I have to wait until I get to my mom's later in the evening. My dad doesn't make one because there's only 3 of us eating dinner at his house.
a lot of southerners eat ham
There's no such thing. Southern culture is exclusionary.
Okay, they'd have turkey if he was over. Seriously though, most southerners do have turkey these days, but, at least in my family, ham was/is the default.
Chicken Pot Pie, and sometimes Chinese buffet