I developed very early as a young girl and along with that were my new strong and rather burning desires for boys I found cute, who were my age and older too. I officially lost my virginity (completely my choice and engineering) when I was 13, the weekend after my birthday in fact. However I had been sexually active for just over the previous two years, giving guys I liked or thought were cute handjobs initially, letting them play with me and kiss me and feel up my breasts, which eventually led into ******** later on. In truth I had a very hard time even waiting until I turned 13 to try intercourse, but somehow managed to. I was more then ready and super excited when it finally happened! Losing it was a very good and memorable experience for me, I think of it fondly. I've been very sexually active ever since.
Wow...society really is going to hell. At 13, you should still be enjoying innocent, puppy love, not losing the remains of your childhood to something with implications you can't fathom at that age. The media has hypersexualized so man aspects of society.
i lost mine at 11, like u, totally by choice, he was a much older man and it was awsome
I am 11,Did It Hurt? I Think It Would!! xD
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you are a very good girl
ok then at what age did you first fall pregnant?
Hey I know that's really young but right now I'm 12 and I'm thinking about giving it up by choice so I would probably do it in this summer or this year! Does anybody have any advice on what I should do?
yeah don't do it ,your wayyyyy to young
very exiting experience . did you have anal sex .? if yes in what age . ?
I think 13 is the perfect age. I am glad that you don't regret it :)
That's really ignorant. There are still a lot of children who are innocent even at 14 and never even think of sex and then there are girls and boy at age 11 and are ready mentally for it. Did you know that places in india and asia that girls are sold off to husbands as soon as they come of age and begin to bleed. Regardless of any factors, romeo and juliet were about 10 years apart (she was 13, and thought they dont have sex, its still a fair example), in the middle ages girls married often at the age of 12. Many, many examples over millions of years of humans prove that it has nothing to do with modern society and teenagers are continuing on it their rebellious way and listening to their hormones. And doing so is not shameful in anyway. neither is being emotionally unprepared for sex with another person. Society is just as it has always been, and teens are just as they have always been, and as usual everyone is different and matures at different rates.
actually romeo and juliet do have sex, since they need to consumate their marriage. also, it has been suggested that they were only 5 years apart.
I list mine at 11 it hert like hell
Why? I'm not judging just asking why you did it.. at 11? Had you already hit puberty?
You cant even spell and you're not a virgin!? Think about God guys!! You do these things and don't think about his consent! He is sooooo very ashamed. Of course he will love you unconditionally but, why live like that? It's disgusting. You're supposed to wait for marriage! Why? Well here's one reason, so you only share yourselves between the one you love. Qhy would you want to let a man put his penis in you when it's been in a thousand other girls?! It's not special and it's not sanitary. Just my opinion. My hormones personally are off the wall, but this is what keeps me from it. And other things. It doesn't make you anymore grown up or mature, it makes you look stupid and you're a poor example to younger girls and you're reputation is ruined. Just my opinion. . Sex is supposed to be special. For one special person. Not thousands of people or your 2nd grade boyfriend. Be wise and think of parents consent and God's consent!
i lOst my virginity 4 years ago...when i was 14 & he was 35... i don't regret it....
wow, its a perfect combination, to loose ones virginity at 14 by a experianced man. Want to know more about it
nice i lost mine wen i was 12
nOo...we were engaged but he died when I was 16 :(
Maybe I'm meant to be alone
Or maybe you're just meant to be with someone different... my grandmother would have married my grandfather's brother but he died in the war just before then. She fell in love with my grandfather some time after that (they already knew each other but weren't dating yet)... as if Someone was telling her she was marrying the wrong person.
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That's sad, I think. I'm glad I didn't lose mine so young. And sorry, a 35 y/o man who'd do that with a 14 y/o GIRL is SICK and/or a LOSER.
I dated some really nice boys at that age who were NOT pushy. At 14, I had no clue of the implications of a sexual relationship and was NOT interested in doing anything to jeopardize my ability to go off to college.
I lost my virginity at 14, I still am 14. It was only 3 weeks ago to a call girl who was 27 years old. Some say its not that bad, some say not bad at all and some say it's really bad
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I understand the losing it at 14 part, but I don't quite understand the 35 year old -- he must have been totally overcome by Mr. Testosterone, as doing the deed with a 14 year old could have landed his butt in prison for a long time.
it fells so good too for a man to make a young girl lost it
at what age u had your first anal sex ?
Would love to hear all the details.
it must have been a really beautiful experience :) I am glad for you :)
how old was your partner?
Do you still like 35-year-olds?
Maybe it was a lesson.
Maybe he did. Sometimes girls that age can very much be the aggressor. I had a friend who was 13 and she basically threw herself at her 20-year old next door neighbor. I saw how she flirted with him, he liked it, but I promise you she was the one making the moves. Then one day, she went over to his house when none of us were around, and lost it to him. So yes, I understand that a 35 year old guy should just run the other way, but I also know how sometimes a 14 year old can see the 35 year old as a challenge and turn on those charms and get what she wants.
Too* not to. And I'm sorry but you have no right to say when its okay to loose your virginity. Some people just have sex at a young age. Its not always rape
I'm still a virgin-by my own choice.
how do you have sex if you are still virgin ?
do you have anal sex
May I say ......CONGRATULATIONS...you are a jewel!
