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  1. coolman8 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by coolman8 Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:53AM

    Love and commitment is actually a sign of healthy relationship and marriage and fear of commitment or love raises questions of the condition of your relationship.

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  2. KoiNoYokan - male

    Reply by KoiNoYokan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:56AM

    I would agree. Even if it's based off of past events fear of commitment can definitely lead to a failed relationship.

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  3. breakingdawnOne - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by breakingdawnOne Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:30AM

    No not at all i want mine yesterday.

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  4. KoiNoYokan - male

    Reply by KoiNoYokan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:33AM

    haha good to hear!

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  5. lessthanhero - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by lessthanhero Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:24AM

    Yes because I really do feel "suffocated" at the thought of forever and getting bored with one person. Yes again because I have BPD, so it gives me an excuse to push men away and keep running. If I wasn't so defective, I'd say no. I want to be in love but that ain't happening because I'm gonna **** it up anyway, so why bother. Never cheated, never had a relationship long enough for anything bad to happen..lucky me.

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  6. KoiNoYokan - male

    Reply by KoiNoYokan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:27AM

    Like I said to someone else earlier, there are soo many people out there. Anytime is too soon to give up. Trust me.

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  7. lessthanhero - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by lessthanhero Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:52AM

    I respect your optimism, but I disagree. Plenty of people out there yes, but none that strong to deal with me. I accept it.

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  8. simplygirl - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by simplygirl Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:15AM

    Not afraid of either...they are both good for me.

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  9. KoiNoYokan - male

    Reply by KoiNoYokan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:17AM

    That's great to hear! Continue to enjoy it, it's a great thing.

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  10. simplygirl - female

    Reply by simplygirl Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:19AM

    Thank you! Even if it went badly sometimes, I just consider it practice for the right one :)

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  11. oldaccount - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by oldaccount Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:05AM

    Yes, yes I am.

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  12. KoiNoYokan - male

    Reply by KoiNoYokan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:07AM

    Welcome to the club!

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  13. oldaccount - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by oldaccount Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:11AM

    I guess it's a good thing because I'll have my walls up and not get hurt as bad.

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  14. MrSquishy - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by MrSquishy Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:02AM

    I was ...when I was younger...but not anymore...there is nothing to fear!

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  15. KoiNoYokan - male

    Reply by KoiNoYokan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:20AM

    That's a great point of view!

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  16. AnonymousButCandid - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by AnonymousButCandid Jan 2nd, 2013 at 1:58AM

    Not at all.

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  17. KoiNoYokan - male

    Reply by KoiNoYokan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:04AM

    I really am glad to hear that. :)

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  18. sgtpepper1990 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by sgtpepper1990 Jan 2nd, 2013 at 1:57AM

    Afraid of commitment when ure not really inlove

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  19. KoiNoYokan - male

    Reply by KoiNoYokan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 1:59AM

    Who ever know when there in love hah?

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  20. sgtpepper1990 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by sgtpepper1990 Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:03AM

    True if love just lasts as long as commitment does

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  21. eyes - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by eyes Jan 2nd, 2013 at 1:52AM

    petrified of either

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  22. KoiNoYokan - male

    Reply by KoiNoYokan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 1:53AM

    understood.

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  23. kanishka77 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by kanishka77 Feb 12th, 2013 at 10:33AM

    iam afraid of marriage...

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  24. Galadabau - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by Galadabau Feb 12th, 2013 at 11:41AM

    Are tum kyo marriage se darne lagi, Jhansi ki Rani.

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  25. kanishka77 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by kanishka77 Feb 12th, 2013 at 9:22PM

    coz mene mere shadi shuda friends ki married life dekhi hai... mene dusro ki sab ki married life dekhi... ya to husband pressurise karata hai ya wife... shadi k baad hi sare tensions ate hai... baccha nai to bhi tension aur bachha ho to bhi tension... apna ghar best... aur apne friends best!!

