u can only keep up a charade for so long. but lie as long as u see fit.
Be myself and disappoint everyone because they aren't worth pleasing if they can except me as I am.
Is keeping your family out of your business not an option?
No one's an entirely open book. Your family members probably do and say lots of things that would really disappoint you, but you'll also probably never know about it. Keeping parts of your life that don't work well together separate is an age old skill.