I am 16 and I could not even imagine having sex at this age. In my head I'm still to young.
U don't have to have anal find someone u love and ease into it slowly
You are. Until you're atleast 18 and married you shouldn't have sex. Good for you. (:
I can only imagine how many victims of child rape are pained by this question.
dont read things like this
what a lame stfu if theay were raped theay probably asked for it and got what theay deserved.what a lil ***** get off ep comprehencive2
lol well if u know one tell them to suck it up and get the **** over it! im pained by u being so sencituive get off here then looser!
he said nothing bad!
thats really messed up u know. How would you like it if it happened to you or a loved one??
I'm a victim... sadly. :/
Goodness. They dont ask for people to rape them!!! You wouldn't know you little ******! God will punish you. Rape and molestation is a serious thing and a life traumatizing experience. No one wants to go through that. I have friends who we're raped. **** you! It's a terrible thing!
I am still waiting.
I was 14 I'm 15 now and it was with my awesome boyfriend.. i'm glad we both lost our virginity's to each other because we loved each other so much and he just passed away last week..<br />
i will never forget his gorgeous smile and beautiful blue eyes.<br />
i can't believe he is gone :'(
Hi Nikki, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. At least you will always have a beautiful memory of him. I am sure it was a beautiful experience. If you would like to talk with someone I am happy to talk with you.
i'm very sorry to hear about your bf,i bet its very hard to deal with most of the time.i am older than you but i may be able to help you deal with everything having lost someone close myself.if you dont want to i totally understand,the choice is yours,but please dont let my age scare you away.if you need to talk,im here,if not take care and it gets easier to deal with in time,but you will never forget the times you had.
2 weeks before I turned 16. I am 37 now & still remember every moment but I still think it was a mistake & if I could have a "do over" I would change my mind & walk away!
Good for YOU for waiting. Plenty of time for that. Kids should enjoy a less-complicated existence than one with sex/intercourse.
It never ceases to amaze me how many people will allow someone to preform oral sex on them, BEFORE making love (or even just having sex) - isn't oral sex a much more intimate act, shouldn't a deeper level of intimacy stem from a deep relationship (not come before it)? <br />
I'm so old fashioned :o(
I think you are right Amanda but it seems with the younger teen population these days it is just a casual expression of liking someone and they take it quite lightly.
then that makes two of us. I can't even imagine myself in that position with a guy I don't know or barely know :(
I laugh when some one say's these days, I grew up in the forties and believe me they were having sex and a lot of it then to.
im a dude and i got down with an older girl when i was very young (i think 13 is young, especially as im 20 and only look 16 now). i dont trust women because i feel like they just want sex to feel some sort of conquest over me. i dont think it has anything to do with that but more to do with how these "women" of my generation are so ready to **** with no emotional attachement, doing it like gonzo **** the first time you sleep with someone is weird and unnattractive.
I gave lots of oral sex to maybe thirty boys before I unzipped my pants and got my cherry popped as a young girl. I wasn't eaten out much because I was afraid of the one eyed snake. Marymarthazetta read my stories.
I lost my virginity the night AFTER my wedding night! I had done the "right thing" and saved myself up until marriage, but then my first wife was too tired to make love on our wedding night. I should have realised then that something was wrong, shouldn't I?
OH DAMN. I had to jack off during my honeymoon for relief. I like you should have realized then that there was trouble on the horizon. I am still married to her, but live in a sexless (or almost) marriage.
what? weddings are tiring events!! you cant expect your wife to be ready to get it on!!! you're selfish
16. Never knew there was an 'oral virginity'.
I still have mine. I haven't even been fingered! so hah!
when will you lose it ?
19, and I'm a male!!!
21 with a woman. Proud Goldstar lesbian! so some may consider me a virgin - NOT!!!
14, with my 15 yo sister, it was gerat fun. No regrets from either.
Yes, I know, you don't think about that when your that age. My sister and I were always very close.
Sibling curiosity and exploring the differences. I'm not condoning the activity but it does happen among siblings sometimes. And you posed the question.
why would you did it with you bro if you like each other?
good for u thats awsome
Thats f-ed up 0-0
What do you think is the proper age
I think its the state of the mind.anytime u are ready for it is the proper age.I was ready at 22
Can I get back to you in about 30 minutes?
18 with a 26 year old. I may have started late but I got off to a running start.
10 orally 11 vaginally
same as me so ;)
It's young yes but my reasearch has told me some ( very few) handle it well and all the responses are in order. It is rape if it is not what the little girls wants with a little boy .
i lost mine when i was turning 14 in a month..to my 15 y/o boyfriend, I kinda wished I waited a little longer...but I love him and we are still together...all i can say is sex is good (:
At about age 36... with my wife-to-be.
I don't think it's SO good to wait until age 36. I can understand religious beliefs, but otherwise, that's extreme.
In my case the reason for the wait was twofold: I had no interest in females until a year or so before that time; and secondly I was determined to avoid the consequences of choosing the wrong person - who must be at ease with my philosophy of life, and in fact totally with it. Several females were after me (from primary school age and up), but although there was one other whom I considered, I knew that her Christian beliefs would not fit and would cause trouble. Finally my wait was rewarded with marriage with my Twin Flame... such a privilege! I was well guided!