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  26. gggo - 41-45 years old

    Posted by gggo Jan 2nd, 2013 at 3:31AM

    Not afraid of it,just absolutely sick of it and trieing to find it.been cheated on but didnt do any cheating.Took all the things i learned in the 42 years of existance on this dam planet,carefully put all the"should have done"& the"treat others like u want to be treated"all together with a cup of "patience"a pinch of"ah its o.k"and set forth believing nothing could go wrong like everything past.huh,i ended up with "unbelievable dissatisfaction" in every way with myself and disbeliefe that has made me so unsure of whats wright or wrong ,good or bad,to the point that i cant even be sure if i have or could ever know what its like to be loved by someone you love.

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  27. KoiNoYokan - male

    Reply by KoiNoYokan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 3:31AM

    Love is an extremely elaborate, yet simple thing. It can send someone through a lot of pain before any optimistic outcome is reached, if ever.

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  28. crazychica369 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by crazychica369 Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:17AM

    Yes very.

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  29. KoiNoYokan - male

    Reply by KoiNoYokan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:22AM

    Any reason in particular or does it just happen to be that way?

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  30. crazychica369 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by crazychica369 Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:39AM

    I hate commitent and I have built walls up on my heart and had my heart broken every time I have fallen in love.

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  31. SpiritOfTheRabbit - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by SpiritOfTheRabbit Jan 2nd, 2013 at 1:59AM

    Not at all. Just afraid of someone taking the love I have for them and abusing it.

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  32. sumnerkagan - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by sumnerkagan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 1:57AM

    Yes they terrify me. That's why I do it. It's a rush.

    Me and an ex cheated on each other on the same night once, and then rushed to phone each other about it.

    "You go first"

    "No you"

    "Okay, you know H___..."

    "Oh my God no way! You know B____"

    "You're kidding!"

    "Ya, we..."

    "Holy **** so did we I can't believe this!"

    "So do you wanna break up?"

    "Not unless you do"

    "Umm. Okay we'll talk about it when you get home, she's sleeping in the other room."

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  33. KoiNoYokan - male

    Reply by KoiNoYokan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:03AM

    That's really interesting. When it comes to love people have so many preferences and interpretations of it, it's fascinating. So do you just have a relationship without monogamy?

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  34. sumnerkagan - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by sumnerkagan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:13AM

    No right now I'm in a monogamous relationship. Mostly because we have a toddler and there's just no time for that crap lately lol

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  35. BestCobra - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by BestCobra Jan 2nd, 2013 at 1:56AM

    Not at all, I'm just afraid of nobody else being able to commit. I would never cheat on anyone and haven't been cheated on.

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  36. KoiNoYokan - male

    Reply by KoiNoYokan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:01AM

    It takes two great people to truly commit to each other. Not particularly common. But life would be too easy if it was right?

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  37. SoulSeeker67 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by SoulSeeker67 Jan 2nd, 2013 at 1:55AM

    I am not....... but i do believe my husband is (it developed more over the yrs)

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  38. KoiNoYokan - male

    Reply by KoiNoYokan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 1:59AM

    Might be more to that?

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  39. SoulSeeker67 - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by SoulSeeker67 Jan 2nd, 2013 at 2:04AM

    He is afraid of losing that which he cares for, therefore, he withdrawals from them. He lost his dad, we lost our daughter, he almost lost me --it all comes from those events.

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  40. 5thApprentice - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by 5thApprentice Jan 2nd, 2013 at 1:54AM

    Im not scared of love or commitment I just dont want that right now. Never cheated either. Im more afraid of being cheated on or commiting to the wrong person.

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  41. KoiNoYokan - male

    Reply by KoiNoYokan Jan 2nd, 2013 at 1:55AM

    Wouldn't that be a fear of it in it's self?

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  42. 5thApprentice - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by 5thApprentice Jan 2nd, 2013 at 1:59AM

    Guess its arguable either way.

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