....... but i do believe my husband is (it developed more over the yrs)
He is afraid of losing that which he cares for, therefore, he withdrawals from them. He lost his dad, we lost our daughter, he almost lost me --it all comes from those events.
Im not scared of love or commitment I just dont want that right now. Never cheated either. Im more afraid of being cheated on or commiting to the wrong person.
Guess its arguable either way.